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You know this also reminds me of a very beautiful retired woman who married a neighbor who was so romantic - they went on a honey moon and he changed - very difficult man to please at many levels -...

Sorry I am new to the boards and am feeling an imperative...

=the first part of your post concerns your husband lack of desire to attend his grandfathers memorial,I feel that there could be...

Time will heal how you feel. Just TLC yourself now and keep busy with other friends and things. There will be another who will not do this. Having sex with someone makes things much more painful -...

10 years - it seems a concern - if you are older than 30 - not a big deal - younger then it is...
Is he un-married and free to invest in a relationship? Does he have qualities that you admire and...

Good answer - I agree. It is like a young boy crying over ice cream on the ground. It is over. He needs to face his real life and wife.

No - it is just a woman I empathized with and afraid I would become like. She certainly did not expect this...

It means she is angry and refuses to hit you and has trouble processing anger and need to go to assertiveness workshops and anger management workshops - which you may need to too. Just about all of...

Need to go to Retrouvaille and get counseling. I totally see how leaving is hard. You may have a house that you love and have invested so much time. Getting out of a marriage is difficult on many...

Well - women who have been out of the work force, who have children, even without children have invested so much in a relationship on so many levels - find it hard. Also the prospect of going through...

Good point.

Lovely - submit it!

OK - I guess I need to give more information. I respected him and thought him of high character. He sabotaged going to his Grandfather's Memorial service (the g-dad he so admired - the Colonel) and...

Good advice and commentary.

This is good advice but still it is not honest. Honest is the best policy - it will make it come out right in the end. You will not be the one making him go into prison - he did it to himself but he...

Someone else will be taking a risk with him and most likely end up leaving too.

Wow - empathy even 3 year later when you have probably changed things. How is it going now?

Also having sex when you are being coerced into it is not really consensual sex is it?

Did you ever wonder why you have an affinity for animals? Because you may know how it feels to be treated like one. I have had a relationship like this and I love animals too! You would never let one...

No it is not fixable. Not unless you spend years away from him where you both do personal growth work, and never take drugs again. If you do leave him even temporarily you need to go to a safe house....

Some times getting the police involved is the best answer to stopping it. You will die if you let this continue. It is like how an alcoholic dies but quicker.

What a nice answer. It is one of the hardest decisions to make.

Yes - very good reply - you could end with a disease or saddled with tons of debt upon divorce. I know a woman who had to pay 1/2 of a debt she never agreed to and it was a huge debt. What about car...

Just a quick question.