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The switch I got is here:

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It's a Single Pole Double Throw (which I interpret to mean One On-Off Polarity and two possible options about how the switch...

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Thanks, Wally. These are solid answers.

I repaired two other lamps with the same switch problem; but with this one, I got solder all over the place and decided to replace the switch. If I could...

The chances are excellent. You are providing a stable, loving home for her. Her biological father is not giving her anything, which says he doesn't want the responsibility. A judge will see that....

Hi,

1- If a light fixture has a label that says "don't use anything larger than a 60 watt bulb," which I presume is about heat generated by an incandescent bulb, is it safe to use a new, energy...

We grew together, Vanheart, all of us.

I'm very interested in understanding how we (you, in this instance) learn to attach ourselves to other people, how we make and break bonds in various...

Van,

Congratulations on making it to this juncture. By helping others you might just complete your healing. Way to go, dude!

Tao

Chances are, he will know one day. Either your child will want to know his/her biological father or you will feel compelled to tell your child the truth. It's a question of when.

Your first...

He's in denial about it but it seems that he's overwhelmed with the responsibility of marriage. On top of that, fatherhood. Mostly, he's happy, but, part of him feels suddenly pinned down in a...

Let it happen, dude.

Stop spreading yourself around and spend some time alone. Stop looking for the feeling you want to come from other people. Pay attention to yourself without judging yourself. Find out who you are....

I just saw your last post. Cool statement.

Don't be sorry, Van. I don't think that anyone on this thread has any expectations for you; you can't disappoint.

You've got the formula: experience...

Also found at: Dan Gilbert asks, Why are we happy? | Video on TED.com

Van

Go to Brain, Mind, Consciousness and Learning and watch the talk by Dan Gilbert about being happy.

Tao

Hi,

I'm trying to change the text associated with a calculation field (;ct) that was set up by somebody else. This is the text that appears on the printed document, but that doesn't show in Layout...

Hi Y'all,

I've been away for a while, and for some reason, wasn't getting notices on new posts. Glad to see the love and liberation continue.

Looks like this is carving out some real space in...

Thanks, Bill. That is a thoughtful answer. But I'm looking for something different.

Mitigate means to make something bad less bad. That something is negative in the sense of good or bad, not in a...

The dictionary defines "mitigate" as: (1) To make an offense or a crime less serious or more excusable and (2) To make something less harsh, severe, or violent

Both definitions are about making...

So, you can now turn your healing process into a long-term learning process. This will give you a practice, a steady, enjoyable discipline that you engage yourself in, and that gives you benefits...

It's great that you cut loose with your female friends. Yeah, Boye... I hope you make your Monday deadline, and the work is superb.

Now you are free to get as deep as you want, Van. You can go...

Gutsy answer. I know that you know this means facing some demons.

You might be glad to also know that every demon is a potential ally. They are keepers of your secrets, guardians of your keys to...

What is your inclination at this point? Are you inclined to give it a rest, or reduce the charge you feel (pain), or dive deeper into your psyche and figure out how to resolve the underlying pattern,...

Practice presence.

tao

A window is open and it's Opportunity Time: What does the past catching up with reality feel like? Where does that change muscle tightness in your body? When you let go, what happens? What sits just...

If you want to resolve the core problem, there are worlds of stress-reducing resources that you can tap into: yoga, tai chi, hard training, subtle training, meditation, NLP, Stress management...

There is a good chance that you have a sleep disorder combined with unmanaged stress and maybe a blood sugar issue. The yelling, kicking, and flinching when your body is supposed to be passive...

You can work through your problems and solve them with a good therapist. Tell the truth. Lay it all out and free yourself. You will be glad you did.

Tao

Hey Van,

It might not always feel like it, but you have come a long way. It's good to hear from you.

OK, so everybody is going to bust you on the "self worth fallacy," and they should. You have...

Simone, you need to see a therapist now. This is the time to stop torturing yourself and get professional support and advice from someone near you who can see you and interact with you face-to-face....

There is still work going on in you, Van. Some parts of you are sorting and organizing old information related to women, relationship, and associated meaning. It may have nothing to do with her...

You know where this is heading. She will crap on you whenever she feels like it, using or not. You will be boring unless you are distracting her from who she is. Stay in this relationship and you're...

Jack Kerouac!? Wow! Those were my Major Counter Culture days!

Enjoy it all.

Tao

Oh, and one more: Pilgrimage by Zenna Henderson

Amazon.com: pilgrimage the book of the people

It's a great SciFi metaphor for the rejoining of parts.

I do hope you will answer my question...

What kind of works are you into? What draws you in so you get lost?

I'm currently reading How to Win a Cosmic War: God, Globalization, and the End of the War on Terror, by Reza Aslan and find it...

I don't recall if I have recommended it to you, but there's a lot in A General Theory of Love:

Amazon.com: a general theory of love lewis

Check it out and see if it's a genre that you like.
...

In my experience, there is no healthy alternative to grief. My dad died when I was 13, and it took me a long time to deal with it. I resisted and held on, and denied my pain. When I finally let go, I...

Cool. If you haven't yet done so, this is a good time to read The Prophet, by Kahili Gibran.

Amazon.com: the prophet kahlil gibran

You are growing as a result of all this! Your "project" is...

So, how's your art project going?. ;0)

Hey, that's a fine piece of inner work. Yeah Boye! You're a big step closer to freedom.

Keep the flow going in yourself and you'll find that your positive...

Tell him and immediately schedule couples counseling with him. If you are truly done, it will come out in a therapy setting with the support of a professional, and in the best possible way. If you...

This must be very painful.

To start, scan through your narrative above and see the words I highlighted.

Then, consider your son's training from an stranger's perspective. It looks like you...

They know what they are doing. Consider her words:

"We are both headed off to college this fall (I should also add that travel time between our respective colleges are only about 30 minutes.) and...

I respectfully disagree. You can end up being lifelong friends. There has been no insult or betrayal between you so there's no reason to "discard" one another. As you get involved with school and...

Enough is enough, one thinks. But the schedule is within you. All I can suggest is to let it pass throughout your being, read the Katie book (You'll be glad you did), get some exercise, get to work,...

You are doing the right thing by breaking up the way you are. You think clearly enough to let go of each other for your mutual benefit. Even though reason leads this decision, overcoming your hearts,...

The more you let this wash through you the more complete will be your release.

Let go.


Tao

Everybody has to sort out their own chaos alone. You've got a lot of pain now and with it you've got an opening. As hard as it is, look at what you can learn about the patterns in the chaos. There...

Keep your senses on the alert for signs of that release process beginning. When it comes, and it will come, enjoy the ride!

You'll have earned it.

Tao

Dude, where did all that parts work go? You did some nice process in yourself in the heat of things, and got closer to the part(s) still hanging on. It might have been hard, but recall the feeling...

This girl is not that important. This is what's important:

"I feel like if you don't like to/cant dance, then u have a big problem. prom is so far but will come by very soon. i don't know what to...