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So I have practiced quite a lot being social with women. I feel some progress but I am not there yet. I have consulted therapists and also so called dating coaches. I have managed getting 3 dates in...

I am trying to socialize more, meet new people that hopefully can result in that I will meet a woman to share my life with. But I don't feel like I'm very successful.

OK, you have a that this...

No particular events really. I just don't think I am making a lot of progress. So the mood is a bit down. Just hope for some positive thoughts and encouraging cheers.

I think I could use some encouraging comments or thoughts.

Believe me, I will never ever tell a woman again that I am a virgin and suffer from it. If I find someone I will definitely let her know after we have been together for a while unless she guesses or...

My sincere apologies. I had no intention being disrespectful or being offensive whatsoever. What I meant was that I never had a relationship with a woman, sexual or romantic. I am sorry if this was...

Primarily because I'm very introvert and shy. Having said that, I do have a good job and have no problem with communication there as I am quite a good expert on my field. I play music with some...

I have no real close friend. And among the few friends I have I can't think of anyone to whom I could admit that I never had a woman. Yes, it's true that I lack a lot of knowledge about romance and...

As I have no one to talk about this except for my therapist I hope you don't mind if I ask you for some positive support. I am in a bit tough period and could benefit from some optimistic cheers and...

Thanks. And I certainly see your point. I will not even mention "this is my first time" if I get another change although I am quite sure I will be nervous as hell. However, I would like to ask you;...

I know you are right, guess I just was looking for some sympathy during this tough period. Pathetic, I know...

I'm about to give up everything. A while ago my last relative died so I have no relatives left. I thought I had a few friends but no one but my boss (and she probably checked just because she is my...

I've been on therapy a while and I thing this have helped me be somewhat more secure on myself and have helped me conversing with foreign people, particularly women. However, I have still not managed...

Thanks! Glad to read this!



Thanks for sharing these thoughts. Actually I find advice from women more helpful as part of what I need to learn and understand is how women feels, thinks, loves...

I have started too look for options for therapy, but if there are coaches that would appopriate for my situation that definitively sounds like a good option. Any idea what is available in the Boston...

Thanks Enigma1999. I appreciate any advice based on women's view today. I have received some good thoughts but welcome any additional thoughts or suggestions. One question I have is whether anyone...

Agree this could be a help on the way but I know that I would never be able to look at myself in the mirror if I ever paid for sex. I have thought about it many times but, no, that will not be an...

Thanks for understanding! You all may know better than I what is too soon and what is less soon. However I would like to say again that regarding the 2 women, they both suggested that I should spend...

I have looked to find women among friends, colleagues, at bars, next door, at the grocery store, on internet. So I think I have tried quite well despite of my poor self esteem. Even if you have...

Thanks! I believe people (both men and women) generally starts with sex today than in previous generation. I'm also happy that you don't understand these women because this tells me I stumbled into...

OK, you have a point. I wonder, did they deliberately stay away from sex and relations or did they try to find someone to share their lives with? I am sure I can have a good social life with some...

With all respect, but I doubt that 90% of the females and males ever were virgins at the age of 38 anywhere. The average age for givining birh has always been much lower and I don't think the age of...

I'm still in Boston but have had thoughts moving back to Sweden alhough I don't have that many contacts left there. My parents are gone and have no other close relatives there (or anywhere for that...

I live in the Boston area. The first time I was rejected because my virginity was when I lived in UK for a few years, the second time happened in Boston. I was born and grew up in Sweden but moved to...

Well, that's exactly what happened. Let me tell about it. First time: We were on our 3rd date, had seen a movie and she wondered if I wanted to spend the night at her place. So I got extremely...

I guess I am clean, have my hair cut and then and wear clean clothes. I am not the fashion type of guy but I hope my clothes don't match too bad.

I'm very shy, particular when it comes to women....

Well, there are better looking guys and probably worse looking guys. I am not styling myself too much as this would probably not be me. I'm quite thin (perhaps too thin), about 180 cm (5'11). I...

Thanks for the responses so far.
@Wondergirl: Of course I know how man and women are constructed and the logistics around sex. Regarding how to make a woman feel special, I guess I have some ideas...

I'm a 38 year old male who is still a virgin. I have tried to get a girl since I was 17 but has failed throughout. Why? Well, I wish I could understand that myself. Some reasons are that I have a...