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You got to distance yourself from the guy. If you love your boyfriend and don't want to hurt him then don't. If the girlfriend of the guy you're talking to is your friend and you don't want to hurt...

You can stop by stopping. When you're about to do it you have to literally walk away or do something else.
Self discipline is difficult but you HAVE to do it. Don't try. Do.

It's going to be difficult but you've been hurt and it's going to stay with you for a long time. Keep reminding yourself that he is NOT your ex. He makes you happy and if you have an honest...

It's easier said than but this is the jist of it;

JUST DON'T DO IT.

It's hard but just stop yourself and walk away. You're probably hurting her more than you think.

You should've backed off earlier but there's no use in regrets. What you're doing now is good. Give her space and maybe over time the wounds will heal and you can finally start again.
It sounds...

Thank you all so much. The volunteering is a great idea. I do need to find out who I am. I go out and distract myself but even then I can't help but feel this dark hole in me.
I know it will get...

I'm going through the worst, most difficult time yet. I posted something before but I'll try to give you the jist of it.
I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years about 10 days ago because I was just...

Don't set a deadline for yourself to live. What if you settle for someone totally wrong because you just want to have a family and then live in regret? Good things come to those who wait so please...

Let it be for now and see how it goes. Congrats on the big decision to quit the bottle. That takes a lot of courage and I hope you can show her that but please don't be forceful. She needs time.

Sometimes really horrible things happen without any warning. I'm sorry, I know how hard this is but you need to keep yourself busy for now and let time pass. I know... it sounds awful and it is but...

Couldn't agree more. It's hard but don't think about it. Try to forget the images you conjured up. You don't want to make something out of nothing.

I'm sorry you're going through so much pain. It sounds like she's hurting a lot too. You both need to be strong and do what's right even if it's the hardest thing you'll ever have to do. You may need...

You sound like you're on the right path. She probably didn't remove the pictures for the sake of memories. But don't linger on it too much. Stay strong!

Wow. I really needed that. I woke up today feeling pretty weak and that really built me up again. I'm just so scared of giving in to him but I am going to be strong. Thank you so much.

Wait to see what the professional says. It sounds like she may just be having a rough time with life in general. Please try to be patient and understanding with her. It seems like you're doing good.

It sounds like he's secretly insecure and weak so he tries to make you feel that way instead. He may just want to get his claws into you so that he can feel in control of you. He may a narcissist but...

Be yourself. Loosen up or she'll think you're not talking because you don't like her.

Give him space. Simple as that. Stop calling/texting... it will help.

Wow... no offense but this sounds like a bit of a maturity thing. For her, I mean. Maybe she's just never really learned to share her feelings in an open and healthy way. I would say maybe you should...

It's okay... as cliché as it sounds time heals all wounds. Well... at least it will make you forget them. Don't Facebook her again. Go out and enjoy yourself.

First of all... those 3 years are not going down the drain. I'm in a similar situation except I'm more playing the girlfriends part. I'm sorry about that but it sounds like she really just needs time...

Thank you all so much. I know I need to and I have been ignoring him but he just won't stop. I feel like when I say "I can't do this anymore" and "I need to be alone" he takes it as something totally...

It's not going to be easy but you need to consider your own emotional health and hard-earned wealth. $ is something I've never personally dealt with as a relationship issue but the rest of your post...

I have been with my boyfriend for the last 5 years of my life. I was 17 when we got together and we broke up a year later and then got back together in a month.
My problem is this; I feel...