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Hi all of you guys

Now its been 4 months healing from an almost 3 year relationship finished
From a betrayal that she did to me.these are some sympthoms of my healing process.
It should be...

I can feel for you man.we have some similar details.my flags were as red as yours.a lack in sexual desire, her behaviour changed, more arguments and in the end "i dont love you anymore".the red flags...

You seem to me a little bit young and also so selfish... what you have written is a big confussion.
So, you love your boyfriend and also you like another guy, and you think he is the reason that...

So you got over a 7 year old relationship so do the same thing with this 5 month relationship. It is going to be much easier to heal. You have gone through bigger pain before.
The actions she made...

Hey MiSSsy111222 it has been more than 3 months NC now for me.I think you can remember me 3 months ago.you were the first one who answered my first post so I can remember you so well.
If you need...

Hey man I'm reading and you remember me my relationship. I remember myself working hard all the summer and she was just lying to me. Saying she was home, saying she was with her family,while she was...

What is done, is done. If you really regret what you did than stop killing yourself.I don't want to ever be in the place of your husband but what happened, happened and you don't have that power to...

I'm going out with 2 friends I have made. Trying to do different activities to loose my mind. I'm not enjoying so much but what can I do.maybe the fact that I don't have a job yet is affecting my...

Hi
I had a long term relationship (3 years) which finished more than 2 months ago. And during this time I have been in No Contact at all.
But still I'm hurt. Her memory hurts me again. I am trying...

Still I think she cheated you emotionally, with her heart.and for me this is worse than cheating physically.

I hope you won't have to deal with this situation of your ex coming back.this depends even on the time of NC.for me 2 months NC is too much time to accept her back so I hope for myself she is not...

Depends on the situation
I think if the ex dumps you to go into another relationship or cheats you. These 2 cases are unforgivable for me.
My ex dumped me after 3 years because she liked another...

And they don't deserve to wish them "happy birthday"

Don't contact her even if it is her birthday.I did the same thing.I didn't contact my ex neither for the new year's day nor for her birthday.she doesn't need you to wish her "happy birthday".thats...

At least she is feeling that she is guilty.this is important. Don't contact her.stay strong,that's why we are men.and that's why they are women,to make us things more difficult.if she contacted you...

Lola64 sorry for my judgment. You should have included more details in your first post like: the topless photos of his girl friends in his PC etc... they are very immature actions and they show...

Nobody in the world can predict if she will ever regret her decision.she may or she may not.she regrets it or not, its not your duty to think about this or you are not going to move on. Focus on...

5 years is a lot of time but I'm not surprised at all.
A problem that I notice in girls is:
You start accumulating things over the time until the Bing Bang comes. When this comes you are prepared...

She cheated on me.everything finished.so what should I wait?its been more than 2 months NC now.everything has finished now for me.

Yep guys I know what I should do in theory. Really hard to put it into practice.
The fact that she cheated is the reason to all this sad situation I'm through.it makes me feel disrespected.thats...

Really bad day today.
The fact that I have been in a relationship with a bit*h all this time makes me nervous.
I envy all the persons that have gone through this situation and got over their...

I know how you feel. Disrespected.
She wants to have a myspace account, she wants to go out for a "girls night", while you are not doing these things. And I think every time you talk to her about...

Sorry you are saying you had a 9 year relationship and you dumped your girlfriend to start a relationship with this girl?? You are completely out of my concepts really.
You didn't mention anything...

Go and meet her and make things clear.
If she loves you she doesn't need a brake.(tell her this)
If she insists having a brake, then give her a break and go No Contact.
Be sure to tell her that...

NC is for EVERYONE the best option. Now you are thinking that your situation is unique and you are the only one in the world suffering this loss. Not true at all. You see only in this site there are...

You are afraid of her actions and you are not going to trust her ever. Because that's what she is showing to you.immaturity in her actions.she is very young to think right. If you don't want to have...

So in 3 years there was nothing that makes you feel happy when you remember?
3 years is a long time. Do you think he still loves you? He might have any problem that is bothering him.have you...

yes Stringer I think I'm moving on. And this thanks God and people like you who helped me when I needed help.believe me.you were the people that helped me more because as I have said I'm living in...

Let me say something:
1.I don't really understand people like you at all. You stay 5 years with your boyfriend and then you want to leave him for the first guy you meet.so what about these 5...

Sure. I don't want to seem cruel but she should understand what it means to be cheated by a person who you love and give him so much priority in life. Maybe then she will remember me.maybe then she...

Well it is easy to say but hard to do. You think I don't want to feel better and throw this anger away?sure I want.thats what I want more now.
I don't think I'm going to live my life angry and...

Yep ill be fine.
My worst part of the day is the morning.Every single morning when I wake up I feel empty.Maybe this happens because you forget everything when you sleep, and when you wake up,...

Hi
We had our break ups at the same time I think.when I registered in this forum and posted my first thread you were one of them who supported me with your answer.for me it has been 2 months NC. Ok...

I see you had to deal with a more serious problem.you were married, you had children, and 18 years is a long time. Me, I'm 24, and let me say I ve had some problems in my life. But I've never had to...

So I'm waiting for acceptance as I see.I hope so.reading your description of the anger stage makes me agree that she really sucked in bed.I m not saying it from anger but that's true.

I used to workout in gym before the break up.and these 2 months NC I ve been killing my muscles until a guy at the gym said me "you are burning them".I must admit that gym helps a lot but still there...

I used to workout in gym before the break up.and these 2 months NC I ve been killing my muscles until a guy at the gym said me "you are burning them".I must admit that gym helps a lot but still there...

It has been more than 2 months that I went NC, since the day she told me the truth. I deleted everything I had from her except my memories.here comes another part.difficult to forget how much she...

What do cheaters deserve? I mean first-class cheaters who cheat on you emotionally in a long term relationship.when your relationship ends you realize that they have been cheating on you several...

In the relationship between your friend and his ex who you are dating with, who was the dumper? If he dumped her I don't see any problem. Your friend wouldn't care much I think. If she dumped him...

I'm not deleting it just for the simple reason that I have some friends there. And I talk with them almost everyday. Just it helps me to pass the time. Do you think the best way is to delete my...

I'm having another problem now. We have a mutual friend in Facebook and she keeps posting photos of my ex with another guy and other friends. I really don't know why her friend doesn't post her own...

The first days are painful. Don't want to remember them anymore. I hope you get back together unless she dumped you for another guy.this is something you can't forgive.just go No Contact and the time...

So you are saying I have 2 more stages to go through until I reach acceptance. :eek: ouuuu no. terrible. Thank you for your answer.

You remember me my girlfriend. Maybe this is the phase she got through before breaking up with me. She dumped me for another guy who was her classmate in high school. OK. Let me tell you something...

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Hello everyone
It has been about 50 days that I didn't have contact with my girlfriend at all. She dumped me when I was alone immigrant in another country, and there were no...

Based on the posts I have read in this forum and on what I have heard from others, I noticed something. I don't know if it is true.just asking if you have noticed it too .in 80 % of the serious...

Hi friends
Everybody of us in this forum had some love problems. Some of us got dumped some of us are the dumpers. After a relationship which lasted 3 years, I am one of those who got dumped by my...

Just stay away from her.imagine like she is your girlfriend and a guy is trying to take her from you.wouldnt you get mad? Its not fair to steal.

Better say: what a way to waste so much time with a person and finally get dumped :D
But that's life. If I would use the time that I spent thinking for her thinking for myself, maybe today I would...