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To be honest, I feel that Rob is doing the right thing. Why would you want to be friends with a guy you cannot trust, I feel he is doing the mature thing by cutting contact with Tom.

To be fair, I...

But Tom thinks that I have betrayed his trust by telling Rob. Tom is now threatening suicide and says he is feeling very depressed.

They are meeting tomorrow and Rob tells me he is going to cut...

To cut a long story short..

I've got a big friend (Tom, around 24 stone), never really had a girlfriend, not even really a kiss. I introduce him to my other best mate around 4 or 5 years ago. My...

Gorillas, ha.. I love the Irish.

Yeah, but she's not out having fun. She came onto me, I turned her down so she snogs every man in sight, what does that tell you? I'm telling you, some of the boys were not pretty lol.

But I know...

I was living.. I was fine.. I was thinking about her, yeah.. but that was all, no urges to break NC (I was over 2 weeks).. till I bump into her..

I'd have been fine if she hadn't of been with 3...

Lets keep this going.. was on day 19, before I bumped into her..

What number are you on?

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Hello all,

Its been a while but dazt is right back on amhd..

Basically, last I heard from my ex was that she had got a boyfriend.. so I beg for her to come...

It has now been 15 months since me and my ex have broken up. In March last year, we decided to completely break up and I went through a spell right through to July of not seeing her or talking to her...

I think it's farrr easier for a girl to find a new fella.. reason being, if the girl is even half pretty, all they have to do is throw them at a fella and that's it.

For us fellas, it is a lot...

I'm with Rome.. nothing excuses flirting with your brother and you should tell your brother a few hometruths about loyalty and how to be a brother!

As for the girl, get rid of her. You can do...

It does take time and if you have been with them for 3 years, it's going to take longer than 3 months. Keep busy, try new activities, make new friends and you'll get there.

Day 18.. before I broke it through MSN (I have now deleted her address), it was like 16 days.. if only I had kept it going..

Once I had around 4 or 5 months until she contacted me again.. when I...

I know how that feels to feel like you need someone who understands you and shares the same interests as you. I go through thought patterns like this. It gets easier after a while of no contact.
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Stop worrying :D! Patience is a virtue.. if she wants to end it, it wasn't meant to be..

Very true. You learn a lot when you join this website don't you?

Anyway - it might not be what you think it is. But, if it is, you've been here before and you got through, you can do it again.
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You will never get over this man until you cut ties completely, no matter how hard it is. It'll be worth it in the end. You have wasted 7 years, you don't want to waste any more. Be strong.

If the worst comes to the worst, take some of your own advice mate.

I love Christmas and I'll still enjoy this festive period but in the back of my mind I will be thinking of ex at times. I always hated new year, this one is going to be as twice as bad. Never liked...

Anybody spending their first Christmas in a couple of years single? Sometimes it's hard, sometimes it's exciting, it's a bit strange. Does anybody else think of the relationship you and your ex had...

Sounds like my girl mate. We just have to stop contacting them and ignore them when they contact us, because my ex and your ex are young.. immature and care about no one but themselves!

Well we did all that when we broke up 8 months ago! But she doesn't know I know that she's seeing another boy, I don't even know if she is. All I know is that she chose to go to the cinema with...

She didn't really lie to me, she just didn't tell me that she's been meeting up with another boy when she's supposed to be dating me! But that's probably worse than lying.

Still on no contact,...

Move on! If you keep ringing him, he's going to think you're some kind of stalker. Stop making a fool of yourself, if he wants you, he'll come get you.

If he doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be.

It really is true.. time heals everything.

I went n/c with my ex of 2 and a half years. After 6 months I was over her..

For the first few months I would have done anything to get her back but...

Well I have stuck to the no contact since. Almost a week now..

I keep thinking about how she came back into contact 6 months later, telling me she still had feelings for me and she still loved me...

I'm back in N/C! Welcome me back guys, lol.

Cold turkey it is! I sent her a very drunken message the other night saying that, "Things are so confusin but I still love you" and she replied the next day asking me was I drunk! She said that she...

Thanks mate and that's cheered me up getting a comment like that from a man of your intelligence :D!

So do you think I should back off and show little interest? Or go cold turkey with her?

Yeah, I suppose that's one way to look at it. When we had broken up, I thought she was completely over me and never thought we would ever see each other again.

But then I think, if she hadn't of...

Well, I don't really know how things are going to be honest. We last met up around a month ago, it was a good night.. we went and got something to eat, then I went back to hers.

We bumped into...

Mate, me and my ex had broken up for 5 or 6 months.. talked to each other a few times in between but not for long and bumped into each other a couple of times in that 5 or 6 months.. each time we...

Thanks for your support guys. I will take things easily and slow.. not show too much interest and will let you know how I get on.

Well, I can understand where the lot of you are coming from but I honestly don't think that she's running back to me because she's just broken up with her boyfriend. She told me that all she did was...

Hey again everybody.. I have split up with my ex for 8 months now.. She got a new boyfriend a few months later but has now split up with him (she told me she split up with him because she knew what...

Well I don't know what I was talking about earlier.. I'm such a walkover for her. Watching my friend dumping his girlfriend after she cheated on him and then seeing him all over her every time she...

My intentions? I don't know.. it seems to me that neither of us are over each other.. and we aren't exactly friends..

It's obvious to me that she's missing me.. and I'm missing her. I'm so...

Well my ex texted me again yesterday nearly two weeks since our night of romance (if that's what you'd call it).. I didn't text back until today..

We chatted about some stuff, (we actually did a...

She text me first thing in the morning after that night (it was Wednesday night).. she told me she regretted nothing and that she meant everything she said on Wednesday night. But since Thursday.....

After being single for 6 months and finally got over my ex.. I bump into her on a night out.. she tells me she still loves me.. I end up sleeping with her and then regret it all the next day.. WHAT A...

Yeah Chuff, and guess what she text me back?

She told me that she's not giving me back my old shirt because it reminds her of me! So I just said, "look, I really want it back, you have plenty of...

I broke N/C today after a very, very long time.. and not because I was weak, because I'm over my weakness. I am over my ex-girlfriend. Now you read my posts from a few months ago and you'll see from...

Yeah mate, but we broke up mutually.. nobody dumped anybody, we both agreed to the break up. She texted me 3 or 4 times since we broke up, I never texted her back once until the last time she text me...

I'm finding it really hard to grasp that my ex has a new boyfriend! Her new boyfriend is a lot younger than me, he's wayyy different looking from me (I have short hair, he has long), he has...

I'm a bit drunk. Found out tonight my ex has a new boyfriend! I just checked her Myspace when I went home! Ahhhh! I don't know why I'm even bothered.. it's 4 months since we broke up.

For the...

I've thought a lot about my ex in the past couple of days, not sure why. I think it's because we were texting each other last week and she said "chat soon hopefully".. bad news. Found out there now...

Good lad, Bigbird.

Now, the next time I come on here, talking like a big nancy boy.. I expect you to kick me up the arse :D

Come on Bigbird, you're stronger than this! Pull yourself together man!

If, IF she has a new man.. I'd pity him if I was you. He's going to go through the same thing that you're going through in...

Well, my ex texted me at half 2 in the morning the other night.. asking about her bike that is still at my house! That lead to other conversations and we ended up texting for a couple of hours.

I...

Good on you pal! Yeah, it's going good. Positive thinking like I do most days, going out with friends later so just wasting time until that time comes. How about you?

How long you been broke up...