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Evening guys,

Thanks for the responses Sneezy, much appreciated :)

How's the haircut Alty?

Haha...

Thanks for the insight Sneezy... Well, I might have responded, but I don't really think I got myself into anything I can't manage. Its easy enough to go back to not talking at all,...

Thanks NNG,

Not making it a habit is definitely a focus of mine. Like I said, I don't see myself dating her again, and I wouldn't want to put myself in a situation of feeling bad if I had to...

Well I hope you guys don't mind me digging up this old thread. Been a twist to the story lately and I'd like some opinions about how to proceed.

For the record, its been NC the entire way and...

Mornin everyone...

Hey Stringer, I hear your not feeling so well... Rest up, feel better pal.

Mornin all!

Pretty good Starby, how about you?

Hey all,

Figured I'd check in. Been a while :)

How are you all?

Sounds like you handled it well Molecular. You seem to be fine, so that's a plus. Granted, I didn't see her in person, just talked online, but it was still nice. We didn't act like nothing...

Since I used this thread a lot in my breakup, I figure its only fair to contribute back.

I suppose my NC technically ended last night. My ex messaged me condolences about a death in my family,...

Good morning all!

HC, how was your concert?

Starty how are you doing??

Have fun :)

HC have you seen them in concert??

I took my ex last Christmas as a gift. We sat on the floor not far from the stage.. the show was great. I'd like to do it again, but I'm thinking of getting...

Howdy Stringer

I'm doing all right Starby, someone should get up there and fix that roof :p

How have you been?

Hey all,

Been a while since I've stopped in, how have you been holding up??

Well I'm going to try to get some rest... Didn't sleep well last night, could use a nice nights sleep. Maybe a little TV first, maybe put myself in a better mood :p

Goodnight Starby! Don't...

Thanks,

I don't really know much about it either... The details don't really matter at this point. I know its cancer, but as far as I know its pretty advanced and there isn't much they can do. ...

Eh, I have been better... Home from school for the weekend, but was visiting my gramma in the hospital on Friday, and going again tomrorow at some point...

She's not doing well at all :( :(

Evening Starby

Can't stay, just checking in to let you know I got the memo :p

Haunted this time? Hell, what was it all the other times?

NNG,

Nice to hear that you handled it well. It must have been a nice gauge of how you have been handling it since it happened. I believe I have just passed my 6 month mark as well (I don't know...

Hiya everyone!

Its freezing here right now :( Is it almost Spring?

Thought so, I'm just going to give up :p

How are you doing today M?

He knows how you feel and he doesn't want you fighting for him.

Have you ever thought that you might be pushing him away by doing this?

Somebody help me...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/how-do-get-him-back-273083-4.html

I think I make sense:rolleyes:

Do you find a desperate man attractive? That is exactly what you are going to look like to him, and it might have the exact opposite effect that you are looking for... Please think about that...
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You came looking for advice and we gave it to you as best we know how. All of this advice comes from experience.

Trust me when I tell you that more than just you have been there. Many of us have...

Yea yeah, not very surprised with that one Starby :p

Going to be a long day for me, class in 40 minutes, then the gym then class all night and a paper that I have to write by tomorrow morning... ...

How about showing him you can live without him by your actions, not by calling him.

If you don't call him for say a month, I think he'll get the hint... it can't get any worse right? Give it a...

Morning all

Aww thanks for the new friends Chery :)

Running around catching decorations? Shouldn't you be resting, it is Sunday after all :p

I'm sure there will be time for your sprints later one :)

Yeah I'm keeping up with the school stuff...

All last week was midterms, so this weekend I made up in the partying department which means I was also making up in the workout department when I...

Hiya starty ;)

What's up?

Not bad Alty... you??

Had a long weekend, now I'm trying to put off a paper that I need to write for Tuesday :(

Agreed, Spring sounds like the best option...

... listening...

That's my twin brother :)

... For the record... there are no more oilers :p

Team doesn't exist anymore.

Personally, I don't care much about my older posts, I just wouldn't want anyone who knows me personally to see them. Makes me look a bit... pathetic :)

The promise - no worries... been in the...

Secret? Not so much of a secret but just some "not so attractive" sides of me from the first time my ex and I broke up... yeah, I was dumb enough to let it happen again, no more though, I promise ;)

Adios jr,

To be honest, I don't know where the name came from. First thing I thought of when I was looking for a name. This is actually my second ID on this website, and the first had things...

Alty,

I did the same thing... Couldn't think of much, so I just used my last name :)

Your wounded right now and seeing the world through jaded eyes. Of course nothing looks quite as promising as it could. You'll get over those feelings in time and be able to separate what happened...

If it has gotten to the point that you are posting here for advice, it must have been going on for a decent amount of time already. The problem with that is that your relationship is only 2 months...

The doubt is normal, it will pass.. Regardless of what you chose, you made a decision for the betterment of you, and you will be happy with the results. It will take time, but know you did what was...

Sounds like the relationship was flawed to begin with. On and Off after only 6 months is a BAD sign. It should have still been in the perfect/honeymoon stages at that point.

It sounds as though...

It sounds like you have done everything right and she isn't being accepting. It certainly is a problem when you lie to keep the peace, trust me, I've been there. It gets worse and worse and WILL...

Bingo my friend, Bingo. You nailed it right on the head.

Your afraid, and you should be. You know its happening and now you need to put a stop to it.

As far as you wanting to get close to her...