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  1. Trust is vital to a relationship if he doesn't...

    Trust is vital to a relationship if he doesn't trust you it will never work. Period. End of story. Like the above user said leave.
  2. I am sorry for your loss but as the above poster...

    I am sorry for your loss but as the above poster said there is nothing tying you to this boy now. If he wasn't acting right in the first place he will probably see this as a ploy and get even more...
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    It doesn't matter what he feels Grow a...

    It doesn't matter what he feels

    Grow a backbone and stop seeing him as this is only increasing your suffering. Hell tell your husband you want to move away if you have to a different city as that...
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    ^this Think about your family and if you have...

    ^this

    Think about your family and if you have kids what that will do to them as they are just by standers to this

    What will this do to your husband who pledged his life to you

    How about the...
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    He is married. Soulmate or not he has pledged his...

    He is married. Soulmate or not he has pledged his life to another woman. Start NC so you can start healing and find someone new who can be your everything.
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    I didn't start dating tell my third year in...

    I didn't start dating tell my third year in college. No you are perfectly normal some are late bloomers some are early bloomers. All it depends on is if you find the right boy and don't settle for...
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    2 weeks is a short time to tell you the truth and...

    2 weeks is a short time to tell you the truth and you are quite young as well. If it were me in your shoes I would probably go with the flow as of right now because from remembering my experience in...
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    Marriage is a two way street you should not have...

    Marriage is a two way street you should not have all the burdens of home as he might get a day off during the week but when do you? If you don't you might want to bring that up as raising a 2 and 7...
  9. I am sorry for your loss. My friend I went...

    I am sorry for your loss. My friend I went through the same thing. Cut contact, write your feelings down in a journal or in a letter your never going to send. Im going to be honest with you the first...
  10. More info on your relationship is needed Such...

    More info on your relationship is needed

    Such as how old you are, how long it has been going on, the issues you have gone through, etc

    We can't tell you yes or no just from that one sentence
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    Trust issues are something that a relationship is...

    Trust issues are something that a relationship is built on. If he can't deal with you having male friends then that's a big slap in the face for you as you do not have his trust. If you don't have...
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    You are doing the right thing for you and that is...

    You are doing the right thing for you and that is all that matters. Period. End of story.

    Don't question yourself as you did have reasons for the break up and you still do. Don't forget that.
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    Because obviously she wants more. Although it is...

    Because obviously she wants more. Although it is just a title it signifies a lot both in the relationship itself and to the rest of the world.

    Personally I would straight up ask him but then...
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    First of all you need to take out the "I'll be...

    First of all you need to take out the "I'll be here when you need me." That is not good for your healing you need to get it in your head that you two are over and there is nothing you can do about...
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    Check the stickies at the top of the page they...

    Check the stickies at the top of the page they will certainly help you get through this. Just as they helped many others get through this trying time in their lives.
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    Keep no contact if she wants to hear it she will...

    Keep no contact if she wants to hear it she will contact you

    My advice write it down in a letter your never going to send it will help you get a lot of the things off your chest
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    The answer to that doesn't matter at this point...

    The answer to that doesn't matter at this point he made himself clear that he doesn't want to be with you. Period. If he wanted to be with you he would be with you. I know this sounds harsh but you...
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    Well trying to find out what is wrong is the guys...

    Well trying to find out what is wrong is the guys way of trying to deal with a problem, you have to make it clear to him that what you are going through cannot be solved the way he wants it to be.
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    Then he doesn't care about your feelings as it...

    Then he doesn't care about your feelings as it does take two to make a relationship. He might feel like you don't need a break but from what you are writing it certainly sounds like you do.

    Him...
  20. Question: First Love

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    Well of course you think about him he was a big...

    Well of course you think about him he was a big part of your life, but it sounds like you are in the right place to start moving forward. You have to remember that your feelings as of right now are...
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    Exactly why you need to step back from your...

    Exactly why you need to step back from your situation and re-evaluate what is going on here and if it is the best thing for you in the long run.
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    Then tell him to stop contacting you until you...

    Then tell him to stop contacting you until you have moved on
  23. Question: First Love

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    It won't take you that long. Talk to your...

    It won't take you that long. Talk to your friends, especially the one you can tell anything to, don't under any circumstance get stuck. By that I mean don't let it fester, don't dwell on it, let it...
  24. Question: First Love

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    The 3 year thing was mostly caused by lack of...

    The 3 year thing was mostly caused by lack of communication with those around me. I didn't share what I was going through with friends and family and as a result I got stuck in a bad state. I know...
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    First thing is first. Stop trying to get pregnant...

