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Hey all :) so this is pretty much a little diary entry I wanted to vent in. Apologies for the long message, feel free to comment as it will be appreciated.

So its been roughly two half months...

Thanks guys. I have no idea why she berates me so much. Our relationship was far from perfect but she had equal responsibility as well. She makes many excuses for what she did for no reason. It...

What helps me is literally staying busy all the time! I'm struggling to be alone with myself. I hate it!

But make as many plans as possible and stick to NC! :)

If it makes you feel better I...

So had a few good weeks, been very busy. This is the first day I have been sat alone. Quite hard actually!

My ex messaged me on Facebook berating me saying I don't look genuinely happy. Then over...

Cheers all. This has been my longest relationship. I keep replaying events in my head. I want to write letters and text but I know this would do no good. I don't think I will ever get closure. Nobody...

I am doing as much as I can within my budget! I have even had to get out loans to accomplish what I want for this big upheaval in my life. This is includes a dating course I went on the weekend,...

You avoid contact and literally stay busy all the time!

Yes back to NC. Nights are the worse at the moment, waking up in cold sweats and in the mornings. Struggle to eat to and just look after myself and our old flat.

I realise this is going to take a...

Cheers all! The loneliness of my flat where we lived is the worse! Coming home to the silence. So empty.

The worse thing is I went to see a week ago before she went away and we slept together and...

Yes thank you all.

I have been doing a lot to keep busy and to change things.

I am hurting particularly badly today at work.

She is in my thoughts ALLL day! Every day. It hurts when alone....

I am only starting to be friends with one ex of 2 years ago now. Its taken me 2 years to be able to see this girl with no feeling.

I can talk to her about who's she been with no issues.

This...

Here I am again. Year and half relationship over. Before that being best friends for a year.

The girl I lived with (also have broken up before see past threads) came back from a 3 week trip with...

Ahh well life goes on will just have to deal with it now.

Maybe were be mates one day.

The worst bit will be going home as I've been in London for three days. Going home to where we spent our...

Thx all. My friends, also hers are ashamed of her.

Its quite unbelievable... really just weeks ago we were best friends. I could rely on her to support me in everything and then just all of a...

Well I spoke to her/text her. She said she was fed up and it was over.

She then said: That I couldn't give her enough. I should have asked her to marry her... loads of really horrible stuff. She...

Hey man. Yeh it really sucks. It's happened to move every time I go through a breakup. Guess what a year or so later? I am glad my ex's dumped me. We weren't right for each other.

It's good your...

We talking weeks or days here tali?

I understand neediness is not attractive. Thing is she was clingy and needy to.

We both were.

I don't understand how you cannot be upset at the end of a relationship. Because you're a man you...

I am back again. My now ex has finished with me. She is 20 I am 28. The pain I feel is extreme. I have not slept for 3 nights, cannot eat, destroyed my apartment in rage. We met over a year ago as...

My girlfriend has previously mentioned joining the army. She lied to me 'supposedly' to stop me from being upset. This will mean she will be gone (England) for the best of four years. I have said I...

Sounds to me like she is no longer interested in you. She has low interest which means she no longer wants you and no longer sees you as a long term prospect.

Unfortunately it hurts like hell and...

Well we sorted it out. Friday I saw her.

I now have to work with my issues of being to needy... and her potentially leaving to join the military.

I also think I am possibly more into this than...

When someone you care about hurts you it's the hardest thing to deal with. If your not ready to give up then give her a taste of her own medicine. Stop being so available, clingy and make a life away...

My advise would be to cut your contact. Go out and get a great life away from her. Make sure she knows this through Facebook for example. When your have a great time and life invite her out as a...

I have spoken to her on the phone for an hour. I have made small progress. I have just have to get her to arrange to a meeting... she said she may come and see me Friday... I think she will pull back...

She has been confused for ages. Her life is a bit up and down with career direction etc. We have only been seeing each other a few months. We were friends for a year previous - where I helped her...

The on off 'section' was her doing. As soon as we got back off holiday she said she didn't feel the same then said she did. She was 'confused'.We then got back together for a week and split at her...

I posted recently about a girl. I am 27 she is 20 A brief background follows: I've been friends with a girl for a year. It turned into more a few more two months ago but she was consistently off and...

You need to build up a bit of comfort with her then hang with her outside sixth form in groups then you can get her alone ;) For example parties :)

Also please try to preoccupy your time with...

This is a long story but I hope you will be able to offer advise:

I am 27 she is 20. Originally she was a student at a school I worked at but met her through another student I knew a year ago 4...

I left working in secondary schools as support staff in 2011 and since the end of 2012 I have crossed paths with three ex students (mainly due to facebook) who I had not seen for a good 3 years.
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No such thing as the 'one' there are lots of people who you could probably click with. You have split up. She's with someone else. Time to let it go and work on you. Honestly the only fix is time, no...

I lived in the states for a year. Quite a few others I knew had relationships ongoing throughout the year they lived in the states with people back in the U.K. I also knew people who had...

Wouldn't even bother. She knows where you are. If she wanted you, you would know about it. Let her be confused in her own world and get a life away from her. Go no contact, delete all her contact...

You need to stay busy, meet new people and get on with your life goals. No contact will help. You will not forget him but removing contact and therefore confusion will help :)

I still remember my first girlfriend 'first love'. It was a nice few months. She was 17 I was 20. That was 7 years ago now. Took me a long time to get over it but I did. Recently added her on...

Sounds like he likes you. If you like him ask him?

She has low interest. Be a man and cut her loose for your own emotional well being. Really do you need or want constant confusion, up and down emotions and not knowing where you stand?

Do you...

You have not really described much of your relationship or how long she had to get over her last relationship.

If it really is affecting it then you will have to make the decision to call it...

I rarely think of my first 'love' but now and again she pops into my head. I moved on with no contact and quite a bit of time.

I have her on Facebook now and she's not as attractive as she was,...

What the person above said is good.

I think its key to be able to be happy alone without a relationship to make you. You should have an active social life and hobbies / career which take up your...

What was your actual question?

Do you still see this girl?

If you have not seen her for a year.. I would have expected you to have moved on by now. A year of no contact should have been...

Be a man, walk away. Don't take any cr@p from females who don't know what they want. Get busy and plan your diary. The best revenge is to live your life amazing without following them or chasing them...

Stop acting like a little girl and grow some :)

Seriously what your doing is not attractive. Go out and have fun away from her. Word will get back to her sooner or later. Go meet some new girls,...

I am kind of going through this at the moment and have done with others in the past.

As long as you stick around he knows he has you. Time to get real and realize he's confused and has low...

You are 30. Not to old or to young to meet someone new and have a good life. You need to stop messing around and get rid of this drama before you end up at 40 going round and round without a...

Stay away then! Why put yourself through all the confusion if your ready and she's not?

Go no contact.

No gifts!

What do you actually want out of this other guy? Friendship or romance? Once you have decided this then you can make your decision. For example you want to be friends with this guy (then go see him...

I suffer from insomnia as well but do not take drugs for it. When life throws a tonne of c**p at you if you can deal with it than that makes you a better person.

Any contact with this ex...