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  1. Question: Ignoring me

    by ironhide262
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    Do nothing, she obviously doesn't want to talk to...

    Do nothing, she obviously doesn't want to talk to you... she will contact you went she's ready.

    In the mean time, Man Up and stop acting like a chump!
  2. Block his number and any other way he might be...

    Block his number and any other way he might be able to contact you. Never talk to him again... just be happy your done with this manipulative person.
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    My 2 cents... this girl is in it for the sex and...

    My 2 cents... this girl is in it for the sex and companionship- nothing more. Your big mistake here is thinking that because she wants/is having sex with you that she is committed to being your...
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    If you truly love this guy and want to be with...

    If you truly love this guy and want to be with him then, what's the rush? From what you wrote I understand that the two of you are not living together/sharing a home... shouldn't that be the next...
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    It's his way of dealing with a situation he...

    It's his way of dealing with a situation he cannot accept quite yet... doesn't necessarily mean he is mad or hates you. He's starting a new chapter just as you are and moving on.
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    Every time you get that urge do something else......

    Every time you get that urge do something else... go for a run, call a friend, wash the car or some other menial task, whatever. Bit by bit, day by day it gets easier.
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    Many girls(or guys) simply don't want a...

    Many girls(or guys) simply don't want a confrontation and/or don't want to hurt their partner so, they throw the ball in their partners court... forcing an outcome. Gutless and disrespectful, yes...
  8. Have you tried asking him to explain his...

    Have you tried asking him to explain his irrational behavior?

    Even so, him asking for space should be taken as a clear sign that his feelings about your relationship are changing. So, call him on...
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    This is how you handle it... you leave her to her...

    This is how you handle it... you leave her to her confusion and do your own thing... plain and simple.

    It's been a year dude... why ride this crazy rollercoaster? What makes you think that, if by...
  10. She has said she doesn't love me anymore, and...

    She has said she doesn't love me anymore, and that "[she] is just so sick of seeing [me]."

    Guy... really.. accept it, she's gone! It's been 2 months , let yourself heal and move on!



    The...
  11. Question: Trust issue

    by ironhide262
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    Well, you're dating a girl with a "really bad...

    Well, you're dating a girl with a "really bad trust issue" and only have been dating a month.

    As long as you're not giving her any reason to view you as a distrustful person there really is not...
  12. Make it easy on yourself and block her or better...

    Make it easy on yourself and block her or better yet delete her from your FB. The only thing that will come out of reading all her FB post is more confusion and hurt for YOU! Trust me FB will not...
  13. Yes, this time don't take him back! EVER! You...

    Yes, this time don't take him back! EVER!

    You are the one doing this to yourself... you do have a choice! Either stay miserable or move on and look forward to someone who will treat you better!
  14. Sorry guy but she took your love and now she's...

    Sorry guy but she took your love and now she's giving it back, willfully... she just will not have the sense of loss that you will. Something she has probably been thinking about for a while.

    The...
  15. - Yes, no reason she gives will be good enough...

    - Yes, no reason she gives will be good enough for you... her loss... look forward to the next one!



    What's the point of meeting up just to rehash everything you guys have already talked about?...
  16. Block her or delete her on FB( and any other...

    Block her or delete her on FB( and any other site). Keep it that way.

    You broke up.
  17. Yes, I would say you did the right thing. So many...

    Yes, I would say you did the right thing. So many women just put up with that kind of behavior from their boyfriend/husband. You gave him plenty of chances.

    Give yourself some time, you will feel...
  18. This is exactly why you go NO CONTACT and cut all...

    This is exactly why you go NO CONTACT and cut all communications with her! YOu can only be affected by her BS if you let her.

    It takes a while before you feel all these slaps in the face she has...
  19. Exactly! But, she didn't and this should tell you...

    Exactly! But, she didn't and this should tell you all you need to know! I'm not sure, perhaps she did try with you although in the end it doesn't really matter. You were on the right track on trying...
  20. The fact that you did nothing wrong during those...

    The fact that you did nothing wrong during those 3 hangouts and the fact that she moved on to another guy should tell you something, no?

    Just because she hangs out with you(for 3 whole days),...
  21. I would say she had her rebound with her weekend...

    I would say she had her rebound with her weekend friend... then jumped back to you for 3 days(that was your chance)... now she's dating this Kevin guy and

    .. so as you see yes, girlfriends do...
  22. Why are you so involved and caught up in her...

    Why are you so involved and caught up in her life?. you want her back? Why? You yourself mentioned she was confused! How about just getting on with your life instead of trying to figure out the...
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    It's not about finding out why she is the way she...

    It's not about finding out why she is the way she is. If you knew, would it really matter? What matters right now is YOU and what you are going to do about the state you are in.

    Just go no contact...
  24. If she wants to experience the single life then I...

    If she wants to experience the single life then I suggest you let her... heck, seems like she is already doing it anyway while you seem to want a commitment.

    I would let her do her thing and I...
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    Revenge is not the way to go, believe me. I would...

