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Hello friends, I would like to receive some other opinions please, and guidance about my case. As I said on my previous post:
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This thing is taking me real hard work, it's rough path but is the right one, I know in my mind. Especially since she starts to contact me again (the little bread pieces on the floor style). I can...

OK here's some update... I been going on with NC by now. She IMS me from last night telling me how can I put on my space "I want to be happy than ever". She wrote me, how can I be so cruel? Asking...

I got to agree with Talaniman. Now, she shouldn`t be your concern, I mean about her ways. What she does, what she did, what she will do about HER life, it`s her own business. If you heard that,...

It's been 1 week since she broke up with me, and also the NC applied by me. I still fighting these feelings of been giving too much and received so little.

I'm also starting to feel anger and...

Hello friends;

Since I'm trying to gain some muscle mass now, with the less fat possible, I was wondering if you can recommend me some quick healthy balanced (proteins, carbs, fat) meals to eat...

I don't know, for me if you ask me, a month it's too soon yes, for you and this girl to have strong feelings but the passionate and comfortable sparks. From what you said, she seems very lovely, but...

Sorry, but maybe I'm not understanding well this, but you said that you were like a pet to her... OK OK, that's not right, don't be that with her around or even when she's not.
Other question, why...

Sounds to me, that old Jeff is starting to "really" like this girl. Probs you been seeing something very attractive in her, I don't know her talks, walks, how she treats you, maybe anything familiar...

Blurry such a power song, I used to believe in that!

Candlebox - You
Guns n' Roses - So fine
Hootie & The Blowfish - Goodbye
James Blunt - Goodbye my lover
Toad The Wet Sprocket - Crowing...

I was thinking about how to structure the amount of songs we listen through a break up process, yeah, we keep them on our mp3players to the office, to the gym, to grocery stores, in the car, just...

I'm moving on... that's THE decision. It's getting depressed these days, I know I don't have to wonder what she thinks, or what's happening behind the curtains. She took the way out of my life...

My excuses for everybody by the following, I really need to vent this out of my chest:

Things I did for her:

Respect her, love her, be faithful, be compassive to her, be her friend for 3 years...

I guess this is where you guys left the list:

29) Travel to near beach on the weekend, rent a nice bugalo, surf all day, sleep all night.
30) Play tennis until the balls explode, then please re...

I have to correct myself, that would be my 2nd step. The first one is already rolling: NC rule since she dump me + some ex data erasing.

Ok Jeff, I'm walking the fine line here, between control and emotional break down. Small steps.

I know I don't have to think about her now, but all I can do even when I'm walking is how she put...

Yes you right!! That would be another line for the tiger!.

The point here now is fighting the urge of knowing what was the real reason that makes her release me from that craziness.

Yes baby steps.. All I can think at this moment is her arguments to finish me. She used to have my email account password and when I had other email from work, she asked me for the password too. I...

Thanks GlindaofOz, I think I know what to do, the bigger picture. But all the small steps to do that are so messed up with my feelings of how she handled the break up to put it as my fault... As I...

Hello fellas! I'm watching the ocean and waves are good today. This little trip is hard to handdle since she's in the air every step.
But I know I have to do it!! Let this one go

My mind is...

Hey crush, I just have read all your story, and I just want to show you my complete support. I'm passing through some sort of a similar situation, and I recognize in my flesh and bones what you...

Yes, I think I know since 3 or months ago what's the real issue here. My psycological background, my wall leaks. I spent all these previous months doing some family and mental search, about what's...

Oh man, this time I'm amazed by her determination.. maybe she feels too sure about my feelings for her or maybe she's frogjumpin around.. hard to swallow.

Hey man!! A friend told me once: I talk to over 30 females at day, and just 1 or 2 give me their numbers. It's just math lol. Increase the potentials increase the outcomes. Don't be hard on...

Thanks for still being around Jeff. I'm just fresh now. It doesn't hurt like the other times she broke with me, but I guess I'm shock yet. And yes, that's is exactly what I feel now: Quoting you:...

Thanks jeffatl, hmm yes I admitted my mistake to her. But It feels unfair. This was just a trigger. What about her lies to me? And what lies!! It feels unfair. I trust her many times and give her...

Hope this would help you some, I have been on both sides of your coin, and sure I learn something:

Situation: He's watching or talking a pretty girl.
In your mind: No, he's not trying to flirt...

Well friends, after 3 years and 4 months of relationship, and about a buch of problems and harsh things I believed it would be different, my relationship with this girl end. It was her decision. ...

How about this: let's break that last 220 pounds bench press chest record in the afternoon and then ONLY then...

Let's celebrate with one, JUST one beer at that night with the fellas!!

Have...

After 3 years of relationship she calls for a break in order to grown up. For as hard as it takes, let her grow. Forget about been around or been disposal to her "non so sure acts right now". You...

I'm not talking about to be attractive when we want to meet that girl we desire. I'm talking when we already have her and the course of the years has made some attraction erosion appear.

How to...

I know that sucks bro!! But you seem to be a smart dude, so, I can only offer you a beer.. this will pass soon..

Keep walking... just like J.W. :)

Totally right with you doranc, that little difference is called: Different family and life values between both of you. You are taught to be a considered and respectful person, maybe he fail to...

What in the world?!

Well my vote, I'm afraid according to my experience is women too, but I have to say there's many of us that we use guilty on a non conscience way to manipulate the response of our partner.

Why...

Ok, let me process your concerns:

Facts:
1) You already paid him one expensive trip
2) You already commit to pay the second one
3) He's full of classes on college, that he can't work yet.
4)...

Yes it does happened hmmmm 2 times in my life. I remember it now in a funny way, although it hurt like Hell!!

Well I'm my case I face the situation at the moment and I could figure it out it was...

I would appreciate your votes (women and men) and optional comment on this:

Who uses guilty the most to manipulate their partners, men or woman? Why?

Please include your sex and age.
Thank...

Well bro, you should set some boundaries what is acceptable and not inside your relationship. I can feel that you are goal oriented to make your business grow as well your relationship with this...

I guess Divinci is out of the question, if since he have a girlfriend yet.

Go will the flow girl, you are young and I supposed single... have fun, maybe you can go out with the 3 guys just to see...

Things were already clear at the moment you started to feel uncomfortable with yourself inside this relationship which put you on so much confusions, wondering and messages of stick around "just in...

Noooo man!! Nooo!! Leave her alone, the more you get close with this gal the more she will abuse... you need to be own your own. She fail!! If you ever want to give it a chance to this relationship...

I told you bro... leave her alone and focus on yourself, I been there before as many others. Im not saying all situations and relationships should be the same all the time, because they don't. But...

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I want to taco bell :)

Why sluts exist? Well because there is demand. Just Economics here!! LOL

Poor emotional education in society could be the reason for this dilemma. For some men, money talks. And for some women,...

Im totally agree with purple-hearts advice. She not worth your time and good feelings. Give her all the time in the world, but all!! If you can prove that she behave unfaithful, she's negligent as...

The fact his checking a girl in guestbook web isn't enough reason to think wrong. Try not to be so insecure about him because this might be scaring him off. Sometimes the sense of being walking...

Im afraid to tell you ;) but you are a time bomb. Maybe, the concepts of assertiveness might be helpful to you.

Assertiveness is the ability to express yourself and your rights without...

Here we have 3 things that are bothering you:

1.- The fact, she's wearing something (or less lol) that makes you uncomfortable.
2.- Her over drinker behavior
3.- And, her lie

1.- For the 1st...

If I can add something... you don't need to poison your brain now, with the though of "the other guy if it exist".. I know your brain and sometimes your senses can guide you to that but sometimes we...