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You should consider the impact of that incident on your ability to go on with this relationship. It seems like after she cheated on you, you no longer find her sexually attractive which is a major...

What you are worried about is the appreciation and fairness that's going on in the relationship.

You want her to be like you - romantic, daydreaming, and intimate but she is not this kind of...

Thanks guys.. I was leaning towards NC, just needed someone to tell me straight on.

I guess I'm just kind of mad and sad that it's so easy for him to drop me like I'm nothing when I gave it my all...

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So far, I've been completely ignoring him.. no phone calls no texts.. nothing. And he's continuing to ignore me.

I talked to a mutual friend though and he says that my boyfriend just...

You should take a step back and reevaluate why you no longer like him. Right now you're being very unfair to him. Don't lead him on.

No official break up - though we did argue right before he started ignoring me.

But he said he still wanted to be with me during the end of the argument. But now we are technically dating but he's...

Make new friends. Volunteer, get a job, join a club.

My boyfriend suddenly started ignoring me. We have been together for one and a half years. For the past two weeks he just suddenly went NC with me - and deliberately ignores my phone calls and voice...

What she is doing is making you her safety net.

You guys are not together anymore. You should feel free to see other people if you wish - don't let her words hold you back.

If you do take her back, you will find yourself unable to trust her again. You will probably find yourself unsteady and constantly questioning.

Do you want that? Leave her and don't look back.

If you feel you must convey your message, I would advise you to simply write a letter to her with everything you need to say. Don't speak with her face to face and make sure you mail it - don't hand...

Leave him and don't tolerate this kind of behavior in the future. When someone is in a relationship with someone else, it should be exclusive unless otherwise specified and completely agree on.

I know that change can be hard to accept. You always long for what you had - the good times the seemingly perfect sweet girl. You always want to relive those moments and share it with that same girl....

Your constant attention giving and attention wanting is pushing him further and further away from you. All those texts might seem to you like you're just being friendly or trying to open up...

i am always scared that she is going to leave me.

Red flag. To be completely honest, I am like this in my relationships too. And that's why they never work out. You need to first love yourself...

I agree with what has been posted here but I have to add that your children are forever yours. Don't stay with a man who is unable to love them like you are no matter how much you believe you love...

From experience, there was one guy that I hit it off with immediately. It wasn't a fling or anything either; it was serious - we stayed together for 2 years after that.

Another guy, I met at the...

The reason he probably doesn't talk much is because he probably doesn't have much to say. A phone call everyday may make someone run out of things to say especially if they're in school or something...

Although I have not gone through all 8 pages of responses, I can still hazard to offer my insight.

Her mind has already moved on. Yes, she may love you but you have to realize that loving someone...

Yes, the rhyming is awkward. I personally think free verse poems don't sound much like a poem but rather a paragraph.

If you want to keep the rhyming scheme, you're going to have to stick to one...

If you truly don't feel the same way, you can't lead her on. You have to be direct with her. It might break your heart to have to break hers but doing this will guide her into not clinging on to hope...

It's not the email that finalized things. Her mind was already finalized when this decision was made. She tells you about her new beaus because she wants you to know just how fine she is doing...

Hi,

My ex and I broke up recently and he told me he wanted to stay friends. I agreed because I really do like talking to him. Do you think this is a good idea? Will it help me get over him? When...

This is tricky. First of all, he's going back to school in the Fall and the long distance was a major factor in your initial break up. To me, it seems like he just wants you for the summer. You said...

I'm sure you hear this a lot but I can't stop thinking about him. I almost called him several times today just to ask how he was doing. I know that if we were to talk again/meet in person, we'd be so...

The reason she is keeping her stuff is really only to her knowledge. However, I can hazard a guess in saying that she is keeping it because that is the last of you and she's holding on to it. Once...

I agree with I Wish. She has already exhibited signals that she no longer wants to be with you - she would no longer seek you when she is troubled. Ending the relationship with love and her saying it...

I'm going through something initially similar right now. My boyfriend and I just broke up recently for many of the same reasons as you. I became the nagging girlfriend and we would argue about every...

Hi, OP here.

Thanks again for believing in me but I already feel that it's going to be tough.

To Talaniman - it will be very difficult to lead different paths from this person. I am classmates...

Hi, it's the OP.

I'd like to say thanks to all that has replied. I will take your advice to heart and start the diary. It is unfortunate that the only diary I have with me at school currently is...

Hi all, I've actually been on this website and read the great advice for a while now. I finally have my own dilemma that I feel I have to address.

I broke up with my one and a half year boyfriend...

Depending on what school you go to, most schools will allow a student to walk in the spring and officially graduate in the summer after all required classes are completed.