    Revenge is not the way to go, believe me. I would concentrate on getting this past me and finding a good guy... they are out there.

    Karma will prevail!
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    The only person that knows if she will come back...

    The only person that knows if she will come back to you is her. I guess anything can happen but, the last thing you want to do is hang around waiting. Seems like the both of you just didn't keep in...
  27. I agree with the other poster.. she's wants a...

    I agree with the other poster.. she's wants a breakup. She's trying to let you down easy and/or make it easier for herself.

    If you're dead set on meeting her this weekend you should tell her that...
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    After all the lies, violence, arguing,...

    After all the lies, violence, arguing, cheating,etc. why are you hanging on to her?

    Man up and dump her already! Do you know why she is treating you this way? Because YOU allow it!
    You're...
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    I think you need to snap back into reality here...

    I think you need to snap back into reality here and perhaps get a puppy.

    You're toying around with a 16 yr old who hasn't the faintest idea of what he is getting himself into. He needs to develop,...
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    Hmmm... do you have a question? That's quite ...

    Hmmm... do you have a question?

    That's quite a general and broad statement you wrote there. While I sure some women( an guys) act that way I can't say in my experience that all women( or guys )...
  31. I think that as long as you're honest and direct...

    I think that as long as you're honest and direct in telling him how you feel that's about as good as you can make it. Also, be firm... tell him it's over and you are not going to change your mind....
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    Why hang around for someone that feels that his...

    Why hang around for someone that feels that his level of commitment to you is dependent on his financial situation?

    You write that the both of you "date on occasion" yet both of your reactions to...
  33. Do you mean just talking.. that's it? It's...

    Do you mean just talking.. that's it?

    It's been my experience that when you get this type of reaction from a girl she is simply looking for a way out of the relationship or at least that is the...
  34. She asked for space so, give it to her. Let her...

    She asked for space so, give it to her. Let her do her own thing whatever that may be.

    Seems to me that the both of you moved too fast. All this talk about moving in together, a girl who probably...
  35. Ask that question after you have healed up and...

    Ask that question after you have healed up and learned from all of this. NC all the way, no contact... ZERO!
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    Developing a friendship early on is important. At...

    Developing a friendship early on is important. At this point however, it is unrealistic of her to think you can just switch gears and start working on friendship... especially since she still has...
  37. Well you're mind may have not been willing but,...

    Well you're mind may have not been willing but, your heart sure did commit itself!- That's all it takes.

    Tell that to your heart... do you think that you would be in your current situation if...
  38. OK... anytime a girl is giving you all kinds of...

    OK... anytime a girl is giving you all kinds of mixed signals and not making any sense then it's time to bail out! Given your history of being FWB and your feelings towards her from the start do you...
  39. The fact is from the start he has never wanted...

    The fact is from the start he has never wanted what you have wanted and continue to want.Why do you continue to ignore that?

    Just because you become someone's savior doesn't mean that they will...
  40. This whole crazy car situation has been nothing...

    This whole crazy car situation has been nothing but a set up to make you fail... she knew you couldn't get a car! She's playing games instead of being honest with you. After 5 years of being together...
  41. There's not much you can do now except let it go....

    There's not much you can do now except let it go. Obviously something happened to make her mad at you but, you blew your chance to ask and find out. Next time ask!

    Let the dust settle, then...
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    Holy smokes guy, slow down! It's only been a...

    Holy smokes guy, slow down!

    It's only been a few dates and she's your girlfriend already? Exclusive?

    You text and talk all day but, that doesn't seem to be enough for you... time to back off...
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    Haven't you rolled around in the dirt enough for...

    Haven't you rolled around in the dirt enough for this girl?

    Why would you now or in the future, want to get back together? How could you forget or get past what she has done? It only makes sense...
  44. I suggest you finally put your foot down and stop...

    I suggest you finally put your foot down and stop letting this guy do whatever the heck he wants!

    If you do not want him to go to this family function then say "NO". Why sit around in limbo...
  45. I'm speechless! . Listen/read to what...

    I'm speechless!



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    Listen/read to what she is telling you. She has a boyfriend... whether or not he becomes a rebound is possible but anyone's guess.

    Seems like you missed the fact...
  46. What should be first and foremost on your mind is...

    What should be first and foremost on your mind is getting your happiness back. Since it was your depression or inability to cope with change that caused the demise of your relationship , it only...
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    If you are really serious about NC then why can...

    If you are really serious about NC then why can you receive texts from him?
    But, to answer your question, No, you don't have to reply to him... you're on NC.
    Delete his number from your phone and...
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    At this point why even care why he is doing all...

    At this point why even care why he is doing all this. After just one month of dating there is wayyy too much drama here! Why put up with it?

    More than likely he is trying to scoop you for some...
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    In this world where we can control any...

    In this world where we can control any communication devices we have , I don't know either.

    Without getting into specifics it may be beyond the scope of this board and may take some one on one...
  50. Just how old are the both of you? When you...

    Just how old are the both of you?

    When you breakup with someone it should be for good. Happy couples don't breakup in order to get back together again... they work on problems.. that's how...
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