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I dated a similar guy. It didn't work out, because I would get jealous over his internet flirtation.

yes that's one of the fellows I was referring to.

And yes, I am not currently in a relationship. He has been the one that didn't want to make a commitment

As for my ex. Things ended while we...

I would disagree with you. I am happy with myself.

I've also been single for a long while, and did a lot of self-exploration before I dated again.

But perhaps becoming single again would be a...

I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now. Haven't had the relationship talk yet, although I've been wanting to be exclusive for a few weeks now. He probably sense that and has been doing...

Aside from immaturity and insecurity, I think for some women, they might be confused as to what they want, and changes their mind constantly.

I got my closure, when I finally realized I deserve someone that is willing to put in effort to be with me.

Funny thing is, I found someone that treat me like a princess soon after I made up my...

OK guys.. are we moving too fast O_O..

I took him home, and he had dinner with my parents O_O..
but it went really well

He had a great time with my parents, and my parents liked him too.....

Yeah, I agree with Kctiger. I think you should take a break from relationship for now. Maybe even dating...

Who knows what the purpose of her call is, and like you said you don't care.

So why are you posting here, and asking the rest of us?

Be honest with yourself, perhaps you're not as over it as...

I was actually thinking of bringing him beer.. ther'es a story behind it LOOL.. but yeah red wine will be more classy wouldn't it hmmmm

So next week, I'm going over to his place. And he's cooking me dinner.. I'm excited and nervous at the same time

How were you chasing?

I thought when you chase, you're forward.

IMO, you weren't chasing at all..

I agree with Mark, you waited too long.

Also from the last feel lines you sounded really desperate, maybe she sense that as well...

So I took everyone's advise..
Had a fun first date just recently..
Don't really feel any chemistry yet, but I guess I'll just see how things develop.

At the very least we can be great friends...

I'm really sorry that this happened to you.

It is not your fault at all. Everyone have the right to feel safe, and the freedom to do whatever they want. Women should be able to go out and have a...

Yes mam :) I'll try to change my mindset about dating..

I don't get how you can date more than one person at a time..

I understand that dating is for getting to know another person, but I just find myself getting attach really easily :(, which I know...

This is just a rant.

When you show interest, and try to get to know them, they back away, saying they are busy, and that we should just be friends..

Fast forward a few weeks, and you...

So update again, I don't know how many people actually read my thread LOL, but I just want to update it for people that has been following my story.

My relationship with the new guy didn't work...

I would have to disagree with yaode3zy. Calling her back will only cause more confusion :S. Especially since there's so much emotion involve.

As for the blocked call. You didn't talk to her, you...

LOL.. I guess you just needed to rant :)
Remember we're always here to listen, so don't do anything rash!

You seem like you're on the right track, and know that contacting her would only mean...

Well, it's great that she called, but don't get your hopes up.

If she really wanted to get in touch with you, she should've at least left a message. And if she really really want to get in touch...

I don't think so, you wouldn't date someone for over a year, if you don't have feeling for that person.

Hello Sleight,

I don't think you'll get the answer you're looking for here. If you re-read what you wrote in your OP with an open mind (without your personal feelings), you'll see how bizarre it...

I'm not talking about white lies. I'm talking about lying for no reason?

I started dating this guy recently. One day, I asked him "why is he attracted asian girls".. and he said he likes them...

I've actually met a bunch of people online. All the people I know are what they say they are. I've met a few of them in real life. All of them I met from an online game, that I used to play. We are...

Maybe he's getting too comfortable?

NC never ends.

OK, sounds good :)! I'll just relax and be myself, and hopefully he'll like me for who I am.

Hi everyone,

I'm an introvert, but I always find myself getting attracted to extroverts. Does a relationship between these two different/crashing personalities work? I know there will need to be a...

Well, did he used to call more often? Or has it always been this way?

If it has always been this way, then I think its quite normal. He probably think its OK to call you a few times a week,...

Isn't it illegal to have sex with her?

I actually went through a similar situation half a year ago, and then in December.

I think instead of guessing his motives, its best to just ask him straight out.

You can say something like "So...

Hello everyone,

Just wanted to update my story again..

I finally met someone new, and he's awesome.

He's also a big contrast to my ex. Now I look back, and realize that my ex wasn't...

Good good, you can finally start no contact

Good for you.

I can't help but feel that NC for some of you is like a battle with your ex. That is if you contact your ex at all, then you lose. Because you're showing your ex, that he/she is...

My advice to you is to not contact him.

Here is my story.

After my ex broke up with me, I followed the advice on this site, and did NC.

One day, one and a half year later he contacted me out...

While I agree with what everyone else has said, I also think its okay for you to express how you feel to her.

It sounds to me that you're completely over her. You are not initiating contact...

Well, sounds like you're very unhappy with yourself.

My advice would be to start making changes, put yourself out there, and learn about yourself.

Don't sit around and feel sorry for yourself,...

Well.. let her bring in the guys, so you can leave.

I know it hurts, but I think it's the best solution for you.

Well.. does he "dazzle" you?

I wouldn't want to give me # away to strangers, but I have received phone # from many random guys... I received 3 phone # from riding on the subway (weird, I know)... some from volunteering places,...

Dear ex,

I think I'm finally ready to move on.

Wish you the best of luck in the future

The 2009 Me

I think both of you are too young to have sex, so please wait.

Also I think you should think about why you want to tell him you were rape:

Is it because you are scared that he will realize you...

Dear Ex,

I don't know why you keep reaching out to me like this, but I no longer care.

Your flattery is very nice on the ears, but they are all meaningless, and probably all lies. I hate lies. ...

Goodbye JERK!

Well, I was just having dinner with a few girlfriends last night. While discussing how we treat boys that we are not interested, one of them said this

"Well, i like keeping them around, it makes...

Just ignore her, she'll get the message eventually. Contacting her could lead to more complication.

No Contact it is!

Well, I think you could be friends with her if you don't have lingering feelings for her, otherwise you'll just crash and burn in confusion and false hope.

You can't be friends with someone you still like. It just messes up the whole relationship, you'll feel torn up all the time, wishing to be more..

So I would suggest no contact with this man