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    Yep - love yourself first and that other person...

    Yep - love yourself first and that other person doesn't matter as much.

    I'd totally hangout with me.
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    I notice these gals never espond to the posts. ...

    I notice these gals never espond to the posts.

    What a terrible situation - being used.

    These gals alwayshtink more will come of it.

    Let me guess - VERY low self esteem.
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    Hey Skell, my current gal and I have known each...

    Hey Skell, my current gal and I have known each other for a little over 4 months. We have lived together for over a month now.

    Sometimes you just know. She is the girl version of me. We don't...
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    Disagree. No one should be involved with a...

    Disagree. No one should be involved with a married. He has family etc.

    Yes, you've learned now... but you shouldn't have been there in the first place. He used you.
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    Can ALL woman learn from this!! Please?? Many...

    Can ALL woman learn from this!! Please?? Many married many WILL lie, cheat, and steal to sleep with you - nothing more.

    You DO NOT get involved with a married men UNTIL the divorce papers are...
  6. Question: Hey all!

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    Thanks for all the kind words. I WILL try to get...

    Thanks for all the kind words. I WILL try to get back into this.

    Again - anyone - send thosr private questions to me.

    Tal - Mexico twice! I am grreedy! Ha! I love Mexico.
  7. Question: Hey all!

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    Hey all!

    Hi all... I am around - everything is great... no worries. Just really busy and quite frankly kind of burned out from this.

    PLEASE send me any private questions to my private message folder - I...
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    Why hasn't he left his marriage? "Can you...

    Why hasn't he left his marriage?

    "Can you really be used for sex if you like the sex?" Of course and you are! You're not in a relationship with anyone. He doesn'tr love you. He probably loves his...
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    ... and then 4 years later they wonder were there...

    ... and then 4 years later they wonder were there life is. Why they have no one.
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    Well you do have a good handle on this - I agree...

    Well you do have a good handle on this - I agree 1000% people will ACT out what you want for a short time.

    Reminds me of gal I thought was the one - all nice and sweet for a couple - months turned...
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    Dude move on... WAY too much drama to handle......

    Dude move on... WAY too much drama to handle... go find a NORMAL healthy gal.

    I have a STRONG feeling - and you have already seen this - once the coast is clear she will go back to her ways.
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    It makes me ill hearing these stories over and...

    It makes me ill hearing these stories over and over.

    There is no justification in doing this. It is SOOOOOO unhealthy for someone.

    These guys quite frankly are bottom feeders - sleezes, scum,...
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    He uses her for sex. Nothing more. She can dream...

    He uses her for sex. Nothing more. She can dream up what ever she wants in head. That's reality.

    There is NOTHING for a women to justify sleeping gwith a married man... and that's all you do.
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    I read it again. This has to be fiction. He...

    I read it again. This has to be fiction.

    He more concerned about the dog than her.
  15. Question: HELP! Suicidal!

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    Can people please check the dates. This post is...

    Can people please check the dates. This post is from 18 months ago - we've been getting a lot of this lately again.

    Great advice though.
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    No this never works. See he cheated omn his...

    No this never works.

    See he cheated omn his wife... he'll cheat on you as well... especially a self centered guy.

    I tget angry that woman, and ver yyoung woman at that, would WATE her life with...
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    This isn't a place to vent. It's a place sort out...

    This isn't a place to vent. It's a place sort out reality. You get no simpathy here. This is try and sort what's really going on. And this guy is a mess... he needs a therapist pronto.

    He lives...
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    So you like being used? Abused? Seriously - this...

    So you like being used? Abused? Seriously - this a form of abuse.

    By The Way... you've never broken up because you don't have anything to begin with. You're the mistress. He has a wife - which he...
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    This guy wants us to complement him and give him...

    This guy wants us to complement him and give him advice and be on his side - doesn't work that way - truth hurts!

    I doubt he gets it.
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    J9 - great point - I bet he's bad and fat. He...

    J9 - great point - I bet he's bad and fat. He sounds lazy.

    I don't understand why she is even with this guy.
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    Probably the most selfish post we've had here....

    Probably the most selfish post we've had here. This dude is clueless.

    Learn Spanish jack---.

    This guy is LIVING with his house keeper - who occasionally

    Lets see- you're in 5 year...
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    Sounds like you walked into a big mess when oyu...

    Sounds like you walked into a big mess when oyu moved in. Do you REALLY want all the headaches? I can't imagine working with his ex-wife. Yuck!

    Quite frankly - you're SEEING the REAL him. I don't...
  23. Question: Now what?

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    So many better men out there for you. I know you...

    So many better men out there for you. I know you will find one once you get this jerk out of your head.
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    The old married guy deal. 2 1/2 years and of...

    The old married guy deal. 2 1/2 years and of course he hasn't left his wife.

    Remember - he cheated on her - HE WILL CHEAT on you.

    This is insanre. You're only being used by a BIG loser.
  25. Question: Hey all...

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    Oh Val wishes!! Ha!!

    Oh Val wishes!! Ha!!
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    Hey all...

