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Here's how I see it. You want to know what the benefits are from dating. You are already getting them, and you don't even realize it. You are only 19, and having a good time. Eventually you will...

So your husband looks at you like some mangy dog that he feels he needs to teach a lesson to by mistreating you, then complains when you are left alone and you tear up the house. So the guy is...

Don't forget to flush.

Maybe I'm reading this wrong, but it sounds as if you are afraid the guy you love will not stick around to the end, so your alternate plan is to try to make it work with the baby's father even though...

It must be torture to be so irresistible. How do you manage. Listen, I have heard guys complain that they can't "score", but this is the first time I ever heard anyone complain about scoring so...

He punched his truck? Is his truck having an affair with an SUV? OK, bad joke. Sounds like you have discovered your true sexuality. Don't fight it, embrace it. You stop using "Allen" as a crutch...

That's exactly what it means, he doesn't want a relationship with you, at least not exclusive. He is just keeping you within reach because he figures you will always be there if he needs you. He's...

I was wondering the same thing.. Are you being told about this by someone he works with? Did you see the texts? I doubt if your husband told you this unless he's a complete idiot.. Your husband...

Enigma, tried to give you a greenie, site wouldn't let me {that is another thing I don't agree with, but I guess they don't want us to show favoritism} but I liked what you wrote, well said and made...

You are correct Homegirl. Because I consider myself an expert in these matters as well. I just don't choose to share my background at this time. But the fact is it really doesn't matter what his...

Do you really think if this was a case of being "just a friend" she would be on this site asking if it's a good idea tio go to his wedding? C'mon, think about this. I know you have your opinion,...

Not in the real world my friend. What happened to the advice we give people a million times a day... I mean "no contact"?

No offense, but read the Op post again. She put up with his crap for 2 years. She says she doesn't think he even loves her. It is so obvious that she is not over him, and resents him for choosing...

I think it is ridiculous to invite your ex to your wedding. What do want to do, rub it in his face?. C'mon, what is the point... I know, why don't you see if you can go on the honeymoon with them.....

That's the way guys talk sometimes.. I don't, but I have respect for women. But doing at work about co-workers is very inappropriate. And if that is what he does at work, what could he be doing in...

Wait till your 18 and then move out

This not only sounds weird, it sounfs kind of cruel. I wouldn't go, and you shouldn't either.

Talk it out with everyone concerned and get everything out in the open.. No more behind the back talking.

If she doesn't want you back, nothing you do will get her to change her mind. Only time will tell. It's up to you how long you're willing to wait

Clemintine, it's going to be all right. If the man loves you and you love him, so what if he's a little messy. The important thing is that you are happy together. Don't listen to my sarcastic...

I don't think he wants to be your friend anymore so you might as well leave it alone. There is nothing you can do about it if he is ignoring you. He couldn't have been much of a friend in the first...

Wondergirl finds this helpful : Since she loves him and they've been together five years, I thought it was worth a try.


Yeah, I know what you mean . I had a dog once that I loved so much, I put...

Might be less work if you replace him with a real puppy. Good advice, but way too much work. Unless this guy looks like Brad Pitt, and is a super stud in bed, it might be time to live alone.

Clemintine, why are you with this person? I mean does he care about you at all? OK, assuming he does, this is what you do. You lay down some rules and tell him you expect him to follow them from...

Another thing you can do is take him to the zoo. Maybe he is just homesick.

Look Clemintime, what do think you should do. You can't change him but you can change yourself. You want to play...

You should do nothing. Your still very young with plenty of time to have boyfriends. Don't rush it, the worlds not running out of boys anytime soon.

If he's going to act like an animal, then you should keep him in a cage until he is house broken

You just said more in one sentence than you did in all your posts combined. You lose it when you are reaching for a condom. The mood was broken and the spontaneity is gone. Very common. For most...

You obviously have a healthy attitude toward your sexuality. And I totally agree with your "text book" definition of bisexual. But in the real world, I just don't think most bisexuals are as open...

I have never been attracted to any male, so does that make me abnormal? My definition of a bisexual is someone that can switch back and forth as long as it serves some purpose, and in your case it...

You made up your mind that you're going to wait for her to come around. So there is nothing more that any of us can say that will make a bit of difference to you. So you do what you think is best...

Uh, good advice... I think.

I think it is better to just let them walk out and cool off. Leave that person alone until thet are calm enough to talk. Unless you just like to fight. Then go ahead, push them some more, maybe...

I do see your point. And I do have a confession to make, I just didn't want to worry you. I was married for 17 years and the only way I could have sex with my wife was if I thought of her as just...

Yes, I would think that. And yes, I would tell you to get help. But one of those things is illegal and perverted, the other is not. {If thoughts were to lead to actions of course, which is always...

I agree. It sounds to me like she is feeling somthered, and wants some emotional space to go along with the physical space. My honest opinion is that your relationship with her is on life support,...

And I would also like to add that letting her lose her virginity to you is the worst thing you can do for her. Obviously she is saving herself for a man that she hopes to settle down with. Well...

You are in self denial, big time. You are what you are, and the best thing for you to do is accept it. You need to be true to yourself. More importantly, you need to be truthful to her. Whether...

I'm not sure Enigma, but you can't argue with 13 years of marriage. Maybe they just need a romantic getaway, a long weekend, candlelight dinner, no kids, hot bath together, bottle of champainge,...

I am a firm believer in the old saying "if it ain't broke why fix it." My advice is to read some of the other threads touching on this issue, and you will see that you probably have one of the...

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This second part was missing from your original post. That of course is a horse of a different color. My advice was based on the innocent antics of young people, perhaps teeagers. Now...

When I was in school, I delivered notes backand forth between the students, They mostly ignored me, so I don't know when someone is sending me a signal. Si never asked anyone out and had no...

Well go ahead, give it a try. When I was in school, I was usually the guy that girls used to make someone else jealous. I guess you could say I was a "boy toy". But you know if it wasn't for the...

When we work all year then take two weeks off we call it a "vacation". Well that's all you were to her. A "vacation" from her boyfriend.

First of all you really sound kind of obsessed with her....

That all depends. Is she your steady girlfriend or are you just dating. If you're going steady, then yes you should talk to her. But you have to be very careful what you say and how you say it. You...

It would be impossible to tell you what to do without more information. There are always two sides to every story, so to condemn her for this behavior would be unfair. But whatever happened, I...

Are you kidding? You wonder how you can trust other women? Don't judge them all by her immoral behavior. She is definitely the exception, not the norm, so I wouldn't worry about that for a second....

Yeah, this guy is either gay or is really messing with your head. And if this guy is "secretly gay", well that secret is about as well hidden as the world is really round.

I would be very concerned to be with someone that hears voices that tell him to hurt me. That is enough of a reason to get him out of your head. Now you need to listen to the other things his...

I guess it is never to soon for women to learn how to drive guys crazy. Girls are so much better at these games then boys, but for me, I think game playing should only be played when everyone knows...