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    Here's some tips and tricks to move on: 1....

    Here's some tips and tricks to move on:
    1. Abstain from any contact and that means no texts, calls, IMs, Facebook messages, twitter messages, "accidentally" bumping into each other, etc. If you know...
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    "Any and all advice is greatly appreciated the...

    "Any and all advice is greatly appreciated the reason I encouraged the break even though the thought of it ruined my life is bbecause I've been reading on this site and everyone keeps saying trying...
  3. I appreciate everyone's brutal honesty. We've...

    I appreciate everyone's brutal honesty. We've actually been dating for five months. At the two/three month mark I did ask if he wanted to date just me or date others. Maybe I jumpted the gun and...
  4. Boyfriend so loving in person but apart acts like a buddy

    Hi
    I've posted questions on here previously and received great advise. Thank you to those that are willing to read and offer their opinion.

    So here's my story. I met my boyfriend on Match in...
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    Where do you all find the one?

    Ok so here's my story... I was in a six year relationship that ended approxamitely two years ago. I'm 31 and have been dating but am really struggling finding that connection with someone. I have...
  6. Even if you did have sex I take issue with people...

    Even if you did have sex I take issue with people passing judgement and calling others dishonorable for letting it happen. I'm sorry but did God cease to exist and name someone else as the...
  7. This is a classic case of an emotional affair. ...

    This is a classic case of an emotional affair. If a spouse invests effort into a relationship with the opposite sex and it detracts from the marriage then there's a serious problem. How would she...
  8. Did you send this using your corporate email? If...

    Did you send this using your corporate email? If you did then what is done is done however, I would strongly advise you not to put something controversial and personal in writing. Moving on.. at...
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    Sounds like too many games to me. It's fun to...

    Sounds like too many games to me. It's fun to flirt, tease and be playful with the opposite sex but considering he is your manager I would back off. If he starts don't reciprocate. The fact that...
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    So I'm curious... did you ever text her back? I...

    So I'm curious... did you ever text her back? I would have ignored the text. When you're living by the no contact rule you have to follow it to the letter even if the other person contacts you. ...
  11. Married coworker playing games with me. How do I act in this situation?

    Ok, so I previously submitted a question about a coworker that involved an emotional affair. Somehow I allowed this individual to creep into my life and as a result developed feelings. He and I...
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    How old are you? I suppose it doesn't matter. ...

    How old are you? I suppose it doesn't matter. If you're not happy and he isn't even willing to try and pleasure you than I would say kick his *** to the curb. Plus, I'm not crazy about him hanging...
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    You're in a good position of having moved on. Do...

    You're in a good position of having moved on. Do not reach out to her or contact her in any way. It's not what you expected and you realize that now. You in no way have any obligation toward her. ...
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    First off you used the language reckon and mate...

    First off you used the language reckon and mate and spelled the word organize "organise" which indicates to me you're from the UK or Ireland. I love it and think that's awesome. I wish we used those...
  15. Do you really like him or is it just infatuation?...

    Do you really like him or is it just infatuation? Sometimes a crush/infatuation seems overwhelmly powerful. The good news is that as quickly as they surface they typically fade if you remain out of...
  16. I'd invest my energy and effort into someone that...

    I'd invest my energy and effort into someone that is committed to me 100%. She sounds confused and frankly that's not your problem. You have your act together and want a relationship. I think it's...
  17. You've been interested for a year and have not...

    You've been interested for a year and have not asked her out? As a female we want the guys to do the pursuing. You may want to see what happens over the next couple weeks before you make your next...
  18. If you cut all communication for the time being...

    If you cut all communication for the time being your feelings will naturally dissolve. You're actually in the best position to move on as he's in an entirely different country which means no mutual...
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    There's no quick fix however you have to accept...

    There's no quick fix however you have to accept the demise. Acceptance is key to moving on. By playing games in hopes that she will see the light won't help you. You have to decide in your head,...
  20. You are setting boundaries in your marriage and...

    You are setting boundaries in your marriage and that is perfectly healthy in any relationship. He may say he wouldn't mind but words are just that... words. If the situation were reversed and you...
  21. FWB only works if it's strictly sex. Get...

    FWB only works if it's strictly sex. Get together for a hookup, and part ways when hookup ends. Nothing extra because isn't a real relationship a friend with romance. Once you form an emotional...
  22. Resolve to move on and you shall. It's a no win...

    Resolve to move on and you shall. It's a no win situation and many people stand to get hurt if not in fact devastated. Sucks, I know but drop all contact, make a list of why he's no good (trust me...
  23. What are your feelings toward him? Are you...

    What are your feelings toward him? Are you interested in a relationship with this guy or just FWB? You need to figure that out. I get the sense you are because you're afraid to raise the topic if...
  24. That is the definition of an emotional affair. ...

    That is the definition of an emotional affair. Would he be pleased if you were in contact with another man after hours? I think not. I recently had to tell a married coworker of mine to stop IMing...
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    Toxic city. Reading this made me really sad. ...

    Toxic city. Reading this made me really sad. Relationships should bring out the best in people. You sound very lonely and I don't blame you one bit. This is probably the last thing you want to...
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    It sounds like you have different perspectives on...

    It sounds like you have different perspectives on how to raise a child. That's huge and not something that can easily be ignored or overlooked. I can tell you love her and her son immensely however...
  27. Thanks for your opinion. I'm not claiming to be...

    Thanks for your opinion. I'm not claiming to be the victim here because it takes two to tango. Things actually got way out of hand; IMing me, emailing me in the evenings, asking if he could come...
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    I realize this is an older post but next time you...

    I realize this is an older post but next time you find yourself interested in a coworker or friend, tell them through actions, not words. Every time I hear about or read a story where one person...
  29. Way interested. I know most people frown upon...

    Way interested. I know most people frown upon relationships with colleagues but love doesn't come around every day. You can always get a new job if need be. Personally, I'd take the risk on...
  30. It's hard to say for certain. When I'm into...

    It's hard to say for certain. When I'm into someone I try not to be too obvious as I think that can be a turn off. There's something to be said about mystery. Does she ever tease you or put her...
  31. Coworker is best friend one day and aloof and distant the next?

    Basically I'm looking for some professional advice on how to handle a situation with a male coworker of mine. He and I are acquaintances and I have always viewed our relationship as professional and...
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