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  1. Thank you for your wisdom... This is the hardest...

    Thank you for your wisdom... This is the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with... and I so don't want to hurt him or my family... but there is nothing left in this relationship and life is too...
  2. What to do when you are in love with someone other than your spouse?

    Been married 20 years... ups and downs... but a long time ago I met my soulmate. We've tried to stay away from each other, but we always find a way to reconnect. I love my spouse but haven't been...
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    Go for It... Every mall has a Spencers Gift...

    Go for It... Every mall has a Spencers Gift store.. and they have just what she needs... So she can go in there or you and you're not going into a bad place. I'm in my early 40's and have only been...
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    You are so cute. Learn to use your hands to make...

    You are so cute. Learn to use your hands to make your wife feel good... There are other ways to take care of her without intercourse... Trust me... I know first hand.
    Rub her whole body and maybe...
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    He's messed up!! And It's not fair to you... go...

    He's messed up!! And It's not fair to you... go to a counselor on your own first.. and let HIM know what you are going through. (I said Him, because if you get your husband to go with you, he will...
  6. I totally get what you are saying... Im 43...

    I totally get what you are saying... Im 43 husband 53, been together 21 years. One 16 year old left of four boys... Had the same thing happen to me. Lots of stress, he lost his executive job 5...
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    In the car on News Years Eve... side of the road...

    In the car on News Years Eve... side of the road under a billboard sign!! How crazy... and we didn't get caught!
  8. Question: Crape Myrtles

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    Crape Myrtles

    When your Crape Myrtle gets too big for where it's planted... Can you transplant it? And if you can, When is the best time?
  9. Question: Sexually Frustrated

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    Girl... It's time to DEMAND and answer... You are...

    Girl... It's time to DEMAND and answer... You are so entitled!! No matter what he is into... (work, computer stuff, someone else) you deserve to be loved... So stand up to him... If you desire to...
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    Good question. My husband recently found out I...

    Good question. My husband recently found out I had a vibrator and left the room too. I thought it would turn him on, but he made feel like he a grossed out. He actually bought me dildo's... but I...
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    Been in your shoes girl... It is NOT your...

    Been in your shoes girl... It is NOT your fault... I'm 43 and he's 53. Went through a long period of no contact. Found porn on his computer... confronted him... He said he was sorry.. and we are...
  12. Question: Feeling trapped

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    Life is shorter than you think... Don't be...

    Life is shorter than you think... Don't be miserable for someone else or the kids... especially when you kids know... If you take a chance on moving on... maybe your kids will see that true love does...
  13. Question: Porn in my marriage

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    Sounds like me... after finding out that he was...

    Sounds like me... after finding out that he was on porn websites and confronted him... said he was wrong.. wouldn't do it anymore... by the way... we don't have sex much at all... which sucks. But,...
  14. Question: Unhappy marriage.

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    When you find the answer, please let me know. ...

    When you find the answer, please let me know. Been married 20 years to a controlling husband. But, I am finally standing up to him when he gets mad that I go out with my friends and am there for...
  15. Question: Son may be gay

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    THANK YOU everyone that responded... You are all...

    THANK YOU everyone that responded... You are all right... let him come to me. It's very nice to know that people care about people still. Kudos to all... I'll keep u informed.
  16. Question: Sexually Frustrated

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    I have been there and still have issues, but I...

    I have been there and still have issues, but I confronted him and we did go to counseling once, in which he said he would do better... We are slowly, after 20 years, trying to work on it, but it is a...
  17. Question: Son may be gay

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    Son may be gay

    What are the signs of a 17 year old boy being gay... He's not had a girlfriend since puberty, dresses modern... cares about the way he looks and dresses... took acting/modeling classes... totally...
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    Don't know how old you are, but enjoy it while it...

    Don't know how old you are, but enjoy it while it last... let him do the work
  19. Question: As an administrator

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    As an administrator

    How do I look up what other users are looking up on my computer? Without going to tools and privacy... how can I see what they are looking up? I know there is a way... just need to know the...
  20. Friend wanting to get married.children don't aprove

    Ok, kids are 14, 17 and 23... Mom's been divorced over a year. Found a man that loves her dearly, just made mom aware that kid's were demanding too much. They don't want her to date or marry until...
  21. Question: My husband is fast!

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    Look him in the eyes... say.. baby... we are in...

    Look him in the eyes... say.. baby... we are in this together... so focus on me and then I will focus on you... It's totally not all about intercourse... It's about making each other......
  22. Question: Pornography

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    Are you my sister?? In the same boat or what? My...

    Are you my sister?? In the same boat or what? My biggest question is why they hide it... Especially when I don't condemn it.. I only did when I first found out because it has been affecting our...
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    I thought it wasn't really a problem until I...

    I thought it wasn't really a problem until I confronted him again about it by showing him something he had looked up... told him I don't care if he does. Just don't deny it.
    Then, while being...
  24. Great for you dude... It takes... u... to make a...

    Great for you dude... It takes... u... to make a difference in your life!! And you go... you figured it out... when you love yourself, feel good about yourself, you will find the right person to...
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    If it's real... and you both need each other to...

    If it's real... and you both need each other to complete yourselves... and you know that you'll have to encounter other obsticales and you are ready to deal with that and know that you both want the...
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    Girl... it's not going to work. He is infatuated...

