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was with him for 3 years, but surprisingly over it already. He lost all my love and respect the minute I saw the message to his ex. I'm personally not into one night stands, but whatever floats your...

Well it's the morning after the night before. We met and had a few drinks and danced. I wasn't saying I was going to have sex with him, I was just saying if I did there would be nothing wrong with...

See that's what I thought, but my friends are all 'if you go out drinking, find him attractive and have sex with him you'll regret it'... but so what if we have sex? As long as we're safe. Nothing...

Hi everyone, just an update form my previous posts. Me and my partner who was featured in my last questions are no longer together (I found a message on his phone to an ex stating he wanted to get...

Why ask the question on here if you're going to do it anyway? Seriously, you need to move on. They're made for each other from what you've said. Let them make their mistakes and you carry on with...

Hmm it really sounds like you're not over her. If you were, you really shouldn't care about who she's with and all these theories about cheating. Because that's what they are: theories! You have no...

You can't take the battery out :( that's what I thought, but he'd rather not go without a phone for ages lol thanks :)

My boyfriend has had his HTC one x for about
3 months now without any problems. This
Morning on his way to work, he was listening to
Music and on Facebook when suddenly it made
A weird sound...

I am open to new friends, should they come along. I just don't have time to seek them out. My point is, why should ordinary friendships change? Why can't my friends talk about normal stuff, and call...

The thing is, I don't want new friends, I want my current ones back! Just without the comments on their hormones or babies. I'm sick of hearing about it! It's all I hear about now, and I can't relate...

I know all of this, yet I can't feel better about it. I can't replace the friends I have lost, and I can't get my head around its happening again. How do I make new friends? I don't like people at...

So yesterday I found out my best friend is pregnant... and I know it's selfish and self-pitying, but I feel so upset! I'm 22 next week, and since I left school at 15, ALL of my closest friends from...

You're actually complaining about this? I have a high sex drive, and after nearly three years of being together, I make do with once a week! (Not for lack of trying!) Seriously though, after eight...

I know you must feel neglected from this (I sometimes feel the same, I have a much higher sex drive than my boyfriend) but have you spoken to her away from the bedroom about this? As you can imagine,...

hi everyone, I'm hopefully going to be moving out of my mums house soon =)

for the sake of my wages (not very much) I'm doing a budget to see how much this is all going to be costing me!

thing...

But surely I haven't done anything worng to compromise our relationship?

He was the one to talk to these girls in the first place (I still don't know what was said) so shouldn't he be looking at...

In answer to your question, we both live at home with our mums while we save for our own place next year.

So how do I approach this, without making him feeling guilty? I honestly don't know where...

Glad to help, honey =)

remember, only you can fix you

Oh my, taliniman, I think you have actually summed me up in a paragraph!

I never actually realised this about myself before now!

Yes, I agree now that in all aspects of my life, if anything...

I get it, you obviously care for him, but I think you should sit down by yourself, and think about what you need to do to help yourself. Maybe after some counselling, try writing him a letter. That...

Guys mean what they say when they need space... they really do just need space! While us girls want to sit and talk, guys want time to chill out, think it over, and maybe go out with the lads. That...

He knows this is his last chance, we have been together two and a half years now, and I think I know him pretty well. He hasn't given me any reason for me not to trust him since March.

That being...

if he did give you a chance, I'd think there was something wrong with him!

All he wants to do is make something of himself, have a loving, supporting and trusting partner back home, and you were...

Yeah, that's something to think about!

He seemed in sincere the last time we spoke about it, he thought I would leave him, I didn't, mainly because I love him so much, and I didn't want to end it...

I am in a similar situation, I think I am overweight, my boyfriend doesn't. He is always as nice as your guy about it, except I think maybe he is trying to tell you indirectly by saying his 'friends'...

thanks for your feedback,

in my defense, snooping from suspicion isn't due to a lack trust, he raised the red flag on his own, I just wanted to know why.

I don't know for sure if he has been...

Hi everyone,

From my previous thread, all that is now sorted so thanks very much for everyone's advice! =D

But now, need to delve into a whole other issue...

About 8 months ago, my...

how do I get it out of him without being defensive? I just want answers more than anything, that and not to be in a sexless relationship!=/. I want to help him through this, but I feel that if I try...

erm OK... everyone seems to think I am badgering him or annoying him about it! We have only spoken once about the whole thing, this was three weeks ago when he had been distant for over a week and we...

Thanks for all your feedback! I know it's about giving him time, and by talking to him I thought I'd be letting him know I'm fine with it and there's no pressure. I also thought that if I don't speak...

It's not the porn itself, it's more the fact that he is watching that and not coming anywhere near me =/ I have asked him about it and he said it's a boredom thing and not to worry, which I don't...

I am in the same situation unfortunately, try looking at my question and see if you have tried any of the things that I have? We could help each other out!

I have always explained how I feel for him, he is my soulmate, and I know that sex isn't everything, but it counts for something, right? I sometimes feel that every time I speak to him, I am pushing...

The thing is we have done anal before, which we both enjoyed, so I don't know why all of a sudden he has gone off the idea, at least with me, he knows probably more than anyone how open minded I am...

Thanks for your reply, yeah I noticed there was a lot of anal type stuff on there, and I said 'is that something you'd want to do?' and he just made a face?! Also a lot of blonde (which I'm not),...

I have been with my boyfriend for just over two years. The first year or so was great, we had sex three to four times a week... But now, I'm lucky if I get it once a fortnight!

I'm 21 and my...