    Sorry I missed out on the last week of questions... I WILL slowly get into them. Won't be a ble to answer them all as there are pages of them.

    I was in Mexico with friends as a lady friend....
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    Come on Kay - I saw it coming from your posts....

    Come on Kay - I saw it coming from your posts. You had to have.

    Let him go!! Once and for all!!
  28. Question: So very lost

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    I hope you're under a physicians care as well......

    I hope you're under a physicians care as well... therapy would be important as well - usually this type of crisis is caused by other issues. Please - today - go seek some real professionals.
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    Qyite frankly I feel it's a epidemic... a lot of...

    Qyite frankly I feel it's a epidemic... a lot of it is based on people getting married too young.

    That's why we ALWAYS say here GO SLOW. LEARN ABOUT THIS PERSON. YOU DON'T REALLY KNOW SOMEONE...
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    Do you still lwork together? Work romance...

    Do you still lwork together?

    Work romance rarely works.

    + he had you while he was really down. He's over the divorce now. YOU MAY HAVE HELPED HIM HEAL - that sometimes happens in relationships.
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    Well, it also depends are what her TRUE...

    Well, it also depends are what her TRUE INTENTIONS are to keep this guy around.

    I'd say RED FLAG waving for her current boyfriend - someone has to hang on to old boyfriends for Plan B, future,...
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    Have you told him that isn't true? I might...

    Have you told him that isn't true?

    I might guess it could have some how been your Ex.

    You'd think he trust you - WHY the lack of trust?? Why doesn't he trust you??
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    Smothering is a good word - that's what he did.

    Smothering is a good word - that's what he did.
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    Did yo utake care of that?

    Did yo utake care of that?
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    You don't ask for no contact. That isn't the...

    You don't ask for no contact. That isn't the point. You STOP calling them. You don't returen ANY of the text and e-mail. You move on and work on yourself.

    They most likely will not come back - it...
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    Keep that up!! Keep it up!! I'd be busy doing...

    Keep that up!! Keep it up!!

    I'd be busy doing other things.

    I agree - go SLOW!!

    You seem a little obseesed with this as well.
  37. Question: During sex.

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    Yeah - I don't see this as problem - they'll work...

    Yeah - I don't see this as problem - they'll work it out.
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    Listening is so key here. KEY. I might suggest...

    Listening is so key here. KEY.

    I might suggest a 'talking stick' on this one. It's where the person holding the atick gets to talk... and the other person MUST listen. I mean really listen. It...
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    Well - it's not a break up - yet - tell him you...

    Well - it's not a break up - yet - tell him you love if you do. This weekend is critical. Tell him exactly how you feel. Make SURE he listens. You listen to him.

    It's sounds like he loves you - bt...
  40. Question: During sex.

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    Do you use your hands? Be soft - let her guide...

    Do you use your hands? Be soft - let her guide you.

    Oral... you learn to be a champ in this area. Do you know about the ?

    You have you hands and mouth... use them! Be gentle, be soft. There are...
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    It's possible. But she brought it up. He needs to...

    It's possible. But she brought it up. He needs to clear that up. But you should never borrow money like that long term, from her savings and not pay it back. That would be the first thing you pay...
  42. Dude - you really neede to work on yourself. You...

    Dude - you really neede to work on yourself. You need to learn about women.

    No women wants a needy - jealous boyfriend.

    MYSpace destroys relationships. Believe me - seen it over and over.
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  43. Question: During sex.

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    Ok - any time! Ha! Dude - this isn't a problem...

    Ok - any time! Ha!

    Dude - this isn't a problem at all - don't tell anyone!! You're lucky man - you don't have a deadfish.

    Dude - this all is a GOOD THING!!
  44. Question: Now what?

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    This guy plays you like a yo-yo. End it with him....

    This guy plays you like a yo-yo. End it with him. He'll always have tha twandering eye. Do yourself a favor and find a healthy guy.

    "he liked when 'I played hard to get' when we first met;" - game...
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    Absolutely Tal. I wish all the women who are with...

    Absolutely Tal. I wish all the women who are with married guys and THINK he will leave his wife - read this thread.

    THE BIG DEAL IS>>>>>>

    He cheated on his wife - he WILL cheat on you!!
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    You sound like you did a ton for here. But like I...

    You sound like you did a ton for here. But like I said - women keep score differently. Pat her back then give her all the space in the world.
  47. I think that's too big of an age difference. Why...

    I think that's too big of an age difference. Why on earth would a 25 year old man date a HIGH SCHOOLER - A SOPHOMORE.
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    I feel for you man. I undrrstand the score is...

    I feel for you man. I undrrstand the score is different between the two of you. Women keep score differently. The money thing appears to have FORCED her to resent you completley.

    The only way to...
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    I really hope every woman in the world who is...

    I really hope every woman in the world who is with a married man or thinking about being with a married man reads this thread and can see how HORRIBLE it is.

    Married should mean off limits or you...
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    Absolutely NO!! Have fun together. Do you like...

    Absolutely NO!! Have fun together. Do you like him? Does he curl your toes?
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