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  1. Question: Ex boyfriend

    by Guidostern
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    How long have you been broken up? How old are...

    How long have you been broken up?

    How old are the two of you?

    Do you feel as though you are ready and comfortable enough with the situation to see him now?

    We all make friends with family...
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    It's hard. We've all been there and like never...

    It's hard. We've all been there and like never says, we all have our bad days. The truth is, you just got to find out what works for you. It's going to take a while and it'll hurt like hell, but...
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    I agree with most... you're only 18... you've got...

    I agree with most... you're only 18... you've got a lot of life to live and I think you're moving just a little too fast here... especially to make the sacrifices that you are and him not doing the...
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    Well, just an update to the NC... I didn't...

    Well, just an update to the NC...

    I didn't talk to her from the 20th (of November) until yesterday. I was in town taking care of something with a friend of mine. We went to grab something to...
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    That's a hard question to answer, first because...

    That's a hard question to answer, first because only he knows the answer.

    This is generally a problem for many who fall for someone that has just came out of a relationship. While you can't make...
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    First off, how old are you? I agree completely...

    First off, how old are you? I agree completely with Rome... you got to trust her...

    If you're going to try and control who she talks to, and be insecure about an ex that she has told you on...
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    I know this is going to be a killer, but I'm...

    I know this is going to be a killer, but I'm going to be honest with you just as Tal has been.

    I would chalk it up to her just trying to be nice or trying to make herself feel better about the...
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    Don't be so hard on yourself. We all make...

    Don't be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes in life. Sometimes yes, we do find out after it's already too late, but you know what? It's okay. We're human and things like that happens to the...
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    It sounds like you're carrying around a lot of...

    It sounds like you're carrying around a lot of guilt, and that's not good for you or your marriage.

    If you love someone, you're honest with them. I understand your concerns regarding this, but...
  10. Oh man... can I give you a few more... my...

    Oh man... can I give you a few more... my personal favorites...

    Tombstone
    Slingblade (always brings a smile to my face)
    We Were Soldiers
    Braveheart
    The Breakfast Club
    Turner and Hooch...
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    You know something... I honestly wouldn't start...

    You know something... I honestly wouldn't start trying to figure him out. You're just going to drive yourself crazy and never find an answer.

    I took a break right before I got married to my...
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    Here's a little something I wanted to share......

    Here's a little something I wanted to share... it's something that was pretty special to me, before I got over it...

    We woke up without our clothes of virtue
    Holding on to each other and the...
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    First of all, you need to worry about the...

    First of all, you need to worry about the relationship that you're in first. Any SOLID relationship is built on honesty and trust. If you can't build that trust with someone then the relationship...
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    That's why I told her, I think. Yeah, I was...

    That's why I told her, I think. Yeah, I was drunk and yeah, I said a lot... maybe too much. I'm in a rebound situation right now, but this girl is too important for me to think of her as just a...
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    How do you know it's time?

    Okay guys and gals, this is going to be a long one, so strap in and get ready for the ride. I'm doing damned good these days. I've moved on and realize that she wasn't right for me... our goals were...
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    It's great that you've found happiness again! I...

    It's great that you've found happiness again! I finally figured out that true happiness is found within myself, but sometimes I still find myself saying "I just hope that all I am will someday be...
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    Well, it's hard to say... the approach changes...

    Well, it's hard to say... the approach changes depending on what type of person he is. I honestly would just be honest with him about it. Sure, he'll be upset at first, but you're being honest...
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    Thanks guys... I appreciate it. I still haven't...

    Thanks guys... I appreciate it. I still haven't talked to her. She's called a few times while I've been out, but I'm not avoiding her either. I've been taking a lot of time to think about things...
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    Well, NC lasted another day after my last post,...

    Well, NC lasted another day after my last post, basically. I was involved in a "crash" while working. While I was still out, my brother called my ex. Her and a friend rushed to the town I'm living...
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    Be careful... remember Newton's law... for every...

    Be careful... remember Newton's law... for every action, there is an opposite reaction. You push and he may pull away more.

    If you have truly sat down and told him exactly how you feel, then he...
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    JT... You need to just cut her off completely. ...

    JT... You need to just cut her off completely. It's not doing you, or her any good at this point. Like I said before, you're just causing yourself more heartache and sending yourself into a tail...
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    Oh yeah... you're doing the right thing... if...

    Oh yeah... you're doing the right thing... if she's going to lie to you, then she's not worth your time... she'll just continue to lie to you as long as she knows that she can get away with it......
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    JT quit blaming yourself. I know that you feel...

    JT quit blaming yourself. I know that you feel really guilty about the entire situation, but the fact of the matter is... it takes two. You tried your hardest... maybe not in the ways you should...
  24. Yeah, walk away before this goes any further......

    Yeah, walk away before this goes any further... you're in lust right now... Lust in no way is love... like historianchic says, she's dedicated to someone else... why risk ruining the friendship that...
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    Okay... first and foremost, everyone needs to...

    Okay... first and foremost, everyone needs to stop with all the personal attacking of each other... this is ridiculous.

    Paramour, you need to obviously forgive yourself for the things you've done....
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    Obviously you love this girl very much. I'm sure...

