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In January I was reading through my boyfriends texts to find out that on one drunken night a girl who he called his “white elephant” (aka the girl that got away) kissed him. When I confronted him...

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I constantly feel empty and I really do not know why.

I am 20 years old and in a sorority, most recently I was the Vice President of the governing body of all the sororities on my campus and...

This is really tricky but it sound like you are a really good man besides the emails and want to keep your marriage strong. A huge issue here obviously is trust and commitment and making sure they...

Does anyone have any tools to battle what I am guessing is hormonal related depression? Honestly I am a very happy person but when I have an imbalance or am at the wrong part of my cycle I am so self...

In my suggestion you need to be there for her of course because her child doesn't deserve to be impoverished for her mistake. However, I would influence her to put the child up for adoption. If you...

I have the same relationship issue my ex, 1st everything and he has dumped me SO many times and caused me SO much pain. Do not go back to her and do not talk to her there is no point if you two...

Hey! So I did not know really where to post this problem. But for me, I am in college in a sorority and I know a lot of people and everyone likes me but I do not have any close friends and I never...

When I was 12 I felt really over wieght to and now that I look back I really wasn't. I allowed my insecurities to stop me from joining clubs and meeting people. I bet your mom has felt the same way...

To jmjoseph: I actually came on to get someone to tell me to do the right thing everyone thinks I should go with my friend

I have decided to go with the first boy and suck it up but I just needed...

Hey guys! So I have this problem that I can't seem to wrap my mind around its kind of silly but I can't make a decision. So I am in college and I am part of a sorority and every semester we have a...

I am having a problem concentrating. I find nothing interesting or challenging and anything that is challenging I do not want to do it. Its like my brain just can't wrap itself around anything...

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Its hard to confront friends esp when you know they might not react well and might not even change. The best thing to do is grow a back bone and say no. NO I will not come to school when I'm sick, NO...

OK I am pathetic and I want to know WHY I am so in love with an . Despite his amazing qualities that have me head over heels he has cheated on me multiple times, dumped me three, never showed me off,...

I am so mad and dissapointed and pissed right now. The Sales guy at the att store today was so unhelpful and now I can't sleep. Is there any way to get the threaded messaging on the impression?

I have, and I understand their work completely, it when they make plans with me then cancel the day of. When I talk to them about it they promise to change and say that they want to hang out too and...

This is more of relationships with friends but I'm wondering if nc works or what to do

Two things, when I went on this site after a break up I went nc and changed A lot but I changed so much that...

She is not an enemy, its not like a pursposeful thought out thing its just the way she is, not spiteful just thoughtless?

Thank you for the advice I was thinking along the same lines as everyone...

Hey! So I'm a hostess at a restaurant and one of the girls just quit leaving an opening! One of my best friends works for her dad but wants another job and she asked about mine and if we are hiring...

He was a jerk, just be glad you found out sooner then later. The people on this site often have been through similar things and are often right. Now the thing to do is politley go nc with this boy...

Another way to build confidence is to looking in the mirror (once a day, once a week, or once a month) and complitment something specific and new about yourself and focus on the positive!

Friends with benefits always leaves someone heart broken and fast. Especially at young ages. Save your physical connections with someone willing to take care of you and commit to you. You deserve...

I am confused about what your first part was, I agree taking time to look at each industry would be good but at the same time I don't know exactly what revenues I could get into, like physical...

Hey! I have talked to counselors at my school about this, yet none seemed to help! You guys always have great advice so I thought I would take myself here :)

I am currently going to be a sophomore...

This is a great time to go out into the world as your own woman and grow so much! Fill the space he's left with yourself and complete yourself. You are worth it, I MAN will come along and you want to...

If any phsycic or tarot card reader wants to help me I would be SOO greatful:

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me in December and I was devastated, he came back for the summer and seems...

Is anyone else feeling like all they want is to be pretty and happy?
In this world with all of its pressures and lack of wiggle room I feel like its hard to build a meaning full life, I find myself...

I'm with talan on this one, look girly you were the other woman, you had sex with a taken man. That makes you a slut. You purposefully are hurting your "best friend" you need to grow up and realize...

Ihave this problem too kind of, I think it roots from lacking faith and trust that people won't hurt you or accept u. I know I've been hurt a lot and feel super ugly all the time (though people tell...

Carly man - I watched it and it was interesting but to be hoenst its all just beyond my capacities.. the purpose of everything and immaturity of people confuses me to no end. I am happy and have...

Hey guys! Is anyone struggling with the WAY post break up/ my ex has come back and used/abused me again? Here's some background

3 year high school relationship
Dumped me in late nov 2008
Got...

I understand I'm a fighter too and when I just gave up on my 3.5 years because he wanted someone else I went to this site and started nc but I never fought and it was SOO weird but honestly when you...

I'm so happy to hear this! It really is a shining beacon for all those going through break ups :) congratulations on everything and keep giving out advice!

Hey guys! So I've been a pretty frequent poster on this site. It really helped me get through my break up and guys NO CONTACT WORKS! Its hard but SOO worth it.

Anyway. (ex broke up with me nov 1/2...

Clough I'm interested!

I feel like there might be a problem with me. I'm usually happy but someitmes I get depressed. Its like there are voices/feelings in my head telling me how everyone hates me and how I am alone and...

I'm going through a similar situation. Honestly, we both need to have the strength to say good bye. If a guy really wants you and loves you and its mean to be then he wouldn't put you as a back up....

The point of nc is to get over the ex and move on. However, being in a similar boat try this tought: use nc to get over the relationship and move on and create a stronger relationship with yourself...

Thank you that's one part of what I think to. But at there other thoughts that anyone has?

sorry if someone has said this before me but repition is always good ;)
anyway. You parents aren't living your life. Choosing who YOU spend YOUR life with based on what THEY think is stupid. Sorry...

If you want to do something cute and personal, experiences always make great gifts. I would say take him somewhere on an original date. Maybe go for a bike ride with a picinic setup at the end? And...

Recap: my boyfriend of 3 years/high school sweet heart/first love went away for college, left me in November and became boyfriend girlfriend with a girl practically 2 weeks later. I went on this site...

Thanks guys! That's what I have been thinking too.
The reason we broke up was long distance and wanting to let each other grow and be "free" in our own ways during our first year of college. I agree...

Hey guys! So I was on this site maybe 5-6 months ago where my high school sweetheart of 3 years broke up with me and went out with a girl the next week. I went straight to nc /limited contact and...

So I have this new boyfriend and ever time we walk around together we ALWAYS seem to see this same type of big black/brown dog... it's the ones that look as big as bears and are SUPER furry... anyway...

My ex... after being with me through all of high school... the week after we break up he starts dating another chick... I went NC started to heal and such and then like months later he calls up and...

I have this horrible problem and I don't know if anyone can relate. But with me, I meet a lot of really great guys and il really like them and ill go for it and within the month ill have them asking...

Since your a freshman and captain it could be jealousy... or do you boss the other girls around? They could be upset about that you know? I think more details need to be given

Alrighty guys, so I have this issue. I go one one date or meet a guy once and they feel like they have to define a relationship. I just want t have fun and get to know someone and not feel all...