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    I'm not a teacher but many of them don't make...

    I'm not a teacher but many of them don't make money, a lot of them are already buy things from their own classrooms because of budget cuts etc. A lot of the costs are past on to us as parents. ...
  2. No he's not the dad, he gave up the rights 3...

    No he's not the dad, he gave up the rights 3 years ago. His rights wer terminated. He was unable to take care of her and dhs would have taken her if we didn't. We've tried many attempts to make...
  3. Social Security office giving out private information!

    I wasn't sure what law section to put this in-so I put it here. This has cause so much problem for us. To explain a little bit more. We adopted a child about 3 years ago-she gets an SSI check each...
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    Not sure on this one, but I have a dell laptop. ...

    Not sure on this one, but I have a dell laptop. You might try replacing the laptop. I bought my battery on eBay and got it for an reasonable price. Is there a short in your cord-I did have that...
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    I think it's overboard to make teacher &...

    I think it's overboard to make teacher & administrators wear uniforms. I think some rules are just ridicious. Who is going to pay for these uniforms?
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    The pediatrian wanted me to file charges on her. ...

    The pediatrian wanted me to file charges on her. But since she was unlicensed it would be harder to do. She also said she heard my daughter screaming in the other room and said she must of pinched...
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    The best thing to do is go there unexpected and...

    The best thing to do is go there unexpected and check out the place. When my child was in an inhome daycare I just felt something wasn't right so I started just showing up at different times and...
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    They sure can. We are going threw a settlement...

    They sure can. We are going threw a settlement company now, to try to settle with them before they garnish our wages.
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    I agree, call him back. Just be yourself. See...

    I agree, call him back. Just be yourself. See where it goes from there!
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    My toes, that's right... you wanted to have fun...

    My toes, that's right... you wanted to have fun and laugh. Lol
  11. Question: Abortion?

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    I think you have to make a choice that you will...

    I think you have to make a choice that you will be able to live with all your life. For me their was never a right time or had the money to do it. But you know I would never change having my...
  12. Question: Am I pregnant?

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    You might be, but you also maybe wishing it so...

    You might be, but you also maybe wishing it so bad that you feel symptoms. Might be hormones doing it.
  13. Question: Could I be pregnant?

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    I spotted some, very light and then stopped. I...

    I spotted some, very light and then stopped. I was pregnant. All 3 times. Although I was never regular.
  14. Question: Growth under arm

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    Don't mess around with it, get yourself to the...

    Don't mess around with it, get yourself to the doctor. It's better to be safe than sorry. There maybe nothing to it or it maybe a cyst or something more dramatic. It that is the case than the...
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    Sure, I believe you guys could make it work. You...

    Sure, I believe you guys could make it work. You both may have to compremise on things to make the relationship work. Maybe this time apart was a good thing for you to see what your missing!
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    I think it was just an accident and not much more...

    I think it was just an accident and not much more you can do about it. There may have been something in there that really hurt his feelings. I would give it sometime and then try to explain it to...
  17. Question: Will I get him back?

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    I think you really should go on with your life. ...

    I think you really should go on with your life. You need to try to get over him. First loves are always the hardest and at times I still think about my first love and I've been married 11 years. ...
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    Sounds like your going to have to get a lawyer...

    Sounds like your going to have to get a lawyer and fight them on this one.
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    Don't ignore the situation, she is crying out for...

    Don't ignore the situation, she is crying out for help. My sister tried committing suicide, and I was the one that had to deal with the situation at the time (I was called). Of course, no one asked...
  20. Question: Help me

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    Sounds like you need to go back to your doctor...

    Sounds like you need to go back to your doctor and they will either have to change your medication or increase them. Also-should get some counseling to help you express your feelings better.
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    Yes, if you think she is having mood disorders...

    Yes, if you think she is having mood disorders you need to get her help. Once they evalutate her they will probably try her on different meds and dosages to get the right one for her. It sounds...
  22. I think he's has to consent otherwise it wouldn't...

    I think he's has to consent otherwise it wouldn't be a legal adoption. Does he know he's the father? Also you may to to court if he knows he's the father and has nothing to do with the child and...
  23. Question: I Fake My orgasm

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    I've been married for 11 years and still have yet...

    I've been married for 11 years and still have yet to have an organism with my husband. No need to fake having one, it's just some women don't accomplish them. You can go to the gynocolgist and talk...
  24. Question: Virgin at 29

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    Go with your heart, the right man will come...

    Go with your heart, the right man will come around. If you decide to have sex then just make sure that's what you really want. Some men just want you for sex, those are the ones to get rid of...
  25. When I read this I felt the poor girl was stuck...

    When I read this I felt the poor girl was stuck in the middle of her mother and you! It was controlling of you to tell her to fight with her mother to stay with you. She probably is overwhelmed and...
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    I would call and see if you can settle with them....

    I would call and see if you can settle with them. Maybe they will settle for 50 percent of that. We are working with a settle group to settle on outstanding credit card/medical bills. It never...
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    How old are you guys? Guys have sex drives at a...

