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You say you need her... thats ridiculous, no one should ever need anyone else to make themselves happy. Do what makes you happy. Your life is in your control again, look at it that way. You no longer...

Hey man. I haven't been on the site in a few months. I know exactly what you are going through. My ex dumped me 6 months ago an started dating some douche bag guy the very next day. I was fairly...

This does not sound like a healthy person to be with at all. He has way to many control issues. Listen to your family in friends they know you better than anyone and have the outside perspective on...

I agree with the other posts. You must have "checked out" emotionally sometime before you physically broke up. Enjoy your freedom and don't dwell on it. Some relationships are easy to let go of and...

If you really want to be with him then stay and communicate... not run away.

If you are unsure leave for the last time and stop running him in cirlces its not fair to him.

Sounds like a...

Im going to go and disagree with the first too. I went through this situation with my ex girlfriend. This is not what broke us up but it was a big issue for a while.

Like any drug, or alcohol, or...

You shouldn't be confused. He was very honest with you by saying he is still getting over his ex. Im in the same situation he is and really not looking to date anyone. It sounds like you to have a...

There is nothing you can say or do to make them realize this. If you were truly good to them and had a good relationship with them, by simply walking away and never saying anything again they will...

If you are just going to get back with him only so you can break up and want him again, then stop now and save the guy the torture. Just leave him alone and stop contacting him. He is probably really...

So just to update. I believe I have taken care of everything with the potential for this guy to steal my identity. Went and talked to the local police and got information on how to protect myself....

Great life plan and advice. Live and lead a life you are proud to say you accomplished something in, whether it be with or without someone.

I agree with Mystific, you need to make yourself #1 again. You should be important in your life and make a life that you enjoy.

This feeling of hurt will not last forever. The wound is still fresh...

Your situation sounds almost exactly like my own. My relationship was only two years but we had similar hopes and dreams. I took an internship to better our future and create a decent life for us....

Who broke up with who? Why did you break up? How long were you together? How old are you.
With details provided better help can be given. If he hasn't moved on, maybe try calling him or contacting...

I think you know what you have to do. Its tough, but if she is this untrusting now and is believing your ex over you, then most likely she will never believe you down the road. I think you should cut...

Please provide more detail. Why did you break up? How old are you? How long were you together?
Use the answer box to provide things like this and more people can help you.

Im very afraid right now and not sure who to turn too and I hope anyone on here might be able to give clarity to my situation. Im going to try and describe it as best I can, but if it sounds...

Doing the best I can to cope. Each day gets easier and I realize how much better I can make myself without the ties of a relationship. I don't think this will stain me, least I hope not, I know its...

Wow that's kind of scary how similar it sounds to things my ex said. She said she felt trapped, but not by me, I never told her to not go out or wait for my calls, a simple let me know when your home...

Louie thank you for yor input on the other side of things.
Other than him being away from time to time were there other things that happened, such as fighting often or him being controlling? Me and...

Thanks all. Still have days that are tough to get through. But I am feeling so much better now. Finally starting to realize I've actually done and accomplished things in the past 2 months that I know...

Neco,
Your situation sounds exactly like mine. My ex broke up with me, met a guy the day after and hooked up with him within a week. Made me sick inside. Thought she was the one for me and we had...

Hi juneop,

Personally I would not worry about it. My last girlfriend and I both had pictures we kept of our previous exs. We dated happily for 2 years. If it's a problem for you maybe ask him...

Heard this quote the other day that reads "good things fall apart so better things can fall together". This made me think about my current situation, my last relationship was good and after three...

I'm going to be blunt and I don't mean to be mean.

You cheated, regardless of promising yourself not to you did.

Best thing to do is tell him now before he finds out some other way, these...

OK is this thread about your relationship or grammar?

I'm no grammar expert so I'm not going to get involved in that.

As for your relationship and emotions about her, I agree with the first...

So haven't updated in a while and I think I can finally say things are looking up and I'm doing things for myself. Ive realized all the hurt it causes when I break contact and talk to her again and...

This may sound weird. But my girlfriend used to take me underwear shopping with her sometimes. Honestly seeing her in something I had picked out or was there to see her pick out for some reason...

I too shall be spending my birthday on sat alone for the first time. Everyone's suggestions here seem really helpful and are making me think spending my birthday alone won't really be all that bad....

So this is going to sound stupid and I know it is my own fault for what I'm about to say but bare with me please and understand that after two years of talking with someone everyday I am having a...

Communication, understanding, unconditional love for the other person (meaning you love them for who they are and don't try to change them). There's much more.
How old are you?

Big mistake right there. A relationship is about compromise, yes. But you should never give up your friends to be with one person, in my experience that always spells disaster. You need to be able to...

You make a good point. I guess it wouldn't be so bad to celebrate a birthday alone and find things to keep myself busy and make me happy.

Yea I've been using the melatonin again and some nights I...

I really wish I had never talked to her. Knowing everything I know now, the anxiety is worse than ever. I slept terribly last night, constantly had dreams of her with this guy mixed with dreams of me...

Thank you for words of tough love pandead. Now looking at the message I completely over analyzed it and got my hopes up way to quickly over it. The phone call I should have simply made the...

Hey guys you can type all you want here on the answer me box near the bottom of the screen. Don't use the comment box not enough characters as you can see.

I work nights right now and this whole thing has compltelely emotionally drained me and I feel so tired.

Gara:
The things in the message about her being with another guy did come from her. My...

Hell no I won't go running and give up all I've accomplished so far. But at the same time her missing me in this way is kind of what I've wanted. If she asked me back id think for a day but...

Ha I agree that it should not concern me anymore. If you have the time please read my recent post. The roller coaster just got really violent and I hope it passes!

SOO CONFUSED ABOUT HER RECENT MESSAGE:

EX:
So I know you have not messaged me back.. but I feel like I need to get this off my chest before I quit buggin you...

I am sorry that I just left...

I must say deep down I agree deleting, ignoring it, and forgetting it would be best. How do I fight the feeling though that if I'm civil and respond it may help things. Not really sure how because...

I'm sorry to hear your hurting from what happened when you saw her. But as someone who is currently going through a break up right now, only happened two months ago, it is uplifting to know that it...

To both serenemeadow and grizz406 I too am in a similar situation. As you will find on this site many people are in the same situation. That's what I think makes this site so great, we are all...

Its great to hear from someone that the process does actually work! Thanks for the encouragement!

I agree so much on getting busy and accomplishing new things. This week I'm finishing up my bar class and I know its going to feel so good to do so. But I feel with that and the other few...

Sounds fishy to me man. Unless she's requested time away from you for other exam weeks it sounds fishy. I agree with joypulv. There isn't much you can do. Tell her as it is, if she wants to take a...

Hey man. Sounds like your dating a girl like my ex. We dated for 2 years, she had a very wild and out going side that I loved and attracted me to her. But she also had her extremely sexy and caring...

Her boyfriend is in no way a wuss for blocking you at any point. She is rightfully his girlfriend whether she is faithful or not. She is taken and therefore you can not have her. If you want a decent...

Sounds like he was never over her to begin with.



You ended it for a reason. For one he cheated you and lost your trust. Stick by your decision.



As I said before it sounds like he was...

You are right that you have a messed up relationship. You have a lot of nerve to go through your bf's phone and accuse him of cheating on you with his ex whom he's only been talking with. While you...