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I hope he isn't doing anything wrong.. I do trust him... I always believed he was not that type of guy.. I hope I am still right in thinking so.. I would be crushed if so... but then again... if it...

Married for 6 yrs now

Feel lost

I am going through a rough time.. I snopped through my husband's phone and found a text message to him from someone saying Ok, love you, see u...

The name it was under was a company name...
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When he returned I know it was my mistake but I did flip abit and when I went near him to talk he pushed me with his feet away from him and told me to go to sleep because I was going on and on.. fair...

I think I would have liked to be informed

In a partnership is it decent to always inform your partner of what you are doing...

For example...

Last night my partner gave his sister a lift back home, as I said I was going to sleep.....

I know what I had to do but its being strong. When its not around I don't seek it. But if it's there its hard to say no. My partner does ask me generally and I fail to say NO even though I want to.

Thank you for your post.

Its getting out of control, and the guilt I feel the next is incredible, besides its unhealthy, wrong and a waste of money, when its around I can't say NO. It generally happens once a week or once...

But can't a man pass a compliment to his wife every now and then or tell her he loves her!

I suggested marriage counselling and his exact words were - I Don't NEED COUNSELLING

Yes that was dealt with :)

Im usually very secure about myself.. but I have put on abit of weight and had a baby 1 year ago and I feel my body isn't the same.. When he is abit typsy he says I still look great and what not ,...

This is really puzzling me...
At the moment I'm feeling abit insecure about my looks, weight etc.. And I told my husband and I got nothing out of him.. he didn't try make me feel better.. So I told...

Yes its true!

Yes I will but ill wait till he comes home.. I don't think I should call him just to tell him that

But the truth is it sadness me that he doesn't even call or text message me :(
But I shouldn't really because he never really has done.. rarely.. I can count the amount on times on 1 hand :(

Excon.. if you ar serious about Divorce, then this world would be a total screw up! :P

Yes amicon.. I am going to let him be.. and see how he is when he gets home! Ill just play cool and prepare a...

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He is very stubborn.. I know my husband.. I think the only way this can be resolved is getting something from dr. scholls and / or preparing a clean pair of socks ready in living room for him to...

Is diaper meant to mean disappear?

Very good point but I don't think we do! But this issue has been addressed before and never resolved because he doesn't do anything about it.. all he thinks of relaxing when he comes home and doesn't...

Amicon.. nothing else to add! Why you ask?

Just Looking.. good point about Dr. Scholls.. ill look into it Thanks

Diaper?

Stubborn is the word!
Yesterday in the argument he told me I should NOT have to always tell him because he knows they smell.! Goes to show.. he thinks I should just respect his smelly socks and deal...

Thank you... but I get worried he won't come to his own compromise.. or just come home and act like nothing has happened! That's not OK is it?

I make him remove his shoes because we have a little...

Good point... such as?

I could suggest I get him a clean pair of socks? That's good right?

Now based on the argument we had yesterday and we have not spoken today.. should I be AGAIN the first...

I just don't get it.. I know he says he just wants to chill for abit after work which is fine but why can't he change or shower immediately instead of letting me smell his feet.. of course I pass a...

So last night my partner and I got an a stupid argument over his feet smelling! He does manual work and his work boots make his feet smell.. what I don't get is... he knows this, and he knows the...

Thanks for your answers..

This last weekend I felt that my husband was abit cold towards me... Anyway, so I have asked him if he is OK and he said yes he is fine (I somehow don't really believe him) we have a lot of financial...

She won't do that as she believe she will only feel worse

Yes I know.
You are so right again..

But besides worry I am now getting annoyed and stressed when I hear mum say :-

Ist Lonely being ALONE..

Number 1 - she is NOT ALONE she has ME, my...

I do remind her and she agrees but then still says but its still lonely with no partner...

I get so tired of this :(





She does listen to me and we talk a lot
But sometimes I think she...

As well how can I make her see that asking this jerk to leave was in fact a bright thing to do?

As I don't want her to think she made a mistake, just because she is lonely without a partner.

To be fair she doesn't sit at home
She is always out with her friends, she can't stay at home on her own and she gets depressed and lonely!

Yes next time she mentions his name ill stop her and...

She won't work lol
She says she has never worked in her life, why start now at 60!

I can't do lunch during the week as I full till 6pm.
But I do go see her after work and we meet on Sundays....

No hobbies really :(
She has good friends, one is a widow and one is separated, and she goes out with them daily for lunch and shopping and even at night, as she can't stay at home on her own.
Her...

I do tell her she is tougher than she thinks she is..
And to move on
But she says I don't understand her as I have never been alone as I have a loving husband!

:(

What you are saying is so right...

She is NOT content as a single person and I believe she won't ever be at the rate she is going.

I have tried on so many occasions to get her to go to classes...

Its wasting your time

Why aren't you allowed to have female friends?
What's her reasoning behind this?

Anyone :(

I am writing here so maybe someone can help me deal with my mum.

Brief history, mum and dad were married for 30 years. Happy marriage on the whole.
5 years ago dad died, and mum was on her own....

She has enough.. believe me..
She is paying for other sons flight all the way from canada to scotland...
That's peeved me off abit!
We get nothing... but she pays a long haul flight for there...

Yes she is nice to us, but she is very tight - even her own daughter will agree.

She bought us the wedding rings actually and some flowers 3 yrs when we got married, as this year we had a...

I got married to my husband and his mother didn't even get us anything..
Is this really wrong?
My husband thinks so too...

Should I be different with her now?

She is so tight its...

Its true.
Ill do my best and be a good friend to her

I'm scared he will get worse because he would have found out she spoke to me about him.. and she will suffer not me