    How old are you guys? Guys have sex drives at a younger age than when women start having them. Heck once a week sounds really good to me. Lol Wait until you get married. With children lucky if...
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    Have you thought about getting some kind of (for...

    Have you thought about getting some kind of (for better lack of words) getting him somekind of diaper or pullup to where at night. I know my daughter would pee on the floor as a way of her having...
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    I really think you should rethink relinquishing...

    I really think you should rethink relinquishing your parential rights. It's a decision you'll have to leave with the rest of your life. What if things don't work out for her and her husband. You...
  30. Question: Splitting sibling

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    I think they can split the children up, although...

    I think they can split the children up, although I would hope the courts would consider the circumstances and what's best for the children.
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    Well first of all I just wanted to let you know...

    Well first of all I just wanted to let you know that laws have changed and it's not always an absolute the mother will get custody of the children. My sister just went threw a divorce and he was...
  32. Question: Hyphenated names

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    I don't think so, my niece had a baby and she...

    I don't think so, my niece had a baby and she decided put put the baby's last name the same as the fathers. But she could have put her last name on birth certificate. Now he's a loser and doesn't...
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    I know exactly what your going threw. I was...

    I know exactly what your going threw. I was going threw the samething with my 7 year old adopted child. I did everything, tried loving her, discipling her, rewarding her etc. I would have bite...
  34. Question: Custody

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    I don't know if there is much you can do. My...

    I don't know if there is much you can do. My sister had the problem where her ex-husband was letting their 2 young children stay up late and would even take him over to friends house where he was...
  35. Question: Moving out of state

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    Not for sure, but when you have joint custody I...

    Not for sure, but when you have joint custody I think you have to have his permission or go to court and get an order to do it. Check with you lawyer, you don't want to end up losing custody of you...
  36. Question: How do you get...

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    Confused? Do you want to give up your rights to...

    Confused? Do you want to give up your rights to your child or file a petition to get custody of your children?
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    You have a right as the father to see the child. ...

    You have a right as the father to see the child. Take her to court and file a petition for visitation. If you are paying child support and a fit father than there is no reason for them not to grant...
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    The judge still make you have financial...

    The judge still make you have financial obligation. So if your doing it only for that reason then you should think hard. First of: are you going to have regrets later on in life. Second: think...
  39. Question: At age 7?

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    Some curiousity is normal. Has she seen things...

    Some curiousity is normal. Has she seen things at the age she shouldn't be seeing. Or could she herself had something sexual happen to her. I know with the 5 year old I adopted (prior to adoption)...
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    I do feel bad for you. They should talk to you...

    I do feel bad for you. They should talk to you and leave the children out of it. I think sometimes teachers go to far anymore. It's one thing to try to help but to put their nose in where it don't...
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    When my daughter was a baby she did the...

    When my daughter was a baby she did the samething. Don't pick her up right away. The pediatrian told me that they have to learn to go back to sleep on there owns. You baby was probably having a...
  42. Question: Being the evil dad

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    Well I believe in being consistence with...

    Well I believe in being consistence with disciplane is important, but don't go overboard on them. They are young. As they get older they will appreciate you for being a good parent and setting...
  43. Question: Heartbroken mom

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    I lived at home until I was 25 years old. I...

    I lived at home until I was 25 years old. I remember when I would get home I would go straight to my room in the basement and would barely not communicate with my parents. Not because I didn't love...
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    We had someone's parental rights relinquished and...

    We had someone's parental rights relinquished and it's not a very long process. The lawyer will file a petition in the courts and then there is a hearing where you make statements and then were...
  45. Question: Confused son

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    Your first responsibility is keeping your child...

    Your first responsibility is keeping your child safe. So if that means keeping him from him until he gets his act together than that's what you have to do. If he is threatening you and your son you...
  46. Question: Baby was taken

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    You can have CPS findings (such as confirmed or...

    You can have CPS findings (such as confirmed or unconfirms) on child abuse and it doesn't matter if the charges were dropped or wasn't enough evidence to do criminal charges. Did the CPS confirm the...
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    Most times now aday, the judges give shared...

    Most times now aday, the judges give shared custody. Like 1 week with one parent and then the next with the other parent. Or 3 days out of the week with one and 4 with the other parent (this is how...
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    I don't think as a parent of children the about...

    I don't think as a parent of children the about the same aged children, I would ever leave my children home along at night. It's one thing leaving them home for a couple hours. To many things could...
  49. Question: Stubborn baby! HELP

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    Ignore her tantrums, unless she is hurting or...

    Ignore her tantrums, unless she is hurting or ruining something. She wants attention and she knows that she will get if she does it. Start a place for her to go do timeout (usually 1 minute for...
  50. Yes you can-you need to be consistent with your...

    Yes you can-you need to be consistent with your discipline. Tell him that if his behavior doesn't stop you will take him to the car and next time he won't be able to go. But you have to follow...
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