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    No I am not a doctor but I am very well qualified...

    No I am not a doctor but I am very well qualified in a related field and I have recovered from serious drug addiction and am aware of the dangers.

    For someone with a serious back pain like his...
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    Well bobby one is usually supposed to take the...

    Well bobby one is usually supposed to take the recommended amount of any drug the doctor perscribes - this is usually for a good reason like overdose and side effects... any more or less could be...
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    There are support groups for wives of alcoholics....

    There are support groups for wives of alcoholics. Al-non. Avail of support for yourself - they can also help you out with how to deal with situations that arise with your alcoholic husband. There...
  4. Hi fierce and fab. You sound like you are making...

    Hi fierce and fab. You sound like you are making changes and have made some good changes in your life. Well done on that! Seems you are looking to other people to make you feel good about...
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    Yes, don't drink alcohol

    Yes, don't drink alcohol
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    You already know the solution. It is in your...

    You already know the solution. It is in your statement above. Stop sabotaging yourself. You have to want to stop doing it more than you want to do it. Im sure you can find a counsellor who can...
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    I think you did the right thing breaking up with...

    I think you did the right thing breaking up with him in the first place. Sometimes our GUT tells us something and we act on it because it is for OUR own good.

    Seems to me that once you...
  8. You have broken her trust. Lies are the worst...

    You have broken her trust. Lies are the worst because it makes people mistrust you in all other areas of life. I think you should leave her alone and move on. She deserves better. Plus I think...
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    How old are you now Bex?

    How old are you now Bex?
  10. Unborn child - I want to do right thing - may be a more moral than lawful

    My partner and I split up not long after finding out I was pregnant and I found out he was cheating. We were not married.

    To maintain contact with the child I invited him to the first scan, which...
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    Speak to a doctor - they will believe you!

    Speak to a doctor - they will believe you!
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    Sorry but there is no cure for a hangover except...

    Sorry but there is no cure for a hangover except not drinking in the first place ;o) hope you feel better!
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    Try Al-non support for friends and loved ones of...

    Try Al-non support for friends and loved ones of addicts/alcoholics. You can't change them or make them do anything about their addiction but you can help yourself.
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    You had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago and you are...

    You had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago and you are worried for him and he is taking it hard. Im sorry but shouldn't he be worried about you and helping you through this difficult time? Heroin users are...
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    I do appreciate that you would not be on here...

    I do appreciate that you would not be on here asking for advice unless you were serious. I had read the above and thought you were not taking it as seriously as you SHOULD. i.e. looking at things...
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    Have you an issue with emotionally unavailable...

    Have you an issue with emotionally unavailable men? Aka co-dependency?
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    Yeah this will become one of those stories you...

    Yeah this will become one of those stories you tell and everyone has a good old laugh WITH you because we all have been there. Life is wonderful NO ONE IS PERFECT that's what makes it so great.
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    It's not about who he lies WITH. Its who he lies...

    It's not about who he lies WITH. Its who he lies TO that matters.

    If you do not value yourself enough NOT to be lied to and buy into and believe his LIES then good luck in your life of fantasy...
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    Why would you smoke UNLESS you were addicted?...

    Why would you smoke UNLESS you were addicted? Newflash it kills! Lol
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    He definitely sounds alcoholic yes. Needs to see...

    He definitely sounds alcoholic yes. Needs to see it as a problem himself and get help. AA would be perfect for him.
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    You need to talk to someone you trust. You say...

    You need to talk to someone you trust. You say you are very close to your family but you do not confide in them? This does not make sense to me. You must break through and trust someone and talk...
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    Why don't you try to stop your husband?

    Why don't you try to stop your husband?
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    Get all drugs out of your system by not taking...

    Get all drugs out of your system by not taking them - do yourself and the world around you a BIG favour and get clean, you are - believe it or not - worth it x
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    I do not agree with the points made about...

    I do not agree with the points made about throwing your daughters booze away. Any addict will get their drink-drug of choice no matter how many times you throw it away. Don't stress yourselves out...
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    Is this a serious question? If so, you are in...

    Is this a serious question? If so, you are in real bad shape - get help friend!
  26. I just want to say I think you are amazing for...

