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I CAN'Tafford therapy. If you read my previous posts you'd see how many times I've mentioned that.

Also, CRIPES talk about being RUDE and PRESUMPTUOUS. I don't need your insults, I do a fine job...

Thanks for your reply, but like you said "I can't diagnose any of this but I get the feeling that you've got Asperger syndrome or another form of autism."

I know myself, and so do my parents and...

Thanks for your reply. Great questions. I'm not on birth control, although I have been on and off in the past. I would use a condom if I ever engaged in sex with the guy in my post or any guy for...

Thanks so much for your response, and for sharing your insight. I've always said that to people who insist one should go to therapy (if they can even afford it, I can't) before engaging in a...

I'm not going to respond to either of the previous posters anymore. I'm not here to fight. I just want some helpful advice, like anyone else who posts on this site.



I'm glad. Please stop...

I know that, but the fact is I'm not experienced. I've never even been kissed, yet I'm seriously considering having sex and losing my virginity to this guy. I thought there might be people here who...

I know you aren't psychologists, I wasn't looking for a medical answer to my question. I just wanted someone else's opinion, instead I'm being asked about the kind of books I read? Ridiculous....

Not really, why?

Why do I even come here? I never get responses. Whatever. Last week when he visited my store, the handyman said he should be free from work for at least a week. Hopefully he still...

I suffer from anxiety, social anxiety, and depression, along with self-esteem issues. I've never dated, been in love or even been kissed. Although in the past guys have apparently shown an interest...

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I'm female, early 20's, with mild to severe social anxiety. My friend whom I've known since elementary school is going to teach aboard in a few days for at...

Pretty much.



I wasn't aware that there were different places where a woman urinates and 'squirts' from. I know men ejaculate and urinate from the same place. Is it different for women or...

Wasn't what?

True, urine has a distinct smell. I remember that I kept thinking 'did I pee? But I don't smell urine.' I also didn't have an 'urge' to urinate before or after this entire event.



It didn't...

This has been bothering me for a while. Basically, a few weeks ago I was masturbating in bed via clitoral stimulation. I was laying on my stomach at the time and started to press my face into my...

>.< tell me about it. It’s just that I’ve read a few forums wherein women were saying that this was how they achieved multiple orgasms. I’m not really aware of another way, but I’m not fond of it at...

I have a family doctor, although it's been a while since I visited his office, as I moved cities last summer and haven't had a chance to book an appointment with him. I just don't want to be put on...

Despite what "medical science" says I've heard/read many stories, those are more real to me than a medical paper. Sorry.

Interesting. How did you find out about your sacral nerve issues? I'm sorry to hear about it. I do sometimes experience a sharp pain during orgasm if I too fast and don't work myself up long enough....

Thanks for your response. I admit I only focus on my cl*toris during masturbation since I don’t know how to stimulate myself internally enough to orgasm. Unfortunately after a clitoral orgasm I get...

I'm using a throwaway account since this is an embarrassing issue for me. ;p

I'm 23, female, and **still** a virgin (not by choice, I have social anxiety and never dated even though guys have...

I misunderstood your reply because of the way it was written. And it's fine if you don't answer my questions, you aren't the only person on this site. Besides I found better answers elsewhere.

Thanks for your answer, probably the only one that I can take something away from. I think I want to report this incident of harassment, although I don't remember exactly what they looked like only...

I have social anxiety but NO, this situation wasn't "worse for me" because of that so please don't try to rationalize what they did. ANY girl who is stared down by a group of tall men and then...

I was walking with a purpose though (headed home) and was originally staring straight ahead which is why I made eye contact with them. He didn't ask me if I remembered him and then grabbed my arm. He...

Any advice for what I can do in the future if I'm randomly harassed by a stranger/s in public again? I felt really frightened in board daylight and in my school of all places. I'm still shaken up and...

I'm a girl in my early 20's attending university. Yesterday, after my classes were finished and it was the end of the day (around 5:30pm) I was walking through the main building's hallway to go home...

I’m 23 and never dated or had a boyfriend in my life. People have said I'm cute/really pretty so I know it isn't my looks, but I have suffered for years from social anxiety. My SA gets particularly...

Ugh, whatever. You didn't answer the first part of question though, "What does the Toastmaster's Club accomplish? I've heard they help people give speeches, but is it a way to meet guys/friends?
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Feels like I've been "taking a break from guys" my whole life though. It's one thing to be a "late bloomer" but I'm 23 and haven't even had my first kiss. -_- It's not like I only want to date for...

Thanks for the tips, but I want a real relationship with a guy. I've never dated at 23 years old, and I get lonely and it really brings me down thinking about my inexperience. So it'd be nice to find...

Just had a depression relapse last night. I was (sort of still am) dealing with the pain of having a guy show interest in me for weeks, only to start ignoring me and then texting me back with excuses...

In November I got a Facebook message from a guy I met in college. We exchanged numbers and texted on and off for nearly a month. (He even texted me once asking if I wanted to go to dinner with him,...

I don't care how common lying is while dating, it doesn't make it right. And when you catch someone in a lie, it's very hard not to wonder what else they're lying about or if they'll ever stop lying....

A month ago I got a random Facebook message from a guy I met in college. We exchanged numbers over fb and have been texting on and off ever since. (He even texted me once asking if I wanted to go to...

A few nights ago I got a random Facebook message from a guy I met in college. I think he might like me because he'd stare a lot in class and go out of his way to talk to me. Anyway, during the fb...

Can I get even one answer please? :(

I'm a girl in my early 20's, who's never dated before or anything. People say I'm attractive so I know my lack of experience with guys is due mostly to low self-confidence and my social anxiety....

Hey, thanks for your response. I'll try to let go really fast next time. I'm always the first one to let go anyway and it's actually when we're no longer hugging that he slides his hand down my arm....

Thanks for your reply. I'll try to avoid him as much as possible but if he comes into our store again I can't avoid him. I also run into him at conventions sometimes (my family and I are vendors at...

Thanks, I read the article. I think the handshake might be too formal since no one my age does that much, but maybe something more playful like a fist bump might work?



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Um, I hugged many people in my life. Including guys who I knew actually liked me, none have hugged me this way. Frankly I find the way he hugs me uncomfortable. I'm def not imagining things or being...

There's this male acquaintance I have, who I saw yesterday and the day before. On the day before yesterday, he visited the store my sister and I own and we all chatted for a while. Before he left my...