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Hey Chery. At this point in time, her mother has went back home. Flight left yesterday afternoon. I have talked with this woman about this whole thing more thoroughly. She understands what she did...

I also felt it important to mention that I have lived with this female for 4 months. I did not say that we have only been together for 4 months. This is not the case

As a man who has behaved this way, sometimes talking about a stressful issue with a woman may not make us feel better right away. Sometimes to even discuss the issue with a man prematurely (before...

Yes, the issue went far from where it needed to be. This was not intended to be an issue between Talaniman and myself, however it has. I still see some valuable comments here none the less. It may be...

Talaniman's first response to this issue was after I gave all angles to the situation. I can understand the other peoples comments before that. Being controlling does not come into play once you read...

Maybe I was not clear on what advice I wanted here, I can agree with that. I'd like advice from people who have ACTALLY dealt with this type of situation hands on. Not someone who read a book only. I...

I spelled people wrong, I typed perople instead. Lets see how you continue "TIT FOR TAT", because you can't be wrong. Great Advisor

Heh, you posted "parts" of my other posts to form a basis for a ridiculous comment. Without that you could not get a "jury" to agree with you. This isn't a courtroom however, and nobody trusts the...

You are right on the head here. Thanks. Obviously Dr. Phil, ahhhemm, I mean Talaniman
Sees this situation otherwise. People love giving hypocritical advice. They wouldn't deal with this situation...

Goodnight fella

This must be why you advise people, like hearing yourself talk... well I'll humor you.
There's this really great scene in an 80's movie called Beverly Hills Cop. Its where you
Have Eddie Murphy...

You still here?

I can see right through you, and I'm sure some others here can as well wheather they
Keep it to themselves or not.;)

You are right, that I didn't mention the previous issues with her originally. After some of the initial feedback I realized this, and saw how important it was to explain what built up to this being a...

Lets not get "technical" just so you can make yourself look better. I think anyone who read your advice can see what you meant, controlling/possesive come under the same umbrella and neither apply to...

I agree with that also in some cases. I know that I have been that person who dished it out. I think its most likely with younger couples

People like that, were wearing a "mask" in the first place, with everything, perhapps even toward themselves

I agree with you. In the case of bad relationships, they truly make you stronger in ditecting the bs the next time around

I took in some of what you said. I just felt that you had not thought enough about the situation before stating that I was possesive. Regardless they are still opinions that I must keep my ear open...

Men exist on a large scale, dominant to passive. It is obvious where I lay on this scale, but on the same token this applies to women. There are dominant women, and passive women. I do not feel that...

I broke up with her 2 days ago, so no she hasn't moved out yet. Her mother is still in town as we speak

You may be right about this. It's just sad that in every other way we are great, from our humor, to thinking on most things (aside from this), we've even renovated the house together, we've been...

Why am I concerned? Because if we live together, than obviously I love her enough to get some outside advice on the issue before I make her move out

Might I add, since I want to make sure that you guys know where I'm coming from. These are events that occurred prior to the main one we are discussing:

After an argument one night, she told me...

You are telling me that you think its fine if your girlfriend/wife stays out till the next day, and doesn't notify you at any point? What are you even talking about?

I shall repeat:

Communication and respect have NOTHING to do with controlling or degrading a woman. Nothing at all

Speak for yourself

Thank you Depressed in MO!
Your advice was the realest so far. I cannot stand the previous, completely FAKE advice
From Talaniman, he is just full of it in his posts. This is no fairytale. This is...

NEVER FAILS WITHOUT A COMMENT FROM TALANIMAN, showing that he did not even read through your WHOLE post on an issue. This is the doctor phil type comments that I did not want here. I wanted comments...

I think you should give him another chance, not just for him, but it shows that you know how to work through a relationship with its ups and downs. Don't cheat back either. If he does it again then...

Thanks. I know that you know just what I mean. Its never a mistrust feeling, it is always hoping something didn't happen to them. You lose the trust after you find out that they were fine, and they...

This is not primarily about trust in that way... Imagine that you live with your partner, share the same bed every night, Every night. Then one night you get home, go to sleep, but you wake up at...

I honestly appreciate all of your replies, regardless to agreement/disagreement on my actions. One of the reasons I posted this, is to get opinions that differ from mine as well. It helps me look at...

Let me add, that a phonecall/text can make the difference. I seriously doubt any "real" man here would accept his woman staying out till 7am drinking and getting high, regardless to who she is with,...

Actaually she was not open with me about it... Now she has told me that there was another guy there, that's one girl and two guys. And no this was not a one time thing. I broke up with her becase...

Good afternoon all. I'd very much appreciate to hear any opinions on the following situation:

Girlfriend and I live together for about 4 months so far. We have our ups and downs,
But we love...

Hello to all of you. Id like those who are interessted to share info on their signs matched with their partners, and how we view them (works well/not,
What is needed to make it work well) I'll start...

Thanks for the advice/comments! I agree with the general thoughts on this here. Moving
Slow is the right path for us I know, and I do think the sexual interactions are good to keep us feeling where...

Hello to all of you. Thanks for the advice, here's a follow up on the situation that brings everything up to date:
Her and I spent this past weekend together. It was wonderful, honestly our best...

I'd appreciate all opinions, thanks..

Hello to all of you, glad to be back on the site. I would very much like
Your opininions on my relationship issue:
Her and I were together for amost a year. We both had issues to address that...

I appreciate all the advice given. I agree its probably hard to tell me what I should do, but everything said has been helpful, I am going to see her in person and ask me why she is still active on...

I want to be face to face, because she has lied enough, at least let her see that I know the truth and see if she can be grown enough to admit it. The think is if she admits it I may consider working...

Thanks, I know what you are saying, do you think I should mention this over the phone? Or in person, this is a long distance relationship, I would be seeing her most likely next Friday

? Excuse me? But I thought I explained that I caught her? No? I have her talking to this "guy" she seems interested in "him" says that she doesn't have a boyfriend, she mentions an ex she had for 7...

Any other advice?

Please some advice?

Should I do this in person, or over the phone, I may not see her for another week and a half.
Thanks

I don't understand, why am I a liar and a sneak? You all know that you can't accuse someone without proof, how else are you supposed to REALLY find out? You know that the person will deny everything,...

Thanks all! That night she was just hanging out with her female friend. So that's why I don't understand how her response fits into everything