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This problem is bigger than what you can solve. If you go to a church call and ask to talk to the councelor or pastor. If not talk with your school councelor or administration. Keep asking for help...

Suicide is a PERMINATE solution to a TEMPORARY problem! There are a lot of people you care about and if you can't see any value in your life right now know beyond a shadow of doubt that you will...

Seems like your kind of obsessing over something that should be somewhat minor... you seem like you already know what you "should" do but your more worried about how he would feel. Just delete him......

It's obvious that your really hurting and want to get out of your situation. When your in a bad situation addoption is the last step of a very long process to fix what's wrong and you may or may not...

You dodged the bullet here! Literally. Block his number and invest in some friendships with girlfriends so you don't feel so emotionally needy when a man shows you a little bit of unhealthy...

BTW Usually closed small groups or have the best results. I personally prefer church based ones like celebrate recovory but there are plenty that are 12 step baised or closed groups facilitated by...

Is it possible this is what is leading me to want him to admit things to me?[/QUOTE]

Absolutely. Part of healing is going to a place with people who will validate what you have experenced. I think...

Ever considered Counceling? Or a Support group? Your looking at ALL the symptoms like they are the problem!? Take charge of your life and make the changes you so despratly want and need. No one else...

Set a reasonable boundary that you can stick to. If your not SURE you can stick to it don't set it.

For example you could say: I need you to go stay at a mens shelter until you are actively...

It sounds like you need to have your experence valadated. Go to a safe place for that, like a support group. It's so much more healing.

He's still emotionally abusing you. It's called crazy making. Just thank God your not sick enough to understand and let it go. He's not going to get fixed and turn into a empethetic honest guy, right?

You know what you need but your thinking of him. This isn't a healthy way to go about life. If you should treat others like you want to be treated you need to treat yourself well or your going to go...

How can you leave? This advice helped me when I was trying to leave my sociopath.
Be boring. Stop telling him personal things. Never tell him what you don't like about him unless you want to work...

Good call getting them into counceling... have you tried to get ahold of the DV people and beg them for Legal representation to file with the courts to put them in counceling. Beet him to it and...

njprincess
I know exactly how this happened. I'm untangeling myseslf from a shockingly similar situation. My ex told me if I ever left he would get the kids and I would be lucky if I saw them every...