    First thing is first. Stop trying to get pregnant off a guy you don't know how the future will turn out with.

    He has made it clear that he is in a transitional period in his life as he still...
  26. Question: First Love

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    Well my first relationship was an interesting...

    Well my first relationship was an interesting one. Although I didn't have a relationship per-say the way it happened and ended kind of scarred me for a while, like a couple of years. It was one of...
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    I would see this opportunity as a way to start...

    I would see this opportunity as a way to start over fresh in a new environment where there is nothing tying you down. Don't let the past haunt you embrace it for all the lessons it has taught you and...
  28. Really you know your man better than us. Talk to...

    Really you know your man better than us. Talk to him like you would have before the breakup. Really it depends on what kind of guy he is. For me honesty would probably be best as being true to...
  29. Also when you are on the inside of a relationship...

    Also when you are on the inside of a relationship you can be blinded by the emotions that come with it. Giving it time and the ability to clear your head allows you to make a choice based on the...
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    You can't make generalizations about everybody as...

    You can't make generalizations about everybody as different people have different reasons for staying in a relationship and getting into one in the first place.

    Not all guys need to have their...
  31. Question: Is this legal?

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    Its legal to date, however where the gray line...

    Its legal to date, however where the gray line comes in is if you ever move to sexual stuff.

    Depending on where you live, the rules for statutory rape differ. So the only time you could get into...
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    Short guys can do anything tall guys can. Some...

    Short guys can do anything tall guys can. Some girls might prefer tall guys some might prefer short you just have to put yourself out there as most don't care as long as you are fun to be around
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    Well look at it this way. Do you want to be...

    Well look at it this way.

    Do you want to be someone who you aren't every day for the rest of your life? Probably not and if you do put on the charade of being the perfect girlfriend. (and let me...
  34. Im going to have to agree with Sik. He had no...

    Im going to have to agree with Sik. He had no commitment towards you since you two weren't together. Talk to him about you feel and see what he says because in the least he deserves to know that his...
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    Be yourself. When you find the person that...

    Be yourself. When you find the person that compliments your life you will know.
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    You are reading too much into it. He seems to be...

    You are reading too much into it. He seems to be trying to get on with his life while you are stewing on the fact that he is having fun without you. He probably still feels very hurt inside but...
  37. Well let me share with you what I went through. ...

    Well let me share with you what I went through.

    This will get worse before it gets better. Your mind and body is going through the process of grieving and that being said you will go through a...
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    Also depends on what you did with him. If you did...

    Also depends on what you did with him. If you did anything sexual there will be a problem. If not he is in the free and clear.
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    Trust me I have took me a while and what not but...

    Trust me I have took me a while and what not but I have, however, that is not my question.

    How would one not fall into the friend zone with the women around him is it just the familiarity of...
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    It was not the same question first of all this...

    It was not the same question first of all this question was how to stay out of the Friendzone i.e. learning from mistakes of the past. Second I've been talking to some girls I know at my school...
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    Hmmm but I was told on the relationship forum...

    Hmmm but I was told on the relationship forum that the only way I could be her friend is I didn't have any underlying motive
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    How to stay out of the friend zone

    My question is how do I stay out of the friend zone both in and out of the relationship? I was recently dumped and she said she couldn't see me as more than just a friend that being said how would...
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    You may feel offended by our answers but trust me...

    You may feel offended by our answers but trust me when I say this we have all had friends that had this happen them. Some of us have even lost friends cause we butted in, we are only trying to help...
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    What tal is saying there is nothing you can do...

    What tal is saying there is nothing you can do about it. Your friend has to figure this one out on her own, the school of hard knocks is a fast teacher. Lets just say this if you give her advice and...
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    Yes its obvious he is into you

    Yes its obvious he is into you
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    Hahaha I'm going to have to say that's as easy...

    Hahaha

    I'm going to have to say that's as easy a break up could probably be to understand.
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    From what I've come to understand she has to...

    From what I've come to understand she has to bring that up you can't force that upon her. Her mind has had to change from not wanting to hurt you by going back to the other guy to wanting to be with...
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    So I started Last Friday, although I had two run...

    So I started Last Friday, although I had two run ins with her one in a group setting and one in an elevator, while we did end amicably. Besides the fact that she dumped me. I do feel hurt over...
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    Welll that's kind of what I did but you have to...

    Welll that's kind of what I did but you have to remember not to ask for her to take you back. I did that twice before consulting here for advice. This talk, like I said before, will either give you...
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    He sounds young. I did that in my first almost...

    He sounds young. I did that in my first almost relationship and it fell to bits and hurt me for a good many years after that. He might have to do that for himself and realize that no one else can...
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