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I will not be returning to AMHD for quite a while. My ex's peace bond is up on the 20th of this month and I need to talk to VWA and police at what action I need to take next. I am under a lot of...

I agree that the best thing is to tell her to wait to have sex. I think many people would find it shocking also that the sexual health clinic and the local high school where I live has condom...

If I were you, I would just talk to him about it. Be open and honest about you wanting to be intimate with him. I would suggest that you talk to your doctor if you and your boyfriend do plan on...

Hi Brian;

It is hard after a breakup to be able to move on with your life, because, you feel you have lost that special someone. No contact with her is the first step to moving forward with your...

Make him a special valentine card and some special heart shape cookies sounds good. A way to a lot of guys hearts in through their tummies!

Personally, I think you need to stop focusing on feeling good and having a orgasm. Masturbation is always the start of knowing what we like and don't like. What feels good and what doesn't. Is there...

As I see this was posted here some time ago, but I couldn't help but to say what I think about this topic, since dreams interest me so much. In dreams we can take many angles from them....

Being "just friends" with someone you dated does not work! Moving on with your life is for your best interest. Why do I say being "just friends" with your ex doesn't work? Reason is... you have...

First of all, I would like to mention that it is not always safe to disclose your whole self to someone you hardly know. You have no earthly idea what this guy is really like.

Second, it's a...

I'm not meaning to look down on the situation but I find it really difficult to believe that this girl's parents want her to marry her own cousin. Incest is a crime. Why any mother would suggest this...

You really should leave the relationship. I'm not in the habit of telling what people should do with their lives because people control their own destinies but for once in these kind of situations it...

In my opinion there is nothing wrong with you being a virgin. Honestly, your friends don't need to know about whether you've been with someone or not. Believe me, when the right guy comes along,...

What does any spiritual belief have to do with looking after the environment? Maybe if someone has proof that it does I will change my point of view on the subject!

It is an insecurity issue on his part but as far as being a "controlling" issue... could be. Does your boyfriend show extreme jealousy issues or controlling issues. For example... does he control who...

The one thing that you have to remember is that she is a married woman. Being friends with her is one thing but if she has this crush on you it is fairly unhealthy. I would keep my distance from her...

Many women and men have fetishes. Honestly, what woman is not turned on by seeing a man in uniform. It's not abnormal but if it really bothers you than you should talk to him about it. Maybe the both...

Why do you think she has a crush on you? Is it because she said she liked you in front of other people? It could also mean that she likes you as a person. Has she ever given you a reason to think she...

What's the fact of you being shorter than her have anything to do with it? Wait till she's alone or when she is surrounded by her friends ask her if you could speak to her. It is scary to tell...

Some women twirl their hair around their finger. Some women make body contact with you or flirt with. Like for example a woman might rub her hip against yours or rub your arm or shoulder. Some women...

I agree with Cat! The guy is an adult. 23 years old as a matter of fact. I don't understand why this so-called "man" cannot date someone his own age. Honestly, if I had a daughter your age and this...

I guess the question is why shouldn't you go to a strip club? It sounds like he has a one sided deal. I would have quoted his phrase back to him... "so you would rather see naked women instead of...

Did you receive the help you needed for the abuse from your ex-husband. Women who have been abused and not received help are victims of abuse again and again. It's a vicious cycle.It like you have...

That would really make sense why your so skeptical and paranoid. Reminds me of the old saying... once bitten twice shy. It can take time to be able to get trust factors in men when you have been...

Is this something you really want to do? Does it make you uncomfortable? If you want to be with another woman sexually just to please him than I would be open and honest about how you really feel....

It sounds like your pretty attatched to this guy... maybe a little too much that it has come to the point of being skeptical of his loyalty towards you. Would it be fair to say that you have an...

Did something in specific happen in her past relationship that has made her decide not to be involved in anymore relationships or is it just the pain of a broken heart? You may need to give her some...

So what exactly is your question here? Is he just fooling around with you? If him sitting on you really bothers you... tell him to stop. Dani has made a great suggestion. Try sitting on his lap. If...

I think it's great that you and your ex have moved on with your lives and have families of your own. I guess the question is... what is the real motive behind wanting to contact him? Generally when a...

Cat's advice was spot dead on.

Whenever your ex contacts you ignore her. Don't respond to her messages. Block her so she can't message you. Use call block so she can't call you. The no contact...

What ever happened to "through sickness and in health"! I guess the vows you took with your wife didn't mean too much to you. What if this office girl ends up sick and you decide to leave her because...

Men who are abusive usually do not change. They may try to tell you they have changed or they will never do it again, but, unfortunately it does. These men do have issues that we cannot change. I do...

Hi Sarah!

There is an excellent website on Adult ADHD: www.ncbi.nih.gov/pmc/articles/pmc2957278. Adult adhd is somewhat like childhood adhd except adult adhd has co-morbidity of other psychiatric...

Be yourself! Men can sense when you are tense. They do like women who interact with them and smile when we tak to them. I find being single is a good thing. You can rediscover or discover who you are...

Your girlfriend needs to talk to a therapist that deal with childhood sexual abuse. It's not easy to talk about and is traumatic to the person, but it is a part of the healing process and moving...

Honey, you don't need to change yourself for anybody. 140 lbs is fat? Even if you lost a lot of weight for him and got really thin what would he want you to change next? YOur hair? The way you dress?...

I don't understand why it is so important to you that she wasn't a virgin when you were with her. How would you feel if she probed you about your past sexual experiences. Honestly, it really isn't...

It sounds like he likes to intimidate you. In my opinion, I think you deserve to be with someone who will treat you with respect and love you and won't yell and swear at you. I agree that...

Thank you for answering my question. Now I understand better.

Catholics are not pagan. My family are actually protestants and have crosses in our homes. I have many in my room. The message of the cross is foolishness of those who do not believe. I don't use the...

What does haram mean? Is that like a sin or something. Forgive me because I really don't know much about Islam and the teachings of Islam.

I think it's time your mom and her boyfriend put their grown-up trousers on and stop relying on you for everything. Listen... do not ever give your mother or her boyfriend another dime. YOu owe her...

When you say narcissist, do you mean Narcissist Personality Disorder? Maybe you can explain a little for me. Someone who is a narcissist has a high meaning of themselves. They disregard the feelings...

Congratulations on your 2.5 years sobriety. That is a major feat to have accomplished. Trying to rebuild your life and making positive changes are keys to staying sober. Having said that... the man...

The urge to contact her is pretty hard to fight but it's been 10 hours and eventually it will be another 10 hours, until you have no urge to contact her. Just take one day at a time. Keeping a...

I think you have a pretty good reason for the concern. Him having a quick temper is the part that is a concern for me. Leaving you standing there while he flirts with these other girls. Really...

Honestly, a couple of weeks is pretty early to start having feelings for somebody. Obviously the feelings he had for you were pretty superficial otherwise he wouldn't be going back to his ex. Just...

It doesn't sound like you had much of a relationship with her. Don't you find it odd that she has to make sure no one is at home before you go to her place? The guy stays there overnight at leaves...

Have you ever discussed with your mother how you feel? Why you feel unloved? I would focus on your new found faith for direction. Talk to God. God also understands. I read a card that a friend gave...

First of all honey, Fr. Chuck is quite past the boy stage with tons of wisdom that far surpasses your age. Just because Fr. Chuck is a man doesn't mean he doesn't understand your dilema.

Now to...

Your boyfriend still needs to know how you are feeling. It's not fair to him to leave him in the dark. If you really loved him like you say you do, than why are you having these feelings towards this...