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Point taken. Thanks for the help. Sorry I didn't mean to aggravate anyone. Just looking for all the possible advice I can get. I just made mistakes in that relationship and want to fix it. ...

Ask her to get her hormones checked. Testosterone in vital for the female sex drive. Also you need to find a way to communicate and you need to do it quickly! Date her and be the man she fell in...

Thanks again

Not sure about the rliablity of the source. I would not spread any rumors because that would not benefit me in the least. I know it is not my place to protect her but I just don't want her to get...

It is best for your child to come to a mutual agreement and keep it friendly. I am a single father myself however my ex is good about letting me get him when I can. I travel a lot with work myself...

Thanks. Still can't get her off my mind though. I just summerized the story in another string. She is all I think about. I am trying to stay upbeat when I talk to her and put no preasure on her.

Many of you have read this earlier in different strings but I can't get her off my mind. I met the most amazing woman 15 years ago but our lives were on different paths. There was a definite...

Thanks to all of you. I don't know any of you but I truly do appreciate your support. I hope that she will still have at least a little spark of what she felt for me and if shee does then I know...

Thanks, I didn't mean that she would not like flowers, I just don't want to SEND them. I have carried them to her myself. I think that it is personal that way. I have not gone overboard with it....

I agree with everyone else. The key will be good documentation both officially through police reports and unofficially through personal documentation. Record phone calls, make records of dates and...

I would but she is a florist her self. She actually does it all. In addition to that she is a interior decorator, caterer, tile layer, business investor, beautiful inside and out. Truly an amazing...

Yeah I know it would sound like sour grapes. Have not been able to confirm the info yet and when/if I do it should come from a third party.

Thanks

Thanks I need all the luck I can get.

Thanks, I will

Thanks but I can't give up just yet but I will be open to other possible relationships

Thanks to all for the advice. More and more troubling info keeps arising. Best bet is to leave it alone and find out for herself but I just worry about her. As ex law enforcement, I have seen first...

CaptainForest,

Can't do that. Here late husband was a Superior Court Judge in our small town and she knows all the cops and I am ex law enforcement for the state. I am still trying toverify the...

My information also led me to believe he is still involved in the drug business. I don't want her to get hurt. I have hurt her emotionally and want to make it right. I just don't know how to do it...

I wish it were that simple. But I am afraid she will just dismiss it if she has feelings for this guy.

She already knows how I feel. I just waited too late to tell her. I need all the luck I can get to convince her to come back

I didn't share my feelings with that special person and now she is seeing someone else. I recently found out that he has a past criminal history of drug involvement. I have not verified this yet...

Laws vary from state to state. What are you wanting to know about visitation rights?

I grew uo with a boxer that was diagnosed with a brain tumor. It caused behavior problems with him. Growling, using the bathroom in the house... Might be soemthing the vet needs to consider.

The card have already been put on the table nice and polite. I know she doesn't hate me and she still cares but I don't know if she is still in love with me. It has only been 10 days but it seems...

Give her time. I initially just wanted to be friends and fought my feelings. Now she is dating someone and it is killing me. Play it cool stay in touch but don't go overboard and don't beg when...

Go with replacing the tile. Tile work is not hard to do and it looks a lot better and classier. Cost will vary depending on the tile you use. Natural stone is best for the shower because it is...

I posted this earlier, and I want to see if anyone has any more advice.

I met this woman 15 years ago and there has always been a chemistry between us. We married other people. I got divorced and...

Just follow your heart and don't fight your feelings. I have lost someone because I fought mine. I won't fight them again unless that person is wrong for me.

Thanks. I hope she doesn't let it go by either. Just found out that the guy she is with may have a criminal background involving cocaine and may still be involved in the drug trade. If so and she...

Thanks everone. Does anybody else have any more thoughts

Good luck. Family bonds are very important. Life is too short to have too many regrets. But we all have them.

It doesn't matter if you have noticed it. He may have or at least felt that he has. Give it a shot and let me know what developes.

I think it is the other way around. I think he is jealous of the attention you get from your Mama (sorry from south Georgia) and your friends. Ask them in private to pay him a little more attention...

How long do you think I should wait before I call her

Have you tried to do something with him. I mean almost like a date (without the romance of course) Go to a movie, a bar, a ballgame, dinner. Maybe that will open him up some. Let him have fun...

What are the arguments about? Anything repetitive? Is he jelouse of you for any reason? Ask him why he feels he has to argue with you all the time.

Thanks. Last time we spoke was Monday. It ended OK with me telling her I would giver her the space she wants but I would not give up.

I try to but its hard to when you spend a lot of time on the road and in a hotel room. There is no doubt that she truly loved me she just had doubts as to weather or not I loved her. I think she...

Any guesses as to how long it will take her to decide? She was madly in love with me and told me but I hurt so bad and I am afraid that I have lost her forever because of my own stupid fears

Thanks, I have written a letter and she knows that if I can't have her for the rest of my life I at least want to be her friend that she can call me any time. I have written a couple of short...

I posted this earlier, and I want to see if anyone has any more advice.

I met this woman 15 years ago and there has always been a chemistry between us. We married other people. I got divorced...

Are you enjoying sex with you boyfriend? I'm not trying to be rude but if you are not then that may be the problem. You may need to change the scenery. Istead of the bedroom all of the time try...

Quit trying to have one and just let it happen. Tell your boyfriend what feels good and tell him to keep doing it. Good luck

Thanks. I am not getting my hopes up. I told her that iwould giver her the space she wants but I would not give up. I intend to stay in touch with her but not go overboard.

Thanks for all the advice. If anyone can think of anything else please let me know

I would definitely incorporate excersise. I know it is difficult with two children under the age of three. You might invest in a treadmill or something like it that youcan do while they nap. I am...

Though I am a country music fan, the wrong country song can get you down. I am not necessarily a Tom Cochran fan but "life is a Highway" seems pretty upbeat to me.

I am pretty sure she loves him but I don't know how in love she is. There is a difference and I think she is in love with me. I know she was at one time and I hope there is still the slightes spark...

I don't know for sure that the answer is no but I am sure she as all the information she needs to make her decision. I think she is still in love with me but she is so scared and has been so hurt...

Dr. Jizzle,
Just read your second posting. She knows it is not a feeble attempt and she now knows how I feel. And she knows I am sincere. I don't want to try to "force her to come back, I want...