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She may be "all that" to you but it still doesn't change the fact that she told you that she doesn't want this relationship. Whatever her reasons may be that is how she feels right now.

I know...

It means "commitment." one person committed to another in the relationship. It's a confident, flirtatous way of putting it if said in that way. Most guys understand it when a woman says this to him....

How do you feel about your relationship? Do you feel it is only sex based? Only you can know within yourself what type of relationship you are having and if it is working for you. Only you can judge...

There are a lot of things that go on behind closed doors among the rich. There could be problems that her parents have had in thier own relationship that she has grown up with and is very cautous...

No you cannot "help" her to realize anything especially when it comes to her "feelings." Feelings are hers and hers alone. You cannot change how someone feels about you when they have already made up...

I think she should confront him about it and be honest as to how it makes her feel. There are other things he could use besides single, there is"attached" or "In a relationship" that he could use on...

You want to keep him? Then don't have sex with him. How about holding out for what you want first? If it is commitment then get that from him before you give into him.

The next time he says," If...

You all are awesome and have awesome advice for trying to help someone "Get over" someone. That is without doubt that I say that.

But there is a "But" here just as in all things there is always...

I don't think she is just hoping for him to just go away. If that were true she wouldn't be making the calls to him.

We don't know the complete details of their entire relationship so we don't...

Thank you Putnure, I had a wonderful time. I am noticing a wonderful, calming change in you. That is great and your awareness of the situation is going to help you no matter what happens.

Be a...

As interesting as this is, I don't think trying to convince an opinion is really going to help Putnure, after all, it is about him and his situation. It's not about you or me.

It is not about...

Not meaning to bombard this discussion. But I have one very important thing to show all of you.

As you can see Punture is learning from his mistake he made earlier in losing control of himself in...

NC is good advice that should be given in a situation where there is absolutely no other options available or it is an abusive, unhealthy relationship. I would highly agree and most of the time I do....

Don't be so hard on yourself. Like a scientist sometimes we have to test a theory to prove to ourselves without doubt that it is true. You learned and that is a positive thing.

Let her have her...

Well i am not going to judge that you made a mistake but I really can't help you if you are not going to listen. She is remaining in contact with you but you really need to get control of yourself...

If she is making the effort to contact you and your talks are pleasant and productive then keep the lines of communication open. Continue to not talk about your relationship or any unpleasant past...

Liz28 there is no need to take offense. I will clarify just a little bit more. I did not mean to re read HIS post. I felt you misread mine and misunderstood as did others. I am not opposed to your...

True to a point, but you condemn the situation without any thought based upon what you know. I am just offering a new insight into the situation. He has a choice so give him something to choose from...

Sorry you took offence its obvious there is a misunderstanding. When you read someones posts it is best to truly read it and read it again so that you can get the full essence.

No matter what he...

Its not up for debate, the choices are his. He is asking for help so he is the one I am directing this too. If it were her I would tell her the same thing.

There are great opinions here. Some say that the hope is gone and move on which in my opinion is great advice if he feels this way deep within himself. Time will only tell and yes during this time it...

I am female, my picture and name should clarify that. No I am not on her side but because I am female I am giving advice that works. She initiated the break up for what ever reason so her mind at...

Tao is completely correct and I hope you not only read his words but fully listened to them. Your boyfriend is emotionally drained right now and you do need to be there for him. This doesn't mean...

Sometimes it can be the feeling of resentment in a relationship. basically if you are giving more then you are recieving and not communicating your needs in the relationship then resentments build...

I think that starting right now you need to give each other 30 days. Don't have any contact with her at all during those thirty days. This gives each of you the time and space to reevaluate the...

Take what he has said to you as his truth. He not only told you he doesn't need you in his life but is also showing you. End it and move on. If you try to plead your case or try to convince him in...

After all is said and done (and I don't think we can offer any more sound advice then what we already have) In a universe of infinite choices there is only ONE correct choice and it is your...

If you didn't feel right about his actions then you did the only thing you could do. We have this amazing thing called "gut instincts." Sometimes we can feel an uncomfortable feeling within...

My opinion is that we are allready whole and complete just as we are. We are never half of a whole and there is no one that can complete us. In thinking that we are half of a whole basically is...

Something else I want to bring to your attention. This man is using needles and possibly unclean needles which is one of the main tools used to spread AIDS, Hepatitis C and other diseases. Be careful.

We pretty much agree on the subject of being judged by the friends we keep. I for one would not choose to be close friends with a known drug dealer because that is not my style or preference. But I...

I know what you are saying and it is true that we are judged by the company we keep. But what I am saying is that so many people are so closed to anything outside their own customs, beliefs and...

And don't accidently get pregnant just so he "may" marry you. I know a few girls who thought they could trap the guy into being with them forever. "it didn't work and they are all miserable for doing...

I have friends of all races, backgrounds, and religions even though we all have our differences we still find common things about each other and that is what makes these friendships so wonderful. I...

Very rarely and I stress "rarely" does a magical, committed long term relationship come out of a "casual sex" relationship. Im not saying that it doesn't happen, but it is rare if it does. This guy...

When a man tells you he is not wanting a relationship, you can believe that is what he means and sex will not change that. You will have to make a decission for yourself on this one. If I were you I...

Did you post this to cause an outrage from the readers? I'm thinking you probably did because as I read your post it seems to me you really don't feel all that bad about what you are doing to your...

I think in very rare cases lovers can maintain a friendship depending on how the relationship ended or the reasons it did. I have a great friendship with my ex husband and the reason for that I...

What agenda do you have when you are dating these men? When you are out on a date are you just enjoying yourself with this person or do you have some hidden agenda like when to have a boyfriend, get...

This is a great post and people don't know how to love themselves. We are conditioned at an early age either by parents, friends, teachers and religion to put ourselves and our needs at the bottom of...

I think you are looking for a relationship to some how save you. What I mean by "save" is the mistaken idea that a relationship will rid you of feeling emptiness, loneliness, and insecurity. That...

Basically, she is robbing you from one of the most precious gifts life has to offer in a loving relationship. Sex is a huge part and your needs are not being taken care of by your partner and in...

If a woman loved football and was extremely good at sports but wasn't what you considered hot, would you be attracted to her? There are several attributes in a person that automatically attract us to...

I understand your point BMI and an addict does deserve a second chance. And a person can care for them very much. As a mother I would still care about my child if he were an addict and always hope...

He is a ticking time bomb. Not just drugs but battery too? Okay so are you going to let him beat the h#ll out of you or your girls because you told him, "no," you can't borrow money? Addicts like...

If I were out on a first/second date with a man and he presented me with that statement I would have said, (flirtingly of course) " Cool, that tells me there won't be any drama after I dump your ." ...

Even tho you are married and share your lives together you are still an individual. Your life before the marriage doesn't have to change and going out with your own friends is okay but does not need...

You say that you and this man are soul mates. I have to question that because a soul mate is someone who would not be attached to someone else. There are obvious things about this guy that you...

Sometimes you have to hear the truth from outside opinions as harsh as it may sound. You are giving to much to a man who cannot give you anything. Your needs have to be met too in a relationship or...