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I was thinking maybe we could just like keep seeing each other if me da is going to reconsider me dating in a couple of months anyway but that probably not a good decision I don't know it's hard not...

So I asked me da if I could start dating now I'm older and he said he didn't think it was a good idea, he said that he's proud of how well I'm doing in school and me grades and he doesn't want me to...

I know me da isn't the problem I know I am. I can't help feeling the way I do towards me da. It's complicated anyway I have got heaps of advice thank you I don't mean to ask so many questions and be...

Me general attitude and be have or at home. I do what I have too, I do me chores, I babysit when they want me to I go to work, I do what they have asked me to do. My attitude I don't complain I'm...

Thanks for the advice your totally right, I,do just do things behind me da back because I think he won't like it and I want to do it so I haven't changed much that way still doing what ever I want...

I've pushed me parents too far me ma couldn't handle me behaviour so she sent me to live with me da. Now I've done some messed up things while living with me da. I'm trying really hard to improve me...

I've just made things way to difficult. No matter what way I look at it it's not going to turn out well. I'm not going to sleep with him I already decided that I don't think I'm ready and after...

He's only a year older than me. I'm not so about asking him what if he says no then I have to break up with him if I don't then I'm lying to me da and he will be more likely to keep an eye on us....

I know he going to be pissed at me. Like I said he doesn't want me to date until I'm older probably thinks ill end up getting pregnant or something that's how much he thinks of me. I don't really see...

Thanks I guess I already knew I should have told me da some things already. It's hard to except that I need to listen to what decisions me da makes for me, I know he will do what he thinks is the...

That's really hard to talk to me da about everything. He doesn't know I have a boyfriend and he won't find out anyway unless I tell him. I don't want to break up with me boyfriend I love him.

What...

I don't like drama between me and me da. Things have been going really well we get along I do as he asks I don't argue. What more could I do. I'm not lying I haven't told him any lies I just have not...

It's hard to hear that because I feel like I have changed but I guess me da sees it the same way you do so maybe I haven't. I would like to be able to tell me da things but worry about how he would...

Your right I know I have given me da every reason to be judgmental. I just don't want him to be that way forever. If I didn't do the things I did then he wouldn't have a problem with me dating, and I...

Therefore, you can't keep anything from him, and you shouldn't have to if you aren't doing anything bad.[/QUOTE]
I don't think I'm doing anything bad! I just haven't told him about certain things...

I guess there are things I haven't told me da about and I feel like I want to talk to him but if I do Im unsure how he will react. It will probably just cause more problems.

I haven't told ma da...

No just thinking about everything and wondered if I had of talked to me da if things would be different. Now thinking there are things I keep from him not because I'm not aloud to do them but I worry...

Do you think that you should tell your parents everything? Are there something's,that's its all right to keep from them? I'm confused should you tell everything even if it will make them get mad?...

Oh god talk about scare the hell out of me. Thanks for the advice definitely didn't think about things like that. Guess your right not worth the risk all the complications it would cause and I'm...

To answer your questions counselling is going good sorting me stuff out hard but feels better to let go. Yes I am still taking me medication not a big fan of it but everyone says they can see a...

Yes this is the same boy, I ended up telling me boyfriend about the stuff I was holding for his sister he wasn't happy with me but he said he understood he took the stuff and I haven't really asked...

Me boyfriend and I have been dating for a while he's a nice guy love him heaps. Things have been getting really serious lately and he wants to have sex I'm a bit worried I love him but I've never had...

She's not really me friend her brother asked me to hang out with her at school he thought I might be able to talk to her about her about what I went through and maybe help her I said I would hold her...

It's not a big deal he won't really mind he likes this boy they get along really well and he lets me hang out with him he doesn't drink or do drugs or anything he's not suppose to. I just wanted to...

Me da doesn't know I have a boyfriend we've only been seeing each other for a little while so thought I'd try and wait a little before I told him. I'm not trying to lie to him but he always tells me...

I would just get rid of the drugs but I'm a bit worried there is a fair amount I don't want to be responsible for them. I texted her to come get her stuff but she hasn't replayed it's the weekend so...

Thanks I guess it's pretty simple I don't want to hold the stuff and I don't want me da to find out either or get caught with it. I am trying really hard to move away from how I was in the past and...

I feel guilty cause of what she says to me " If you were me real friend you would hold it for me you know if I get caught I go to Juvie this time" "you just pretend to be me friend to make me brother...

Yeah I know I have issues but I thought I've getting better I've been staying out of trouble and trying to improve me relationship with me family.


It's drugs some money and a phone I know I...

Does it really matter what it is don't want to sound rude so sorry if I do but I just don't want to look after her stuff but I don't want to upset anyone either.

Me friends at school gave me some stuff to look after for her, I didn't really want to have to look after anything but she's me boyfriends sister so I kind of felt like I didn't have much choice....

Thanks for the advice will try and see how I go. I feel mentally drained at the moment just thinking about everything I haven't even talked about it yet. I'm kind of stressed out I don't go to...

I just don't want to feel everything that come when I think about it. They already know what happened its not a secret. I don't feel like it has any power over me but I don't know it's just hard to...

I guess I'm just really scared to talk about it. I go to me counsellor for an hour twice a week if I talk about it then I have to let myself think about what happened and once I do I don't know if I...

I understand being able to talk to someone is very helpful, has helped me a lot to understand things, see things and deal with things in a more grown up way. I just don't understand how talking about...

I've been going to counselling for a while now, I really didn't think much of it at first as it wasn't really me choice but after a while I decided to give it a try and find that it helps. I feel...

I don't mean to complain so much and you are right I do sound like a small kid having a tantrum. I'm just frustrated at the whole situation, I feel like its me own body I should be at least able to...

I don't think I have ADD, but I didn't really even know what it was until I looked it up. I don't know maybe I do I just don't like the way the tablets make me feel I just don't feel like I'm me when...

I have to take medication everyday for ADD prescribed for me by a pediatrician. I hate taking it but me da always makes me he doesn't trust me always checks me mouth to see if I've swallowed them....

I don't blame me self for me parents separating me da left us when I was little I couldn't care less he has his new wife and baby and me mum has her boyfriend their all happy. I do miss me mum heaps...

Yeah I get that now just thought me da taking everything out of me room was a bit much. But what do I know I'm just a kid. Oh well guess its off to school for me see what the day brings.

Yeah not going to happen after the what me da did today I don't intend to speak to him and will be staying out of the house as much as possible problem solved.

No he didn't make any suggestions about what to do. I am very confused they want me to get out of the house more but when I asked before about netball they said no it would interfere with me...

Thank you its nice to hear. Not that I believe it. I spoke with me da this morning about the whole not wanting to go out having a bit of time first, he wasn't to impressed thinks I've been wasting...

I never really thought about them being concerned to me it just feels confusing what they want. I thought I was trying to do the right thing, not making them more worried I don't really understand...

Me mum and da don't live together anymore, she lives in a different state. So she just rings me to talk I miss her heaps. I would never treat her like a servant but I am surprised thinking about it...

So you all think I should just talk to me da and tell him I don't want to go out because I know I'll just well I don't know what will happen but I don't want to do anything else wrong. Will they stop...

I don't know if they are harassing me but to me it feels like they are I use to hear from me mum once every fortnight now she's ringing three times a week and texting every day. I don't mind it's...

I will try asking counsellor for suggestions on how to talk to me da, I'm not really much of a talker at counselling. Talking doesn't really work that well for me. I don't want me da to know that I...

Yes I'm still doing counselling, drug counselling anger management corse that many things I'm doing it makes me head spin but yes I'm still doing everything they want me to. I know I've put them...