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That is usually a reason quite a few young women get into trouble with idiot men... they need a warm body beside them. And all I ask is this, where is the self control ?
Yes that "something to...
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Love is not confusing.
It is how we as selfcentered individuals intereact with love that is confusing.
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To be intimidated... means to being fearful.
You are fearful of this woman.
Why ?
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You have a serious problem that goes way beyond this lady. All she did was to bring these issues of yours up to the surface.
Your self esteem is low
Forget this lady and focus on the REAL...
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Let me ask you a simple question that may sound strange...
Do you know yourself ?
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Think of it this way. She knows your "husband material" and so she is being pragmatic to not "burn her hut" while she goes out into the world to experiement with Tom, Jim and Harry.
You are...
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Question: What happens if she decides to become your Woman. Will you be able to keep up the cocky, teasing game ?
You know time has a way of eroding the masks and games that we play.
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The wisest thing you can do is to remain single for a while and continue with the improvement work.
Do not try to show her who you are becoming. Let her see it for herself in a natural way.
You...
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What is your primary goal in life ?
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Are you of "Japanese" ancestry ?
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You are selfish and cruel !
My advice, be a real man obey the VOWS you took.
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Do not beat yourself too hard we all make mistakes in life and that is how we learn.
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Dude... that is a pretty immature plan.
It is manipulative and dishonest and shows you do not have the BALLS to talk to this girl and do it yourself.
This is not how you use a wingman.
But...
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One of the greatest pains humans, especially males, can inflict on themselves, is to love a person who did not earn it.
I am sorry, but where I am from love has to be earned.
Nothing this woman...
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What did she do for you to make her so valuable to you ?
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Well the fact is we have little details to go with. For all we know it could have been the men who gave the problem.
Some men marry beautiful women and end up miserable when they realise that...
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Do not ambush this girl with your physical signs of affection.
She has to give you her clear signals that she is willing to be touched.
Let her take the lead in this department. If she likes...
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Please keep your cool and do not get frustrated or confused.
Deal with this, with poise, and a clear mind.
Make sure you get rid of any vindictive, vengeful, hurt-baby, feelings.
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It is not your heart. It is your craving.
My son resist your urge and give HER the chance to return your call.
If you don't you may run the risk of having her think of you as a scary,...
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If you both want it you can both make it work.
But I ask you this, what foundation do the two of you have to make for a solid relationship ?
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Wow... 7 years is a long time.
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You ever notice how relationships these days are HIGH SPEED
Like how we live our lives in this "modern" world.
No one takes it slow anymore. We rush headlong into instant gratification. And...
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Sometimes we men get smitten with lust for a woman.
We stop thinking clearly and sometimes let our sexual appetite confuse us and we make bad choices.
So if it is not sex then... what is it ?...
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You guess ?
Sex is on your mind then... you want it from her pretty badly right ?
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I asked because we men often let confused women come into our lives and unconsciously sow the seeds of confusion into our minds.
It is not their fault but ours.
We let their confusion become...
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I bet that for most of your life you have been confused. And as a result you are fearful and anxious. Sometimes we let confusion define our lives and the choices we make. So the next question you...
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I could have sworn we told you to not let your ego get in the way and not to think negative things ?
Is that difficult for you to do ?
Does it make you feel better to think like this ?
Grow...
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Do you want a relationship ?
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It is not hard.
You can begin to help yourself by keeping a journal.
In this journal you want to explore and answer a simple question.
Who are you ?
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Why did you really push this man away ?
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Second step...
Do not betray the trust she has placed in you by being passive aggresive.
Third step...
ESTABLISH SELF CONTROL
What I am telling you is this. Be a man.
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The first step...
DO NOT SNOOP, STALK OR FURTHER DEGRADE YOURSELF ANYMORE WITH THESE NEGATIVE ACTIONS
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To be honest dude. You letting your ego ride you. Stop reving your mind so much and take your foot off the gas.
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Whenever our self-esteem is low and we are not truly happy or confident with ourselves emotions like these will arise in our relationships. Especially when our mate shows us their dark past.
In a...
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Your little girl being in a state of ignorance is the WORST thing for her right now.
9 years old is 'not to young' because women mature earlier than men.
She can actually start seeing her...
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It is pretty simple.
The first thing you need to do...
DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY.
If you really love her, you will chill out and be patient with her and not internalise it on yourself or...
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Take these words with a grain of salt.
The pain you would have felt from this break up would have been much worse if you did not spend some time for yourself.
You reasserted your own identity...
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The first thing you do is control your lust.
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Often when the sexual past of our love interests bug us, it is because of our fragile ego and unchecked insecurity.
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Dude... it is not killing you softly. Your only going through withdrawl symptoms like any junkie. You need detox. Stick with the program.
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Remember this time is for you to redefine and refine yourself.
To assert you identity for your own bloody survival.
You are not concerned about asserting anything to her, only yourself.
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So my friend... do you have any great passion in life ?
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If you have thoughts like that then YOU are not ready to see her.
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In Western cultures we are seldom raised to control our emotions.
Our strong and wild emotions sometimes run counter to the instinctive and wiser voice inside us that is there to preserve our...
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In case you didn't realise, teenagers' are usually the worst group of people to ask questions in dealing with relationships. They are just finding out about life.
Take momincali's advice and use...
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It is as easy as I say.
Try it and see.
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LET HER DECIDE how much time she wants. She is the one that has to decide what she wants and So do you
Use the time gained to decide what you want to do with the rest of your life.
What...
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:D call it a break up letter then.
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