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I guess I should say that this isn't in happening in the USA, and that the courtship culture here is different from the USA. Let's say you go on a date with a girl this Saturday. All good. But then...

Let me make this as short as possible without skipping over the important details.

So I'm freshman in college right now and in one of my classes there is a girl I like. I've consciously made an...

Sounds like you are going through hell :S

I have no expertise in this field, and I am only a teenager. But I will try my best.

It is normal for girls her age to want to 'experience new things',...

Greetings once again all. I have some news.

I have officially passed 2 months of consistent NC and recently received an email from the ex asking how I've been.

Best response?
I don't feel...

You should try being friends with boys first. That can help boost your confidence. Then maybe a boy 'friend' will start liking you and something can start from there.

And to the boy you are...

Hi there, 18 year old straight virgin here.
For myself, I recognize three definitions of true love.

First is from the book of Corinthians,
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it...

Hey guys, just updating. So far I've been able to block the pain out by getting REALLY busy. But I'm on holiday now and I've got nothing to do. All those times I was busy was because of school, and...

Get yourself busy. Then you won't have enough to time to worry about someone and contact them.

Good advice from awayandalone.
Trust and discipline too. Never manipulate them in any way. Never hit them, or hurt them with your words.
Keep the love alive by going out of your way to prove that...

I think you already know that it is over. You BOTH have given up sex with each other. You don't FEEL like a couple. You are completely UNSATISFIED. Its time to move on.

You've dated this guy...

Sounds like your son is the abusive type, judging from his behavior to his own parents and his divorce. I am in no position to give advice but all I can say is try going to a professional counselor....

They say absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Since she has decided on moving away for the best of both of you, I suggest you just let her go. Let this test determine whether your relationship is...

Are you sure he feels the same way you do? In my opinion you should wait for what he will do next. If he loves you more than his 'wife', then he will probably fight for you. If he doesn't, then I...

You have broken up three years ago and he is dating someone right now for almost three years. There is no question that you should move on and let go of him. Just read his 'final' message: "if there...

Eight months is a pretty long time. I'm still young so I don't know much, but I think you really need to put more effort if you want sex to happen. Try seducing him, it works for most men. Try to be...

It is normal for you to feel like he's the perfect one for you in the early stages of the relationship. Like you said, "I met this amazing person. The first guy in my life." Its called the honeymoon...

Just an update. I'd like to thank everyone who posted their advice, it really helped me get back up on my feet. Its almost been a week of full NC and I've started feeling better. Looking back at the...

This maybe a sign that you should also start working on yourself and keeping yourself busy. It'll be good for both of you, she won't feel pestered by you and you won't be over-analyzing as much.
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It would help if there were more details. Maybe you should talk to your father in real life. It could be a sign that you should speak to him. Just my 2 cents.

I see similarities in our situation. I too lost a person like this: "live together really well, support each other, have the same goals in life and the same attitude about life and yet not work out"....

His actions speak louder than words. I'm sorry for your situation, but you should tell him that he should PROVE he wants to be with you. Him saying so isn't enough. And how he is acting is just...

Go No-Contact with this ex. He seems like a bad influence. You don't want your current relationship to be ruined by an ex who made no effort to love you and treated you like ****.
Save your current...

Could you have fallen for him?
I'm sorry I really am not experienced in these types of situation, but from a boy's point of view, I would really be annoyed if you kept pestering me. Especially since...

Have you thought of something to make already?
If you haven't, then I suggest making that collage of pictures. A collage is good because its homemade, and that makes it sweet and sentimental. Plus,...

Hey. First of all I'd like to say that I'm much younger than you, so I honestly don't know what the best thing to do is. But I hope you get through this situation. It really sounds painful, and I...

Get out of this relationship. It has to be two-way. And he's being such a jerk. You deserve more than what you ask for and he's simply not giving ANY.

Yeah I was planning to answer in your other thread when I could gather my thoughts, but this is just confusing.

And to answer the question, if her parents love you then there is no problem. BUT...

It takes two for a relationship to survive. If she ignores you, then we have a problem. But if she always comes around and replies, then maybe she is just busy with something or you are 'going too...

I agree with the other posters. You are setting yourself up for MORE pain.

You answered your own question "or if I should be up front with her and tell her that talking to her is doing me more...

Thanks for your insight, it helped

Its my second day of NC today and I think I'm doing an OK job. Yesterday though she sent me an email giving me advice on a problem. I don't know what to think of it. It confuses me, giving me hope...

Yeah I was treated well by the family. I would be included in their family dinners out and even invited to holidays abroad. Its crazy I honestly can't see how its possible to have a connection like...

I can feel you man, we gave our lives to these girls and they just stopped feeling for us. Yes she wants to be friends with me, but its just hurting me. I've cut off all communication and it feels...

It really sucks that my part time job was working for her mom at her house (they own a business and she works from home). I quit of course, now I'm less busy. It's a real shame that I can't work...

I did it omg. I just did it. I removed all realistic possibilities of contacting each other. It hurt so much. Feels like I can't go on. It hasn't sunk in for me yet though. Wow. Kudos to those that...

I just went through her Facebook profile and pictures one last time before deleting her. I even looked at sweet old emails that make me happy. I couldn't bring myself to delete them so I just left...

Thank you guys for the answers. It really helped me feel see the situation from an objective view. I know that I should start this NC thing, but I can't seem to muster the courage to do it. I told...

I'm not sure how to answer this since I'm new here, but I we are both in a very similar scenario. Never really freely expose my emotions on the internet. Both 2 1/2 years in the relationship, full of...

Firstly I think the background story should be known. We are both 18 now and we started dating 2 1/2 years ago and it was great. It felt like I met my soulmate, I got along well with her family, I...