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How do I refinish an old bar that my dad made? It appears to be aluminum or stainless steel painted with possible lead paint. It has a wooden top, maybe layers of particle board. Any ideas?

I am curious why you want to be with a man who would do this to his wife?

And if something is said that might be hurtful to someone, then we might say something. Just be careful. Thanks!! :)

Look, I hear that you are saying not all teenagers are going to listen to advice and we need to remind of safety. But I think what Alten and Scott are asking is that you be careful how you say...

I agree with the above posts. Postpartum might be a possibility, plus the loss of a relationship, and being a single mom can feel lonely. Joining groups is a great idea, and seek professional...

If you are questioning ANYTHING about it, you are not ready! The way you feel about yourself will be in someone else's hands and that is not any position to put yourself in. Most girls your age are...

You are chasing a fantasy. You have not lived with her as a wife, so you do not know what life is really like with her in it. So your feelings are based on fantasy that it will always be this. It...

You are a very good writer! :)
Well, I guess the first question that comes to mind is... what do you want? If you were to "say something" what would be the purpose? Do you want to be on friendly...

Back off... he will respect you more! If the relationship with his girlfriend ends, let him come to you. If it doesn't, then you saved yourself some drama!
Your age is a very hard age,...

If you feel that he is treating you less than you deserve, then I think you have a right to have a voice about it. What do YOU want, and what do YOU want to do?

I am not saying it is your fault, but if you want a relationship to work, you need to start with you and your responsibilities.

It seems like there is a huge gap in your story. What was your relationship like with her growing up? Seems like you both have high expectations and there is a lot of water under the bridge. ...

It is possible to not know they were having a break out if it was early.

She is very disrespectful to you. Everything you have described is not normal, including you seeing your neighbor's privates! And the fact that she drank and was all over him with you there... she...

Sometimes it all depends on the plan. YOu let them know you are willing to help, and they will contact you if that is in the best interest of the children at this time. You can call to check in from...

Yeah, professional opinion is the best option. They will ask questions that can help understand where she is at with grieving and her thoughts. They can also help understand the incident with her...

The feelings and grieveing process can be much more difficult with a suicide death. A lot more confusion, anger, questions come along with the loss.
How old are you? I would recommend therapy...

I am so sorry you have to go through this! You are in a difficult situation, both emotionally and physcially. Where do you live? What do you want to do? What do you want help with?

Yeah just be honest about what it looks like... then ask him of you can answer! :)

Ask him if you can answer it next time?

Your family needs to call a crisis number when she becomes violent. They can come out and assess the situation. She needs to be taken to get a psychocological assessment done to see what is going...

That is a big decision to make, and only for that one person to make. You do not know the barriers someone goes through. They may have fears and they should NEVER be forced to share that part of...

You need to take things one day at a time. Why did your relationship end with your ex? What do you feel for him? And you need to allow relationships to progress naturally, not make a commitment...

How old are you? You need to work on accepting that is how he is and making things the best you can for you. If you do something idependently for yourself such as getting a phone and working, keep...

If you want my opinion, I would not suggest having a relationship AND meeting your daughter at the same time. If the relationship does not work out, your daughter and son will suffer again. I would...

What do your parents think or want for her?

I would imagine that your feelings are normal after a loss. Why do you not want to tell your therapist that you are not okay? Let her know that you do not want to take medications but you really...

How long have you been together?

No no no!! You are normal. And be glad you did not jump into something, you dated, know what you are looking for(at least working on that) and are being strong person for someone who will be in...

I am sorry you are feeling so down. I want to commend you for knowing what is getting you down and wanting to make things better!
You said that you have an idea of why you are cycling, what is...

It sounds like you are interested in knowing. It is probably best to continue moving forward with your life and not give her the chance to hurt you again. But if you decide to listen to her, make...

Talk to him about it. How did you see his Facebook message? DId you hack his account? I would tell him the truth if you are marrying him. It sounds like you need some extra security... and telling...

I would suggest asking her on a date. Take her dinner or something that she likes doing. Then take her home, kiss her goodnight, and call her the next day. Take it slow. But take her on a date. ...

CHuck, I agree. Those works are not good. I just did not know any places to eat in the area he said we were going. He did not like that. Haha

HAHA. Love it!

Thanks for that. I think I just don't want to have to put up walls... I have slept over at someone's house after a 3rd date, just sleeping though! I am not stand offish, just don't like to be...

Look for a therapist in your area. Find a female. They will ask you what you are seeking help for and let them know what you told us. I am very happy to hear that you really want to work on...

Tell us your story!

Thanks you guys! I will have to keep you updated. We are supposed to be going out tonight, but I have not heard from him. I texted his earlier asking if he made plans and he said Yes he will call...

I guess I should add this was a blind date, I had never met him before. And in sitting close, I mean he was touching my leg, leaning against me, holding my arm as he talked, kind of smothered. ...

How do I tell him? Wait until he does something that makes me uncomfortable? Or tell him before hand? I do not want to come across as unappreciative or not interested.

I went on a first date about 2 months ago and have only talked on the phone once in between then and now. We are going on a second date tonight. He is a nice guy and I want to get to know him...

My answer to your question... you want more, you hope he will come around, and you are not able to see the outside behavior. I am sorry, but you deserve better, you want a relationship, he does not....

Give us more...

You can also do things like sending him things, or silly games or journals to swap. Silly and fun things. Look up on the internet ways couples stay close across miles. :)

You have a few choices. How long have you been together?

You need to decide to trust him or not. If you do, and you have a good relationship, then tell him what you need to feel more secure...

SEX THERAPY!! It can be fun!

You need support from a trusting adult. You also need counseling to address your decisions and your cutting. You do not seem like 18, you do seem 15. You are not emotionally ready for a...

You would need to talk to a doctor to do an eval and rule out a medical condition.

You have been so patient with her, and you have put up with a lot! She just leaves and does not tell you. She has no respect for you and she has not been honest and not communicated with you. She...