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Hey there again, its been a while that I have been on here, there are some good things that have been going on in my life I have been slowly picking up the pices after my relationship ended. It has...

Hey henderson78, it's a daily thing for us all I think and speaking only for myself I know just how hard it is to move in any direction when you are feeling so down and lost without the comfort of...

Having a style or preference isn't judgeing someone, I too have preferences with the friends I choose to keep, but I don't judge anyone for the way they choose to live,(i.e drug dealers,etc etc as...

There is an old chinese proverb that says
"if you want to see who/what a man is then take a look at his friends. And yes you are also right in many ways that there are people that judge all too much...

I agree with what you have said you have put it in a different way, I don't mean that if you are a white female you can only have white female friends or cannot be friends with any other race, we are...

I do see where your coming from definitely, but isn't that just respecting the situation that you are in at the time, it doesn't however ean that you should act differently when you go to different...

Its only my opinion, but shouldn't you just be yourself? Whoever your with!

I didn't realise just how much I have been hurting emotionally, as I said I broke up with my ex initially 7 months ago now, we didn't see each other for two-three months and then we started to see...

Henderson78, this is that situation having your cake and eating it too. If she really wants to be with you she will want the whole package and not just call you when she feels alone or down- she does...

Hendeson78, it really doesn't matter when the relationship ended huni, the fact is it has, people here are right with what they say about working in yourself to make you a stronger person, if you...

How are you? Are you happy in your life? Am I allowed to ask you questions like that, I do appologise if I'm not meant to.

My kids are my only source of strength, and they are really all I have, of course I want the best for them as most parents do, I don't mean with the extra presents and stuff that they could want,...

Thank you for the cyber hug, 1 FOR YOU TOO

Is there a time when you have been down for too long? I'm starting to worry that it has been too long and I'm not starting to feel better, I know that it...

Birds of a feather stick together!

Well its just a saying but there is some truth behind it - I think
People with the same beliefs and interests do tend to spend more time together, it would be...

Too much pain now.
There is that old saying about putting a child in a cage with a dog and eventually the child will bark- this has been proven hasn't it?
Can you go through a relationship that...

Of course you should want your partner /fiance to be your best friend, this should be a natural occurrence during a relationship, but this can become difficult to maintain if you have broken up as a...

Not all women fake orgasms and not all men fake relationships, in my opinion-yes sometimes things do change in relationships and either partner can appear less interested than they once was, but that...

Hey henderson, I know what your going through because I have actually been going through the same thing1 YES there are lots of us that are treated the same way, now I'm not sure if I can be of any...

But I've been tired of the pain like forever now! They say that god doesn't pt you through anything that you can't handle but I really can't handle anymore, I don't just mean the relationships...

THANK YOU TALANIMAN, how did you become so wise?

Hmm some sense but I think that I'm just torturing myself really with all the confsion from the things that have been said and the things he was doing- I do need to try andmake some sense of it...

This is where I don't understand because we all feel the need to share our lives with someone, a special someone, but if there's that chance that we/they can change our opinions of someone just like...

So its eaisier not to take the risk then.

Yes so do I,
But this has helped me, I am going through a process that has worked for other people, and I will be OK!

I wish,
I did not intend to generalize every relationship- I did say that I was only talking about the process and not the reasons that led to the break up in any way,
What I was asking was the...

Redhead, thanks for your answer, I just wanted to say that I don't want anyone to think that I'm not gratefull for the answers that I have had- I am!! And I've even felt I have known enough to...

The process I mean, to get you to the stage where you can then both heal enough to become friends or reunite or never see each other again, is the process always the same?
I also believe in...

I have been reading on here for the last few days many questions that people have and some very interesting answers, but overall there seemes to be a general trend in the way that people do things-...

I hear what you are saying, and yes this does make sense to a point, I do love myself and have always only been able to depend on myself, but when you think that you have spent enough time figuring...

I know that maths and people/relationships are very different it was just the first example I could think of, but when you say welcome to the real world with real people its somewhat confusing! My...

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I know that as part of breaking up with someone you will have many hurtful questions to yourself and probably questions that you will never be able to ask the "other" but...

Myself personally, I think it's a good thing being friends with someone before you are lovers, because you find out things as friends that clear up compatibility issues, you must enjoy spending time...

Sometimes there is no way out of these financial situations, especially when you take an unrealistic amount in the first place, there is just not enough to go around, and something has to give! Or it...

There is a saying that comes with all Talanimans' answers on this site about achieving great things together, conquering things together, and it seems that when all was going wrong your partner...

In my experience it seems that we all want what we can't have, so I'm referring to the intimate parts of your relationship, seems your partner wants his cake and eat it too, and while you give in to...

Funny seeing the words being broken into a million pieces isn't that bad after all is actually just that- it doesn't make it easier but last time I broke it was into 2 million pieces so I guess...

Sometimes we can break into a millionpieces for many different reasons we think that we will never fix, but slowly as we piece ourselves together the glue that surrounds us and holds us together is...

Thank u,iTried
Sometimes its hard to listen to all that hurts us and all I feel at the moment is hurt, hurt about anything and everything,hurt hurt hurt, hurt for him, me and of course our...

liz28 thank u, my ex was never begging for me 2 come back and I did not enjoy him chasing me- I dindnt expierience that! I have wrote a letter agreeing with the break up yes because that seemed to be...

I AGREE with that which is why I asked him not to treat me this way anymore and said that it would be best for us to end it there, not really wanting the end but knowing that I could not ask him to...

Its been three weeks that we haven't really been together but I left our house 7months ago, I know we arnt together but he has not got the right 2 do what ever he wants keeping me a part of it! Yes...

No I don't wnt 2 control him in anyway, but I do have the right not to be treated that way, as do we all, he never used to want 2 control anything, so I don't undrestand why now? We didn't play games...

That does make very much sense, in a strange way, but I don't know if you followed the beginning of my story where I had the outside hurtfull actions of a stalker- I did, myself and my partner had an...

I read this book recently about getting an ex back, and people say thet it happens all the time, just as you have, but why can't I seem to find anyone that does actually have a good story to tell...

This is all so messed up seriously, why don't people just do what they say, and mean what they do.
I would understand so much more if it were to slap me in the face and say I DNT WANT U Anymore! At...

How and why do couples get back together after they have split up? Why does he say he wants it and he misses me, if he is saying it 2 ease my pain as you have suggested why when I tried to break it...

OK, so why when I tried to end it because of the way he was treating me, did he then try 2 reverse it by keeping the communication open and say he would call and see where we were both at after a...

It wasn't that way, althogh initially we broke up 7months ago we have been trying 2 reconcile since- it was a long and painfull road that we tried to get over together, you see I had a stalker who...

Hi
I have been through this friend 2 lovers question, and form lovers to friends 2?
Its very difficult in my expierience to be friends wiv someone that you once loved or still do depending on...

Why does my ex partner treat me this way?


Its been so long since I've been in my elationship with my ex patner 7months in fact, however we had been kind of keeping in contact, but as it was all...