    Girl... it's not going to work. He is infatuated by the fact that you still carry a torch for him and him for you... That's normal when your life is moving on and you're trying to figure out if it's...
  27. Question: A Vibrators Life:

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    Lol... that was hilarious!

    Lol... that was hilarious!
  28. You Go Dude... im 43 Husband 52 And He's Just Now...

    You Go Dude... im 43 Husband 52 And He's Just Now Realizing That I Want More Than Once Every Other Month... you Give Me Hope...
    Just Enjoy Each Other... touching And Holding Are Just As Important...
  29. Question: Shy girl

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    Go slow... if this is her first time... you want...

    Go slow... if this is her first time... you want to make it magical... be so loving and caring and gentle... (if she decides she wants more)... if you take care of her... she will... learn what to do...
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    I didn't know we could until I experienced it for...

    I didn't know we could until I experienced it for myself... and wow... self LOVE is a good thing... you explore with yourself and find out what turns you on and what you need to climax... it's such a...
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    Ok you asked for it... first of all, there has to...

    Ok you asked for it... first of all, there has to be a physical attraction(thats a given) then... You 2 have to connect on a spiritual and academic level. Have the same interest, beliefs, want the...
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    You are very lucky that he can keep on keeping...

    You are very lucky that he can keep on keeping on... you go girl
  33. Question: Vibo or No Vibo?

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    Go to your local Spencers in the mall... They...

    Go to your local Spencers in the mall... They will not make u feel uncomfortable and they have a few to choose from... It took me 43 years to realize that I can pleasure myself... and not feel...
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    Well, you found out by "accident" just like me......

    Well, you found out by "accident" just like me... When confronted, he admitted it and said he would stop... and did... I think... now I can't check into what he's looking at because he has learned...
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    I thought it was supposed to be a turn on too......

    I thought it was supposed to be a turn on too... My husband left the room but when confronted.. he says he likes it... how do u get them to join in?
  36. Question: Total Role Reversal

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    [QUOTE=RaenieStar]So, my boy Sounds like my...

    [QUOTE=RaenieStar]So, my boy
    Sounds like my record... broken!! But you are younger and I've seen friends of my get their hair touched and be kissed and I wonder myself where that person is for...
  37. Why would your husband not want to see you pleasuring yourself?

    Twice in the last few days... once before and after being intimate with him... he walked out of the room after he got off and I was still playing with a toy??
    Then, tonight, he walk in on me... the...
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    Foreplay... use your hand to touch her.. all...

    Foreplay... use your hand to touch her.. all over... then find her g-spot with your hand... stimulate her and then you will not feel like intercourse is her only release. When I first experienced an...
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    If you really really love your husband... forgive...

    If you really really love your husband... forgive him. We all make mistakes and fall short of the glory of the Lord... He forgives us... so why should we not forgive our loves on earth? Try to move...
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    You've shown extremely strong emotions.and...

    You've shown extremely strong emotions.and admitted a very hard thing to admit and for people to accept... (which is wrong for people to judge you when you are down) But... now that you know you...
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    When you get your answer... maybe I'll get...

    When you get your answer... maybe I'll get mine... it's so hard to be completely honest with each other... someone will get hurt... but not letting it out is not fair to you... we only have one life...
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    Omg... jealousy is SO hurtful... WWJD?? Turn the...

    Omg... jealousy is SO hurtful... WWJD?? Turn the other cheek and be there for all of your friends and family... Be true to yourself.and you will come out on top. :}
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    Don't postpone the inevitable... When your kids...

    Don't postpone the inevitable... When your kids are young... they can recover from their parents spitting up... better than when they are older and have had to live through their parents not loving...
  44. Question: Unhappy in marriage

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    Be strong... and tell her... how u feel... maybe...

    Be strong... and tell her... how u feel... maybe she feels the same way... maybe something will spark a new love... You say you guys walk and talk... about what?? Open up... look up and know that our...
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    You opened up the truth... now step back... and...

    You opened up the truth... now step back... and let the adults handle THEIR situation and know that you are loved by both parents... Step back and breathe... and focus on you and your sibling... and...
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    I know what you mean... I HEAR you loud and...

    I know what you mean... I HEAR you loud and clear. It's not fair, but some advise for you... Think about you... look at yourself... love yourself... and make him notice you... make some changes to...
  47. Question: Was it OK to snoop?

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    You have to know for some reason (confirming your...

    You have to know for some reason (confirming your intuition) or what... if they give you reason to wonder... then wander through... If it helps you make the right decisions then it's worth it to know...
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    What 2 Do? After 20 Years?

    Been married 20 years... Husband doesn't care to have sex... I am 9 years younger than him... He choses to drink everyday before I get home from work... so my choice is to join him or ignore him. We...
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    It hurts... but let go! Nothing good will come...

    It hurts... but let go! Nothing good will come out of you staying, your heart will ache, your mind will wonder, and it totally SUCKS... Start thinking about you and what YOU can do for yourself...
  50. Question: Nothing is changing

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    The first thing you need to do is check into...

    The first thing you need to do is check into getting your child into a mother's day out program. Tell your husband that it's good for the child, which it is, then when you have a few hours, figure...
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