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I'm back... Here, I thought of you today and I came up with a few links you might want to try looking at... One is Child Development Services Bureau... In pertinent part it says, "Assists parents and...

"Can I convince him some way legally to make a DNA test if he doesn't want ?"

If he lived in the U.S. the court could just order it. Obviously him not being in the United States is a practical...

Ok, it sounds like you're in Miami-Dade County then.

County of Miami Dade: Child Support Enforcement Division
100 South Biscayne Boulevard, Miami, FL 33131-2027
(305) 530-2600

I'd call that...

One other thing occurred to me. One place you might want to start is to contact your local Child Support Enforcement Agency. Many states (all states?) have local agencies that basically hunt down the...

Ok, this is a little more clear now. Without being a lawyer, my understanding is that you're going to have to prove to the court's satisfaction that the man in question is the father. How that works...

I imagine we'll need some more information.

I'm guessing (only guessing) that the child is in the U.S. but where is the father currently -- Europe or the U.S.

The short answer is yes, of...

The thought of a bunch of second string basketball players sitting on the benches, fiddling with their PDAs to find a date... That's a funny image. :)

Paradoxically, not trying to attract them can often be very powerful, trust me.

Very attractive women get a lot of male attention. By not trying to impress her, you find come across as impressive....

"Does he like me as more than a friend and if i stick with it will he feel things for me?"

Based on the entirety of what you said, the best predictor of this man's behavior is how he treats other...

"It's something that I have thought about. If something deeper is the problem then I shouldn't break up with her. If not, then I should. I don't know what to do? What if I break up with her and...

Wondergirl is right, although based on what I'm hearing from the poster so far, I think the odds are tipped in favor of this gentleman having a pretty obvious commitment issue/problem. And it's been...

Interesting. That possibility hadn't occurred to me.

Talaniman is right. One other thing I'd add is that given the anxiety-fear-etc. issue, if you have access to counseling this would be a great time to get it, because as you're obviously at least...

Honey, unfortunately he just might not be into you. Just try not bothering him during the day for awhile and see if he warms up some.

Well, I'm confounded that you'd want to leave your own children. But since you apparently do (or maybe you're possible just blowing off some steam?) then how does your husband feel about the...

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Altenweg is right. It's important to realize your best "move" is to play it cool. This is going to be true no matter if you get her back or not. If there's any chance that you'll actually end...

Probably your best bet is to ask your lawyer -- I'm presuming you have one if you're in a Chapter 13 bankruptcy (my understanding is they're more complex than a Chapter 7). He's obligated to answer...

Hi Christie,

I'm sorry, when I gave my first answer I made the assumption that you were somewhere in the U.S. Although Canada obviously has a very similar system of law, et al. I'm not qualified...

"He got a restraining order against HER on Dec 17th."

Look, at this point you know two things for sure: (1) based on what you've told me, this man is a sociopath and is playing hardball and is...

To my knowledge it's pretty unlikely you'll get much satisfaction there, if you mean what I think you mean. While you obviously could ask, it's likely there isn't a normal procedure for that.

What...

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This forum has national/international reach. Can you add more information so others know how to respond? The state and county/locality you're talking about and more details about what...

It's unclear what precisely you mean... Do you mean, can you file a tax return? Sure, any American citizen can file a tax return.

Are you looking for a refund? It's impossible to tell whether...

I'd like to add to the above answers, that as a practical matter the most likely way you're going to actually resolve this situation is to "work on yourself," and the best way to do that, for you, is...

You may want a relationship, but the realistic point here is that she very likely does not. Consider this: do you think this woman would be interested in you if you weren't paying? If you doubt this,...

I have to agree with the other answerers -- why would you think that your ex-son in law would have some special privilege to threaten/harass/stalk et al. your daughter?

You (or rather, your...

I come from a family involved with real estate.

You have at least a few options... Probably the very easiest way out of your house is to pick up the newspaper and call every "I Buy Houses" ad in...

It looks like Glacier Bay's main manufacturer/distributor in the U.S. is Home Depot.

You should be able to see pictures etc. of Glacier Bay stuff using Home Depot's online store using this link:...

I realize this answer is a little late, but I've heard other people ask similar questions for years and I assume there are other readers with the same question.

My understanding is you have won a...

Oh, excellent news. I'm glad to hear it worked out for you!

Hi donf,

You said, "Let me ask it this way, is it possible that because there were periodic deposits of $50 or less at random times of the month, the monies were taken?"

The thing is, SSI funds...

Here's a nice link I found concerning the statute of limitations for various kinds of debts.

The list is broken out by state. When I look at California, I'm seeing 4 years for a debt agreed to in...

I'm not a lawyer, but my understanding is the principle at work here is the fact that you were admittedly considerate enough to contact the attorney I think you're saying you owe money to, won't help...

I'm not an attorney, but if it were me I can't think of a reason you couldn't use small claims court. You just wouldn't be able to obtain a judgment for eviction, just a normal judgment for money......

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If you don't get a perfect answer, you might want to check out a book on mnemonic devices (i.e. learning techniques that aid memory). I'm a little unsure of the best popular mnemonics for your...

Well this might sound goofy, but Robotech came to mind when you said that (probably because of all the "mech" stuff you mentioned).

I hope this helps.

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I'm sorry it turned out that way for you. Based on what you said, I think the honest answer is it sounds like he's taking advantage of you. It also sounds like more likely than not he never...

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You mention you're not sure what you want to do (presumably whether you're even interested in your legal career or not).

A book I found totally invaluable was The 4-Hour Workweek by Timothy...

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You said you're interested in unblocking memories.

Of course the first thing you might want to consider is counseling, if there's a way you can get access to that. I realize it can be...

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Of course a 39 year old man can be a binge drinker. I mean this in the most tactful way, believe me, but have you tried Alcoholics Anonymous? They can help more than just him, they can help...

She's calling you because she's still interested in you. The fact that she called you while drunk or otherwise inebriated at a party probably just signals that she's normally uptight/nervous about...

May I jump in with a suggestion? Where you're going to "win" in this situation is with the power of your own mind. Make a decision that you're going to have a great time. If you truly decide that, it...

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In your post you said that "I am lost trying to find out what killed him." You didn't say explicitly if you have contacted the vet and asked -- are they being less than helpful with...

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To find out if you have a warrant depends almost entirely on state law. If I wanted to find out if I had a warrant, I might ask a cop friend to run me, but I realize that might not be workable...

Hi Blive,

Probably the most helpful thing you could do, at least in my opinion, is show him this page. I say that because I'm guessing you haven't quite found a way to tell him all he needs to...

I'm a real estate investor and I've had to uncover property owners for years.

There are three main ways to find out who owns a property. They all revolve around locating your local tax collection...