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I know it's hard but try not to analyse again. It really kills you, I know. He is really not worth wondering about. I'm afraid he is someone we will never figure out. Try and think of good goals...

Mmm brownies sounds good! Anywhere there is chocolate and here I am!

Hi Rol,

How awful, we really didn't see this one coming. The fact that he emailed you now and again, and he looked so tired on your first meeting.

I guess you can only really take from this,...

Hi Rol,

Similar situations, you and I both saw our exes after 6 months. Plus, the way you described him to be, was the way mine was too. I think they both have problems that we cannot fix, it's...

I don't know why guys act that way sono. It really hurts. My ex hung up the phone on me, way away back in September. I never called him after that.

Can't wait to see it now Tuscany! Lol!

Oh right!! He is not a good singer like most of the others are. He is quite geeky too lol! I guess teenage girls like him!! :)

Hey guys, I accidentally read this one week and found out that Sabrina went out, we see the show after you guys in the US!! I had to keep quiet when watching it with my mum!! Sanjia out soon.....

Of course. It is hard work getting over a broken heart. I am just happy sorting out my life right now, on my own!! You need to get yourself to a good point again, when you feel well and confident.

Well done : ) I guess we build this all up in our heads that we want our ex back, then when it happens (if it happens) we realise the reality of it, is not quite as good as we thought.

Go to profile and edit picture, then browse to pick the one you want ;)

Don't torture yourself by contacting him. I have been there, it hurts like hell. It is like being dumped over and over again, having someone cancel your calls etc. Don't give him the satisfaction...

I was thinking about this scenario.. I think now, if it happened to me, I don't think I could take my ex back. I mean I would feel too angry and full of resent. I think there would be a lack of...

Oh no! The Titanic is so sad! I cried!! 'The Holiday' is quite good, but a bit sad too

This guy is such an a**!! He sounds extremely selfish, and really immature to be honest. He is not good for your or his wife.

You have to be a wee bit cautious. Maybe you should have a friend with you for the initial meeting. Or at least tell people where you are going. It's something I have never done, but some of my...

Great photo :) very well captured. I love photography, I think shots of animals are great :)

It just means you have to give feedback to someone else for a change. You can't give the same people feedback a lot : )

It takes a lot of time to feel better.

I know you said that you decided on no contact. This sounds like the best idea. She is mixing your head up, by saying you haven't to contact her, and then she is speaking to you. For your own sake...

Nice to know, and it was interesting to read, as I am going through a bit of a rough patch.
It wasn't a good idea to go through the phone though. I did that and found a woman from his work had text...

Thanks Rol! Well, I have a big heart, I am certainly not insensitive!! Maybe it would help me more if I was!!

Mm some of it is true, some not! Im quite happy for someone to be on the stage ha ha! I hate attention in crowds etc.

Ha ha! Sounds like him Rol!! I think he is a lost cause ha ha! What about Leo?

Ha ha!

Hi guys, happy Friday : )

Yes, I am Leo :D

My famous ex is an Aquarious, does that spell disaster? Ha ha !

Hi Rol,

I wouldn't mention anything about the past. I don't think I would say that I admire him about anything. It might not be a wise thing to do. You are saying to him it was OK to treat you...

Thanks! I will give it a try

I think you have made a good choice : ) you did ask him to leave you alone but he didn't. It isn't fair of him to leave you hanging on, in case things don't work out with the other person. The...

Ha ha! Yeah Tom Cruise - yuck! He is short and big headed LOL! And chuff you are not the way you describe yourself at all, you don't give yourself enough credit : )

I haven't dated that many...

I listened to Kelly Clarkson the album 'Brekaway' which is very apt for a breakup situation. I found this great, I walked about with my headphones in all the time. I also bought loads of new cds...

I am all for forgiving people, but in the case I would 'kick him to the kerb' as the americans say.

I know what you are going through. You really need to try for yourself though, you are the only person who can get you through this. Friends and family can help, but it has to be you that decides...

I honestly hope I am never in that situation. 4 years, that's torture!!

I am hoping someone can help me figure out how to change my signature, on my Yahoo email address. I set up a signature about a year ago. It is a funny one, but now I am sending out my CV for jobs...

Oh copperhead don't worry. I feel good sometimes and bad other times. I too had times where I thought I was over it. I have another hurdle though, it is my ex's birthday tomorrow and people in my...

Plus I am the only single person in my college class on a Saturday! : ( there are loads of single people on the Wednesday night class! Mostly women, in their 40's

I agree rol, but it especially hurts this year doesn't it? The fact that it is plastered all over TV, posters, in restaurants etc. I will be at college that night so that's good. There is a woman...

Ha ha! You guys make me laugh so much! Thanks : ) I don't laugh that much now, but I feel so menace like today : )

Oh geoff, that sounds lovely : )

Good for you Rol. I just got annoyed because my ex sweeps things under the carpet. When I saw him last month, he had obviously still been doing that, and just working to take his mind off things. ...

Wow Rol, so honest! I can imagine you saying this to him face to face with a frying pan/rolling pin in your hand! Ha ha! Yeah, it's a shame we didn't get angry with them face to face or by...

I would feel better if we all pay 10p for charity and line up to throw custards pies in their faces!

Don't worry 4 answers, you will feel better someday. It takes time, and all you can do is ride this thing through. : ) Anytime you need to vent or anything you can send me a message. I understand...

Hey I am in a really funny mood today, how about we send our exes a batch of spiders for Valentines day ha ha ! I am evil! Oh OK, I could never be evil I know!

Dear ex,

Well, I see your life hasn't changed for the better since you split up with me. You said it yourself you haven't changed, still think you are 17, and take no responsibility for yourself...

Well, I can sympathise. My ex was unhappy in himself, his age, he felt stuck in a rut with things. At the time he finished with me he said he was unhappy with where he lived, the fact that he had...

Interesting Rol, this is partly what happened to me as you know.. this is really interesting. In my case various things were issues in his life and people have said to me he would only have dragged...

Sorry to hear you are going through so much right now. It sounds like she was playing games with the MSN thing. The best thing you can do, is what you are doing now. Basically have nothing to do...

The dentist said I am grinding my teeth, I had to pay £50 for a shield that I am supposed to wear at night. I looked in my mum's book about dreaming about teeth, but it said something about feeling...