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Pak I do not think it is that simple here. This can create a lot of problems for the guy as well because he would be going against his father's wishes. This very fact has the potential to break a...

Father's choice or his, HE is now married. End of story.

Where did so much guilt come from?? Marriage is give and take right? So if he gave you soooo much, in return, you also gave him so much! You gave him a dughter, a home to come, your love and loyalty....

Why don't you want her to meet her own family? Whatever the reason may be, but it just sounds very OFF!
Or if you can explain it further what's the reason for it.

Keep your quiet. That is the best thing for you. Eventually everyone will understand her politics. Specially if you are going to stay in the US. Just be sure that your husband is on your side. Rest...

Getting it. You are right. And a few good points taken as well.

Thank you so much for the insight. It helped and I really appreciate it. You are right. Accept what I can not change and make the most of it. That's the wisest thing to do I guess.

Perhaps you are right Donf but then what to do with a husband who is like that?? Because I can somewhat relate to what she is saying and I can understand the hurt and disappointment she is going...

I am from india and t is the eusual behaviour. And yes my husband is the first to get married.I do accept living with his family... but maybe I am finding the change hard. Maybe because before the...

Go meet her and ask because clearly there is more to what it just seems. Just talk to her and let her know that you know about her dignosis. And take the conversation from there.

Calling her love!! You should be more than just jealous and insecure!! Try calling some person "love" and let your husband know. Then see what happens. As for the believing part.. the signs say not...

Your husband needs to grow up and take control He shoudn't let these things happen to you in the first place.

Don't spend your retirement money on their wedding. I f she wants to be adult.. then let her be and let them afford it. Leave them alone or the situation will get worse. Let your daughter do the...

It's the attitude. His calling you selfish is a very laid back attitude. Its laziness. Fine equality and all that but normally, the husband is the provider in the long run and he should understand...

I think there is a communication barrier between u two. Try to communicate better with him and tell him how u wish the things to be. Then also listen to his own thoughts and wishes.

After 6 months ofwedding, husband gives more priority to his parents and siblings and my priorities and wishes are totally ignored... and I love him a lot. What do I do?? To the extent that I have...

Go with the one u love more and stick to him.

She's your your sister so you take care of her. It's a responsibility and no one should run away from it. Set the grounds of course. Ask her to be straight in her act. But do help her if she needs...

I agree with jake. You have to put some more effort. We can't just leave the person we love just because they are not suiting us anymore. Get counseling for both of u. u say that he is a kind man....

Not a good thing for him to do. Did you ask him if he has anymore of your pix? U need to get them bak if he has.

He made his a year ago. Tahts plenty of time. I don't think he'll regret. And you are off without him too now. Because he can never return your feelings. Save it for some other lucky person :)

Tell her what you think. If "not invading privacy" in a relationship is a rule then so is letting your spouse know what you are thinking. You tend to get a little jealous when you deeply love...

you need to meet him. Only then you can be clear about your feelings. U really need to meet him. See how he turned out. You said that you are happy so I am assuming that you have a good husband... go...

Ask your husband if he would mind you spending a day with him. Because surely you would if your husband wants to spend one whole day alone with his ex love... be fair if you love him.

You seriously need to have a detailed chat with this guy. Let him know what you think and then ask for his honest feelings. If he still is not intereted in you then I think you shouldn't be friends...

If you ask me, hitting is unforgivable. If he can hit you once, he can always hit you again. Marriage is a big step. Take it wisely. If he is the type of guy who hits then definitely he'l hit the...

His attitude is weirrrddd. Try this. If he doesn't to go out with you because that'l waste money and all.. tell him to just take a walk with you. Or ask him to accompany you when you want to go...