    I just want to say I think you are amazing for standing by your husband.

    I think you can claim custody once the child is born I read that on another thread on this site if you do a search you will...
  27. He sounds like a very mixed up person at the...

    He sounds like a very mixed up person at the minute. He has not treated you very well, nor his children, nor his family, and you sound very hurt which I can understand. Is it the alcohol? Who...
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    A compulsion or loss of control over something...

    A compulsion or loss of control over something can be booze drugs sex porn - whatever gives you a buzz. It grows. Starts small and inconspicuous and grows as one feeds it.
  29. Librium probably. Get help. Good luck.

    Librium probably. Get help. Good luck.
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    The reason you are going to your dealer at the...

    The reason you are going to your dealer at the weekend is because you do not know how to live normally without drugs - you are addicted to the thing that is making it easier to live in this world,...
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    I think you handled the situation tremendously...

    I think you handled the situation tremendously well. Usually when someone does this kind of thing we stew over it later wishing we had said this or that or had some witty reply to shut them up and...
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    Alcoholism is a disease, a very serious disease...

    Alcoholism is a disease, a very serious disease that can kill you. Its not about how much you drink or if you look like an idiot when you drink. Its about the effect it has on your mental health,...
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    An alcoholic is a man or woman who has lost the...

    An alcoholic is a man or woman who has lost the ability to control his or her drinking.
  34. Are you in UK or USA? In UK it usually depends...

    Are you in UK or USA? In UK it usually depends on the waiting lists for the area you live in. You could ring your GP and ask what the waiting list time for your area is approximately. In meantime...
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    To hightlight the fact that the real issue is not...

    To hightlight the fact that the real issue is not that he is now choosing a behaviour that reduces their chances of having a child, but that she chose to start a relationship and start a family with...
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    Sounds to me like someone Nichole loves is...

    Sounds to me like someone Nichole loves is addicted to drugs and she wants to try them to try to understand why they won't stop.. what's the deal? Don't they love her enough to stop? That's the drug...
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    Sorry to state the obvious but you knew he was...

    Sorry to state the obvious but you knew he was addict from the start, I don't understand why you expect him to be different now?
  38. Sounds like you don't trust your boyfriend when...

    Sounds like you don't trust your boyfriend when he tells you he doesn't smoke weed. Why do you believe these friends over your boyfriend?
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    If it is a problem for you then you have to make...

    If it is a problem for you then you have to make a choice, either stay and accept he chooses to smoke pot, or if you can't accept it, leave. We cannot change anyone else, we can only change...
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    There is a section in this about making choices...

    There is a section in this about making choices which really helped me, it was given to me by another member on here. I think you have to make the best choice for you and your children in this...
  41. Being self conscious like that is a good thing...

    Being self conscious like that is a good thing that you can use to your benefit. At the moment you are doing other people's thinking for them e.g.. "what do they think of me, how do i look" etc....
  42. Take this opportunity to learn from your own...

    Take this opportunity to learn from your own mistakes and grow. He may be a complete a$$hole but you have to look at yourself if this experience is to benefit you in any way - see him as being an...
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    I would say if you have to ask other people if...

    I would say if you have to ask other people if they think you drink too much then you probably have a problem.
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    Cloudsky, you sound like you are in a lot of...

    Cloudsky, you sound like you are in a lot of emotional pain. You sound like you are using drink, masturbation, cigarettes etc to fill the emptiness inside.. you are probably on here asking for help...
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    If you are alcoholic and continue to drink it...

    If you are alcoholic and continue to drink it will only get worse, never better, you will be even sicker than before you started taking the tablets.. that's because it is a progressive disease. Get...
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    The good news is that there is no such thing as a...

    The good news is that there is no such thing as a hopeless case. If your brother really wants to get well he can, with help, its not easy but it can be done, no matter how far down the scale they...
  47. Carrie by Stephen King

    Carrie by Stephen King
  48. You will have to let your room mate make her own...

    You will have to let your room mate make her own decisions of who she is friends with and who she is not. If Kate is not a good friend then your roommate may come to see this herself, she may not...
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    Best of luck rex there is hope

    Best of luck rex there is hope
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    Globe?

    Globe?
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