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    Well Iīm hoping that by then Iīm fine already and...

    Well Iīm hoping that by then Iīm fine already and totally over it... One year of NC is A LOT! Hehe.
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    I don't think its something weird... yes... I...

    I don't think its something weird... yes... I have that tradition of saying happy birthday to my exes.. why is that so bad? I don't like to erase people from my life... a period is necessary for...
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    Well my take on this is that she isnīt so bad......

    Well my take on this is that she isnīt so bad... she just saw we were not going anywhere due to our extreme differences and she opted to cut this down ASAP, and the way she had doing it is hurting...
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    Shouldn't I heal first and then look for somebody...

    Shouldn't I heal first and then look for somebody else? You guys don't realise that I have given up on her... the fact that I want to say happy birthday to my exes is just a thing I do... I still say...
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    Repeated
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    Ok guys.. time to slap me now! I'm stubborn, and...

    Ok guys.. time to slap me now! I'm stubborn, and I did it! I texted her! But you know what? I feeel good and I don't regret it!

    Me: happy birthday *******! Hope you have a great day!

    She: (1...
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    Yeah you guys are right. I'm not going to text...

    Yeah you guys are right. I'm not going to text her! I hope I keep this feeling for a while cause I act a lot by impulses and I may just text her later without thinking... I'm weird like that hehe.
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    Ok, OK.. I don't want to be the stubborn guy that...

    Ok, OK.. I don't want to be the stubborn guy that doesn't listen to people and then you guys go: I TOLD YOUUU and bring pizzas and all that, hehe :)

    You guys are right. I need time to get over all...
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    FIrst of all, thanks for the answers. I am...

    FIrst of all, thanks for the answers.

    I am the living proof that breaking NC is killer... I have been stabbed a couple of times by doing it, and its horrible... BUT... after ALL That... I don't...
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    It´s debatable, but I think it´s not possible....

    It´s debatable, but I think it´s not possible. Try as hard as you can.. but if you have feelings for somebody... friendship isn´t an option, In my opinion.
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    Its my EXīs Birthday!

    Ok, I´m sure you guys are bored of answering this question, but I´m having a conflict here. I have been on NC for some months now, doing really well lately, not answering her emails, etc... I almost...
  12. To me that sounds like fun times man... Maybe she...

    To me that sounds like fun times man... Maybe she just wants to catch up like a friend (sorry I don't know the background story), or maybe she just broke up with her rebound guy and wants to see...
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    Yep, same in my situation :)

    Yep, same in my situation :)
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    I´m no expert here and I´m sure you´ll get an...

    I´m no expert here and I´m sure you´ll get an answer from one of them really soon. I just wanted to say that your story could have been written by me. I had the SAME story going on. Everything...
  15. I LOOOOOOVE point number 4 :D Cause thatīs what I...

    I LOOOOOOVE point number 4 :D Cause thatīs what I always do. I always think SHE is having the time of her life every time I think about her. Iīm usually busy, but when I chill my mind starts...
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    Agree, except with: My ex didn't see us...

    Agree, except with:

    My ex didn't see us working together cause we werenīt compatible... I understand that, and I accept it. The problem I have with her is HOW she dealt with it (or should I say,...
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    We are not going to agree on this... so let it be...

    We are not going to agree on this... so let it be :) I donīt act like that when I dump a girl. It hurts a lot to see how somebody that loves you suddenly doesn't want to see you ever again. It's a...
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    TO me the overall tone of the message is very...

    TO me the overall tone of the message is very cold... sincere, honest, yes.. but COLD as ice. Maybe thatīs just me!

    To me having somebody that was my "all" telling me to find happiness in somebody...
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    Man... that mail could have totally been written...

    Man... that mail could have totally been written by my ex! Same cold tone all around! I hate people like that! When I break up with somebody I try to be a bit nicer. We go from being the best thing...
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    Awesome! :D

    Awesome! :D
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    I´m on the same boat as you are... and all I can...

    I´m on the same boat as you are... and all I can do is "do it myself". Actually it's a lot better than doing it with somebody you will later regret... IMHO.

    The fact that maybe my ex is having...
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    I don't want to be fueling the fire here, but I...

    I don't want to be fueling the fire here, but I have to say that I understand exactly what he is saying. Facts talk alone:

    -2 girls I´ve loved to death dumped me.

    -4 girls I kind of liked, but...
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    Well I agree... I always say that the best times...

    Well I agree... I always say that the best times in my life are when I am single. When I get a girl... I start spending a lot of money, not seeing my friends that much, depending on someone... you...
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    Man, if you want to join a band just post on...

    Man, if you want to join a band just post on Craigslist. There are tons of people looking for musicians :D

    Iīm screwed cause Im a musician myself, and I make a living on it... so for me that's not...
  25. I am usually the guy "wearing the pants" and the...

    I am usually the guy "wearing the pants" and the fact that you strong-willed independent women are also wearing them all the time, is the reason why it has always collapsed for me. 2 equal strong and...
  26. Every time I have dated an independent, smart...

    Every time I have dated an independent, smart girl, it ended up in "tragedy". I love those kind of girls... but they all ended up dumping me :) For different reasons, but usually that kind of girl...
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    "at one point of time, she is so adamant in...

    "at one point of time, she is so adamant in marrying me. now is a twist of fate. "

    When every relationship ends.. its always sad. If you think that some months ago, you were the best couple of the...
  28. I hate how these last 4 months since we brokeup...

    I hate how these last 4 months since we brokeup it has all been a rollercoaster... Some days are amazing, some days are HORRIBLE... sometimes I feel she was the girl of my life, some other I KNOW she...
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    What I usually see in couples that last more than...

    What I usually see in couples that last more than 7 years or so is that even if they break up, they end up getting back together. I donīt agree with this, since I think that if after that time, it...
  30. Its my turn to write now.Should I see her to get my things back?

    So, first of all, thanks a LOT to all of you guys who answer questions here. You have saved me from getting into a black hole these last months. My ex dumped me in February 2009 (apparently the month...
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