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You rock back and forth on your feet

We have gone out on several dates and at the end of the night he kisses me and hugs me and that is it.

Stay away from him. He is a user and loser! You are better off without him

Thank you for all your advice. I really enjoy hanging out with him and we have a lot in common and he does treat me the way that I want to be treated. When we talk every night on the phone it is at...

He isn't getting the sex from me. Yes I think that he is someone that I can wait for

He doesn't try to feel me a lot. We just talk and laugh together. I know that he has been burned in the past just like I have. He does kiss me good night and hold my hand in public but that is it

I am 33 he is 31. When I ask him he just says hanging out and see where it goes.

I having been talking to a really sweet guy.He calles me everyday. He wants to hang out and see what happens. I am not sure how to do this.What do you do when you hang out? Where does it lead? Any...

Does anyone know of any free bankrupcty counseling courses that you can do online:(

No they are saying the wall that you felt could have been mild prolapse!

In my situation I was using friends with benefits because the relationship was over and that was my way of holding on to that person in some weird way. But since then I have come to realize that I am...

He called last night and said that he made a decision. He said that he didn't want me to die or anything but he didn't have any feelings for me. I said that is fine. It is your loss. I deserve...

I think that as long as it is a mutal decision and you make sure you tell her how much she is appreciate than it's OK

He has asked for time give it too him. Stop being cingy and insecure. Go do your own things. I am not saying that it is going to be easy because I know from experience it isn't. But the more you try...

You have just lowered your own self respect by getting involved with another man.. Think about what you deserve. You deserve someone that is free to be with you. Put yourself is HIS WIFE's shoes. How...

FORGET HIM!! Work on yourself make yourself a better person. Make yourself happy, because if you aren't happy with yourself you will never be happy in a relationship! And for god sake stop being one...

First of all think about how little he will respect you when you had sex with him right after meeting him.. Come on

GO SLOW! Get to know each other This may just be a lust thing

#1 you don't want to be with anyone you can't share your day with because that is part of a relationship.
#2 in my opinion- she has other plans for the weekend and didn't want to include you

I...

Give her her space and if she comes back it was meant to be. But who knows once you get out there you may find that she wasn't the one for you after all

What about just staying at home and acting out some of his fantasies. Like dressing up and really acting them out. That would mean more to me than an evening out.

Now he is telling me that he needs this space to see if he loves me for me or if it is just a lust thing.

Let voice Mail get it. Don't be so available for her.:)

:confused: UPDATE!!
Yesterday was his birthday (27) I didn't call him or email him or anything. He emails me yesterday afternoon wanting to met at his house for a booty call after work. I told him...

GO SLOW!! Don't rush into anything take your time get to know her...

In my opinion once you hit a woman you can't go back. I too came from very abusive relationships and the thing you need to learn right now is YOU NEVER HIT A WOMAN... If you loved her and respected...

I too am going through the same thing right now with my boyfriend. He is 27 no kids I am 32 with 3. I have cut off complete contact with him for about 1 week now. I love him and I want him back but...

Lessoned learned this time too. I will make sure he is a keeper before I introduce another guy to my kids

You go girl. I am very proud of you... You move on with your life and when it is the right one you will know it. He isn't it.

One day he is all lovey dovey the next he is cold. He told me yesterday that he missed me and my kids. That he loves me but he just needs more space to make sure it wasn't just a lust thing. Why do...

It will also let me know if it is him that I really want...

I am going slow. I am going out with another guy Sat night just as friends. I am not sitting at home waiting on him to come back to me. If he does decide that he wants to come back he will work to...

Well it has been over a week and out of the blue he emails me today wanting to go to lunch with me We went to lunch and casually talked. What is going on?

I think that is what he is wanting to do... I told him that it is his lose

He emailed me this morning and said that we haven't broken up he just needs some time and space. I told him I wasn't going to wait on him...

We decided to casually date but not date other people. I told him that I wasn't going to be at his beck and call and I didn't want to see him everyday. That we both needed to think about what we...

He just emailed me he wants to have lunch so that we can talk

One of the things he said to me was absences makes the heart grow fonder! So I guess he is wanting to see if his heart grows fonder. I have a feeling there may be someone else should I try to catch...

I have been cheated on and beat since the age of 16. I am now 32 yrs old. How do you put all that behind you and trust a man?

What if I am really not sure what pushed him away. I have gotten some self help books and I am reading those.

Should I ask him if he wants to break it off?

Luckily we don't have to interact with each other for work related stuff

One the nights he wasn't supposed to come over that was fine with me but he came over anyway..

I will never put anyone before them they come first and for most.

Yes we saw each other everyday.
Talked on the phone and emailed each everyday.
Had lunch together everyday
Spent the weekends together
At one point I guess I was a little cingy and insecure

It helped. I am just not sure how to let that bird go

I guess the bigger question is how much time should I give him before I say in my mind it's over and move on?

Do you think that there is someone else??

I am a single mom of 3 small kids. I have been seeing this guy (whose 27 I am 32)that works with me for about 3 months. Everything was going great we saw each other everyday now all of a sudden he...

I too feel in love with a loser and it was very hard for me to let go but thanks to the advice of everyone on this site I have been able to move and I feel like the wait of the world has been lift....

Have you ever heard the saying "HE WHO CARE THE LEAST WINS" sounds to me like that is what she is doing. She has you eating out of the palm of her hand because of the way she is acting.

I say let...

Sorry to say that there isn't anything you can do. The more you try to get him the farther away you are pushing him... A friend once told me He who cares the least. I have learned the hard way that...

Quick Update:: I have completely cut him out of my life. I feel less stress now then the whole time I have known him. Thanks to everyone that responded to my problem.

Very good point I will move on. Thank you so much for your help