    Obviously you love this girl very much. I'm sure since you're the age you are, you've had a few long term relationships and experiences with love.

    You got to think about something's though. You...
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    Okay... this may be a little harsh, not for you,...

    Okay... this may be a little harsh, not for you, but against your boyfriend... so don't be mad... I'm just being honest.

    All right... he repeatedly says that he'll change and you keep giving into...
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    Yeah, you need to walk away from this one. If...

    Yeah, you need to walk away from this one. If he's still living with her, then there's some unattended business on both parts that he needs to address... and another thing, she can't absolutely stop...
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    Look at it this way... He's still with his...

    Look at it this way...

    He's still with his wife... HE says he'll LEAVE HER... okay, if he is SO miserable, then why hasn't he left her?

    I understand the kids thing... I've been married and...
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    Yeah... the fling happened AFTER I LEFT though......

    Yeah... the fling happened AFTER I LEFT though... that's what they don't seem to get... once we're broken up, that's her business on how she fills the void of me being gone... which I know for a fact...
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    Okay... Look... don't even start telling me to...

    Okay... Look... don't even start telling me to "man up"... you don't know me... first of all, read the damn post... it says "fighting her to be with her is a losing battle." So obviously I have...
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    Oh, don't get me wrong... like I said, I want to...

    Oh, don't get me wrong... like I said, I want to fight for her very much. The problem is though, fighting her for the right to be with her again is kind of a losing battle if you know what I mean......
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    Yeah, I am finally starting to see that too. It's...

    Yeah, I am finally starting to see that too. It's taken me a long time to figure that one out.

    There was never any NEED for drama or BS in our relationship. For a very long time it wasn't there....
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    It was a bunch of different factors that...

    It was a bunch of different factors that contributed to it... I normally don't talk about it, but I'm willing to...

    She didn't like the line of work that I'm in... I'm a police officer... this is...
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    Thanks guys, I appreciate your support. Tab,...

    Thanks guys, I appreciate your support.

    Tab, the thing is while yes, I am still very vulnerable and yeah... you know what... I would go right back to her if she called me up right now. I'm not...
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    Well, another day or two has passed by and I'm...

    Well, another day or two has passed by and I'm feeling terrible again. No, I didn't contact her... but I still feel terrible... not really sure how to channel all of this out of me in a positive...
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    Man, if you're going to ask for advice, you...

    Man, if you're going to ask for advice, you should probably listen a little bit... trying not to be mean, but we're all either going through or have gone through very similar situations.

    If you...
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    Yeah, I know... I'm so glad that I didn't act...

    Yeah, I know... I'm so glad that I didn't act like that... I didn't even give myself the option. I went and hung out with some friends and they checked the VM's for me and deleted them...

    I was...
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    If you have doubts, tell your fiancé... if he...

    If you have doubts, tell your fiancé... if he truly loves you, he'll make something happen where you can postpone the wedding or whatever... but under no cercumstances should you follow through with...
  40. Question: My boyfriend

    by Guidostern
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    Well, it's hard to say... there are lots of guys...

    Well, it's hard to say... there are lots of guys that like other girls... it could be something innocent...

    But otherwise, you're not giving us too much info...

    How old are you?

    How long...
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    Well, I'm extremely proud of myself, even though...

    Well, I'm extremely proud of myself, even though it's only about 9PM here...

    She tried to call me three times today and I didn't answer at all... I just hit ignore and let her leave the VM's... I...
  42. Question: NC or rude

    by Guidostern
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    Got to agree with everyone else... You're not...

    Got to agree with everyone else... You're not being rude at all... don't worry about being rude... she doesn't matter anymore... YOU DO... so keep your head up and don't let her mess with your mind...
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    Wow... that is harsh! You have to think though,...

    Wow... that is harsh! You have to think though, depending on how long they've been together, he could have played a very important role in her children's lives. You have to remember that children...
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    Yeah, go cold turkey... if you show little...

    Yeah, go cold turkey... if you show little interest, or just back off a little more, the feelings you had before could start to resurface and you could end up for more disappointment and heartache......
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    Got to agree with everyone else here... sounds...

    Got to agree with everyone else here... sounds like you both may be letting a little bit of pride get in your way and affect the way you feel about each other, etc...
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    Yeah, I'm already making major changes to myself....

    Yeah, I'm already making major changes to myself. My friends seen me earlier and said that they can already see the difference. They say that they're seeing the guy they used to know... the one who...
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    I know... I didn't call her at all and deleted...

    I know... I didn't call her at all and deleted the text message just minutes after I posted that.

    It doesn't keep away from the fact that I'm still confused and not sure what to do... yeah, I...
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    Oh I'm trying, I'm trying really hard to just let...

    Oh I'm trying, I'm trying really hard to just let this all pass. When I last talked to her, she was confused and said that she is scared about what would've happened if we continued to stay...
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    Well, a new day has began and I'm confident, but...

    Well, a new day has began and I'm confident, but hurting pretty bad right now... she sent me a text telling me that she misses me and is starting to think about things differently.

    It's hard,...
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    Well, day one is half way over and I'm feeling...

    Well, day one is half way over and I'm feeling better. I've started to sink back into writing music again, and have even started picking up my guitar more.

    It was a great help that my friends...
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