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Are you sure you made a sincere effort to resolve things before breaking up? I ask this because it sounds like you broke up with him because of the conflict not because you tried but failed to...

Wanted to add that I was able to fully and freely vent my feeling at first. I would sometimes bring up some concern when it popped into my head. But my need to vent died down rapidly because all I...

I think the OP alluded to the fact that (I am giving my interpretation) he thought that since men like being awoken with a bj or hj in the AM that he was returning the favor by doing the same thing...

I will tell a vexing thing about me in my relationship - I cannot seem to let of past resentments. The scenes and feeling come into mind again again sometimes when I lest expect it. At one time, I...

You had a beautiful girl in a relationship with no sexual contact yet she stayed with you and waited for you to be ready. Did you read what you wrote? You had a beautiful woman who was so attracted...

Your concise post is so elegant - it took me paragraphs to try to say. I hope he gets it.

This is a difficult one but if you both want to get past it lets see how it can be done. I am not judging you so try and read through what I wrote, I am far from perfect but I think if you pause and...

The conventional wisdom says that If she just got out of a bad relationship she is still healing bla bla but if a woman meets someone she is really really interested in, she will consider exploring...

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At her age, she is still growing and changing, hopefully for the better, Unlike a man of 30 yrs old, she is probably not ready to settle on one man yet. You took a chance to get involved with her at...

If it is the norm for your culture then the problem may be deep seated. Is he expected to control his wife according to your culture? If he does not, will he may lose face and respect in your...

May I rephrase your question "I am deceiving and hurting my wife for no reason that I can see. Tell me how wrong I am so that I feel better". Honestly, you are an adult and you know exactly the...

Excellent point - his communicating honestly with his wife so she knows how her actions effect him.

I wonder why the OP does not come back, she sounded so desperate. Can't understand why a person would seem to be so in need of advice and not come back.

Do you think this is a real person or just someone trying to provoke a reaction?

KItten13. Don't feel bad about what you are doing, your motives are that you are trying to please these boys but giving them what you think they want to make them like you. You are mistaken, they...

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Have you considered letting this go and trying to be as positive as you can? If you are in contention over your children then try to stick to that. Dreaming of revenge is comforting but a waste of...

It cetainly could be the tipping point for him with the addition of the other stressors. I don't know your country but here in the US there are several lower cost option for dental care. Dental...

Some details that you could provide to help get more complete responses. How long and how well did you know him before you married him? How old are you both and what is your culture? Do you have...

Trust is giving your love with the expectation that the person you love has your best interest at heart and returns your love. You have to get to know the person to be able to tell if they will...

almorgan666 your post indicates that you could use help or at lest words of encouragement. I am sure there are people reading it that would like to help. Would you care to start a thread so that you...

Clickus I have to say this because I've been following the thread and it might help to hear this. (long but bear with me). It sounds like you are justifying the length to which you go to tract your...

Clickus it sounds like you would benefit by finding out a bit more about the immigrant Chinese community and the common practices. She may be doing what is very common for people from China in a new...

If you read about how affairs develop, this sounds like your husband is having an emotional affair with her. This endangers your marriage and may be a prelude to a physical affair. When he dismisses...

I understand better with your latest post. Vmom1 has hit the nail on the head. Please follow her advice and good luck.

Lets see if I have this right - Your wife is dating another man with whom she shares an interest in baseball, she does not have sex with you and does not want your touch, she has told you she is no...

It's quite a bit different in CA compared to GA. Did he sell his business? CA is difficult place to make a start from nothing. Did he move with no propect for work or did he work for a while.
I...

You have to be aroused to have an erection. It doesn't happen on it's own. It's like regular sex with a little boost.

W - you mentioned he gets upset, what makes you think he gets upset? Could you ask him if he gets upset and if so share with you why.
Truly he sounds like a good man but he may be confused if you...

I don't think it would be unkind or bad for you to withdraw some of what you give. We humans don't always appreciate what we have if we get a contant supply. Your kind gesturers may be like...

Please donot contact her just because you feel bad. The ultimate cruelty would be if you continued the relationship because you feel pain. Breaking up with her was the right thing to do, although...

S is right and I was incorrect. Men who watch a lot of porn may become curious about other forms of sexuality and watch gay porn but their sexual orientation remains the same. I looked it up sorry to...

Could the problem be that you are nervous about taking the step to have intercourse? That is not so unusual it's a big step in a relationship. Think about it and if that's your concern, your...

Your message to me in this mans post is inappropriate. Take issue with what I posted on another thread with me. It is confusing to the OP because has nothing to do with his question. If you feel my...

I read the post and I really feel uneasy about the friends. She us sharing a recreational interest with (is it one man in particular) a man. You said you liked baseball until recently, do you two...

"You and only you stand between him and the harm that can come to him. You should never live with men you don't know. Men prey on desperate women expacially pedophiles so the fact that a man you...

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Just something about women initiating it's really difficult for some women to be as direct as men. She may be singling that she wants sex but it may be subtle. Can you accept that she may be...

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Kryostar just thought of another book, it was one of the first that I read when I decided I needed to fix myself. "For Couples Only: Eyeopening Insights about How the Opposite Sex Thinks" by...

You may actually get back together but now may not be a good time. She may need to see other people and to mature a bit before she can make a decision and so do you. It does happen, two people date...

Kryostar I'd like to suggest a book that I found helpful in my relationships His needs, Her needs by Willard Harley. I gained a lot of insight although I still have hot button issues that remind me...

Since she can orgasm so easily, you may want to propose that she take care of you first instead of the other way around. Since she is sensitive, and loses interest when she orgasms, you may want to...

I always want more frequent sex about a week before my period till just after so you two may be missing out if you don't have sex. If you can get past the blood and she wants to have sex then...

Why are you sorry to say you are being deceived he is the sorry one. Don't let anyone convince you that you were snooping. You obviously suspected something was wrong and investegated. It is your...

Did you read my post? Since you side stepped every issue I presented then you either know it to be true or you have not read it through. The fact that I give a negative view on 3somes seems to be the...

This is what happens to some men they age. You need to think if you want to spend the rest of your youth in a relationship like this when you can have so much more. You will eventually regret wasting...

Sorry that won't work with me, common ploy to make a person who is doing something that tgey are insecure about to protest too much. Are you sure you like doing these 3somes or is the hubby begging...

Look at it this way, it's a male fantasy and they search for a girl that will go along with it. It is usually someone who they are certain has little self repect and self esteem is low. So it's not...

I guess I don't get it and that may be why I am so unhappy and confused. I will say no more so that this person get the assistence they are looking for. Don't know how to frame a question around my...