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You need to speak to her directly, and alone, just the tow For you. Be soft-spoken, calm and quiet, collected and tell her exactly what you wrote here and how you feel toward her. This takes it off...
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Before you think about marriage, you need to get your relationship straightened out. You must have open, clear communcation with him and tell him how you feel (in a calm, concise manner)and fix what...
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When I had my pre-schoolers and they acted up, they were automatically sent to "time-out" which was a little chair in the corner and they stayed there until they cooled off and were ready to be nice...
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Eleanor Roosevelt said it best: "No one can take advantage of you without your permission." Your husband has been allowing his father to use and manipulate him and his father is not only ungrateful,...
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Everyone is born with psychic ability; it is how one utiliizes the gift that determines how proficient they become and how acute their abilities are. Psychic ability is like a muscle; it improves and...
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First you need medical assessment... you could have anything from a legitimate medical condition or anxiety/panic attacks; either way, you need to be evaluated by a physician...
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Your sons are ungrateful, and unfortunately, many men/boys are that way. There is a saying: "A son is a son until he gets a wife; your daughter's your daughter the rest of your life." Men are not...
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He has been upfront with you and stated that he is not ready for, nor does he want, a monogamous relationship. You do, and that's the problem. You can either accept the relationship the way it is...
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Every healthy relationship needs reciprocity or it will die... if he always puts other people before you, then there is something wrong with your relationship and how he views you; you need to...
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I am so sorry you are going through such an ordeal... first things first: You need to lose the guy once and for all; he is a loser (he will not change and he will not get better... ) and will always...
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Don't ever let pride or delicacy stand in the way of your family... write to him and tell him you are still there whenever he wants to talk and that you would love to meet your grandchild. Do not...
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I'm sorry, but he is handing you a load of codswallop. He is doing exactly what he wants to do and he wants to keep you on an emotional string to "be there" for him.. I don't think so! He "has to be...
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You have nothing to hide and nothing to be ashamed of; you are the agrreived party in this case, all you did was fall in love with the wrong guy and trust him when he was not worthy of it. You can...
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Do yourself, and him a big favor: Stay friends but do not get involved. You would always find some criticism of him, some fault, regarding the "cultural differences" between you, and judging him by...
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Once a cheater... you can forgive him and take him back, but know that there are never any guarantees with anyone. People are only human, as they say, and temptation can come along at any time from...
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Yes... tell them to stop. You are getting on with your life and you no longer wish to hear his name mentioned and asked questions and listen to comments about him and his wife. You are moving onl he...
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This is a sign that you need to re-think your relationship entirely. He is obviously not ready for any commitment, maybe he just realized that, but to keep you hanging is grossly unfair and you...
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People either love you for the way you are, or not... people who really love you will not harp on your dress or anything else. How someone dresses is a very personal issue, and oje which only you...
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Your wife has made herself a victim of her daughter's control and her spoiled, selfish behavior. She has sacrificed her own happiness, as well as yours and your children's, all for the sake of a...
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There has never been any improvement on the best way to get someone to "get it..." by telling them. You need to be calm, clear and firm when you explain to him that your financial situation, contrary...
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He is being very asgressive with you, trying to assert his dominance over you... this is not good, and you might want to seriously consider breaking up with him, permanently. He is ordering you...
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Here's an FYI; guys ALWAYS, always look... doesn't mean they're going to run off, just the male admiration for the female form. Are you sure it is he who is making you feel dissatisfaction with...
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Get out; avoid him; but whatever you do, do NOT tell him! That is asking for trouble! This guy is clearly deranged, dangerously so, and you need to go to the police ASAP and apprise them of what is...
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You need to be calm and let things develop in due course; he always comes to you, he seeks you out, he enjoys your company, but senses your anxiety, which is why he said he doesn't want to hurt you...
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He sounds emotionally immature, and also potentially controlling... a red flag. "You're his and regardless of what you think you're going to be with him forever?" Doesn't sound too promising, or...
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She seems to be more interested in the idea of love than any actual, honest commitment. She is trying to get attention, and she has also made it clear, by her actions, that she is nowhere near ready...
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This will not be what you want to hear, but he is an abuser. The fact that there appears to be a cease-fire does not mean he is out of ammunition; once a guy is abusive, it is very rare that he can...
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This was a one-time event; he is trying to be polite, but there is nothing further with this man. Move on and either try to repair whatever is lacking in your own marriage by professional counseling,...
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I have to go along with your mom in this case; stay in the background and let him have some time to heal... everyone works at a different pace; he may need more or less time than you had. Don't...
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He has made it clear that he is not yet ready for a one on one commitment... since he has already demonstrated this, to assuume moving with him will change anything is a big mistake; in fact, it will...
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