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What spectacular advice... I'm overwhelmed by the absolute truth your words hold. Wow.

Yeah, very true. Thanks everyone for your help.

Lol, I definitely don't have any feelings for him! It was nearly 2 years ago. I remember all the reasons I broke up with him.

My ex knows I have a new boyfriend. He doesn't care at all.

But...

By the way when I say "coping", I simply mean with life in general. His mother died last year and he started first year Uni this year, so I know some major changes have happened in his life.

Hmm... Yeah, that's a good point. I don't even really know what made me want to. I guess I just want to see how he's coping... Maybe I shouldn't meet up with him... Soo confused...

Thanks for the advice. You all make some great points...

I agree talaniman... a one time meeting would certainly be enough... and like xxariesxx said I wouldn't want to stir up old feelings...
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My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 16months. My ex boyfriend and I were together for about 9 months and things didn't end the best. In fact, my ex and I haven't seen each other for...

It is hard to understand what you were missing from "Jack"... Could you talk to him about everything? Perhaps you found yourself more open and able to talk about things with these people you met...

xxariesxx is completely right! Your daughter does not deserve to be treated like that. Unfortunately my advice would have also been to go to the police... it's quite outrageous that they can't do...

Would he be devastated if you left because of how much he loves you or because of all the things you do for him?.

It does sound like you spoil him way too much and he is just taking you for...

You need to have someone in your life who loves you and only you. Someone who feels so lucky to have you because of the person that you are. This girl does not deserve you if she is thinking about...

It's perfectly understandble for you to be worried. You shared a relationship with her, you loved her and deep down there is probably always going to be a part of you that cares about her.

It...

I tried talking to my boyfriend about all the things that have been upsetting me lately. I told him I was unhappy because he hasn't made any effort to see me lately and that we don't talk as much... ...

Good for you!! Best of luck! :)

No worries! Best of luck with it all! And believe in yourself! You are better off without him!

Wow! That's quite a situation...

It is very difficult for you if he refuses to leave. I guess if that's what you really want then keep pushing it and maybe even seek legal advice on what to do...

Ok... So I just received a text message from him asking me how my day was and telling me he misses and loves me... I don't get it! Does he actually miss me?. How can he just sit back and not make the...

I'm sorry, but if you truly did love her then her weight wouldn't be such an issue... Have you ever seen the movie "Shallow Hal?"...

Seriously, if this is the way you feel then she deserves to be...

It's always worth a shot. How old are the two of you? It may be worth it in the long run if you eventually end up living together.

Do you think that she is?. If so, what brings you to that feeling?

Thanks!. You are definitely right!.

I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. It must be very difficult to cope with especially since you were with this man for 9 years! I think it is very insensitive of him to bring over his "new...

I'm really sorry to hear that it ended between the two of you. Try not to dwell on it too much and don't hold on to the hope that he will come back.

At this stage in your life perhaps you should...

You really shouldn't feel so bad about yourself. You trusted this guy and he destroyed that... It can happen to anyone!

My advice is to stay right away from him. It doesn't sound like he has any...

That sounds very similar to my situation. He always has some excuse... Thanks heaps for the advice. It really sucks being the one who has to make the majority (if not all) the effort. I just feel so...

I am so confused. I really need to stop complaining about the situation with my boyfriend, but I just don't know what to do...

We have been drifting a lot over the past few months and I can't...

... That is rather confronting... But I guess you're right... It's just hard... We've been together for nearly a year and a half and there have been so many good times... I just don't understand why...

No worries! Good luck with it! I hope it all goes well!

I'd say at this stage just let it continue the way it is going and tell him that for your next date you are going to be the one to surprise him and take him out! (That's when the picnic comes into...

Ok, first of all you must be pretty conceited to actually think that telling her you cheated would "demolish" her life. Yes, it would be extremely upsetting and painful for her to get through, but in...

It is never easy starting a relationship with a messy situation. It positions you to question the type of relationship you would end up having if it continued to get more serious in the future.
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The man shouldn't always be the one to pay, but considering he is the one with a full time sustaiable job, compared to you who- a struggling college student I guess it's not really a major problem if...

You've just proved to yourself that there are other guys out there and ones who will possibly be a lot more supportive and appreciative of you and your time! Seriously, you deserve more than what...

Thanks for the advice... You are right. I really do need to just focus on my exams at the moment! I just want to stop stressing about him!. Grrr... Still I do have my whole life ahead of me! :)...

I am sorry, but in all honesty if someone betrated my trust like that I would have an extremely difficult time trying to get over it. Why did you cheat? If you truly loved her, why would you...

You should never let anyone make you feel worthless and don't allow any garbage!. you should never feel like you should apologise for every time you reveal your true feelings. The best thing for you...

It is less than a month before my Year 12 exams are over and yet my boyfriend is offering me no support!. It's not just that... There have been so many little things bottling up, leaving me so...