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Hey everyone, thank you for all your answers. I think I'm going to try a trade school or an apprenticeship program.

As for a job, I have one, but I'm looking for something with more hours.
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So I've been going to college since I was 19... I am now 21 and still in community college.

I feel that I am just simply not cut out for college... I mean, I skip classes all the time and because...

Hey Sneeze!

Don't do it my friend...

I recently got in contact with my ex (and yeah, what a year it has been) turns out she was home from school and I ran into her at xmas service at church....

So its been quite awhile since I last made a post... if you don't know my story, here's a quick review.

Dated ex for 2 years,
She goes away to college,
We do the long distance thing,
Don't last...

The thing that I've noticed is that my ex only gets my thoughts when I'm feeling lonely, upset, or a little depressed... she only gets me when I'm feeling my worst. And that is what keeps me going......

Last time I talked to her was in march, during spring break...

Funny thing is... I feel fine now... hungover, but fine.

I don't expect a response, in fact I'm just going to pretend I never...

Its 4AM... I'm drunk and I sent my ex a text... even out of it, I regret it... I wish so bad that there wasn't a break in the conversation tonight to give me the time to text "i miss you" to my ex......

I find that advertising myself as an @ss gets the job done :).

I may seem like a jerk at first, but after a couple conversations, I'm the nicest guy in the world.

So its been 6-7 months? Since the break-up... last contact was during spring break... had a nice 3 hour talk over pie, it felt like I was over her... and I really think I am. But recently I've been...

Ignore it... she's obviously the immature one...

Helps a lot, I recently went back and read what I wrote... wow, wasn't I an angry westy. However, I've come a long way since then and at this point I don't think I couldn't care less about the whole...

Yeah, your friend is right, I would have expected a chain text if it were something "funny"... and of course, no response is necessary for those, lol.

Oh... you're one of those people.

Its insane how they try to turn it around to make us feel like the bad guy... we do what we must to move on, and all they care about is themselves. Don't respond, you know the deal, more games. The...

Don't you wish you hadn't "come across" those emails?

I used to snoop too when my ex first kicked me to the curb, and yeah, I found slutty things too, gave me a reason to be disgusted with her for...

That's just part of the risk of being in a relationship... my ex said things that you said all the time, that she is 150% loyal and whatnot, then she went away to college, and soon after left me for...

Seems to me like she's poking the bear... she wants you to respond, its her sick little game, let her play it without you. Good on you coming here before you even thought about responding.

If you...

I have to spread the love a little more, but goodness man... the advice from you is immaculate. Keep it up.

*sniff, sniff* creepy troll?

Way to pick up on things! I wish I had a gut feeling... lol. But yeah, like starty said, if you guys are usually in contact throughout the day, via text or whatever... and now she isn't, then talk to...

I don't think you should settle for anything less than what you want... there will be things you'll learn about anyone that you may not like, but if the good outweighs the bad it never hurts to give...

I feel the same way... NC since January... and because of my current douchebag discovery, my thoughts of "i want her back" and "how could she do this", have turned to "well, she wants to be seen with...

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I may be beaten for this, but, it made my day... finally got up the nerve to check out what my ex's new BF looks like, mind you, she started seeing him almost immediately after she broke up with...

Ignore everything that has to do with your ex... including her family... I loved my ex's family a lot, they were great to me and we got along very very well, and it sucks that I don't get to see them...

Not really having any problems myself, just waking up in the morning... but as soon as I get out of bed, I'm totally fine... its crazy, the power of starting the day!

You only think they move on so easily because you only see what they show you... chances are, they've all missed you, and were also hurt.

Id give you another greenie, but I cant... on a roll today Rome.

Are you still in contact with him? Have you really come to terms with the fact that you won't be with him again? These things are crucial to moving on. Its been about 4 months since my ex and I split...

Yeah, I like booze and anything you can eat from a bar, so I'm down...

Anyway, is this freaking you out? I bet its not... I think I would feel like its no big deal at all, who cares if you made...

May have been the "drunken IM" ignore it, don't let it get to you as how he feels about anything is meaningless at this point.

Probably thought it would make you crack and contact him, we know...

Thanks a lot Jpm... this is what I'm talking about when I say I love AMHD... always someone with an answer that will make you feel loads better... I guess I just kind of forget that I'm not the only...

Can't sleep tonight... its 4AM... its been about 4 months NC... and I'm still having these days/nights... shouldn't I be better by now... I know I've made a lot of progress, and I'm happy with things...

I'm sorry jilted but this sounds like typical high-school-girl drama. I don't remember how old you are or if you even mentioned it, but I don't picture you in high school (maybe you are, I dunno)....

I haven't read the responses or anything and I'm sure these wonderful people have already convinced you that it's a bad idea... because it is a bad idea... no good can come from it.

However, if...

I've learned that every time you make contact, you're tempted to make more contact. Like tempted more than you were before, I would say after about 3 weeks of absolute no contact, it becomes a...

Word... every email/text I sent, I immediately regretted it after... its crazy how we try to convince ourselves that any good can come from it. "maybe if im sweet and nice, it'll make her think about...

I sat down with my ex before she left (we also had an LDR) and I told her that I think it would be best if we didn't talk to each other for awhile, she respected it very well. She had a new BF almost...

Yeah, I think you're right Sneeze... regardless, I was going to wait to see if my feelings towards this idea would change, but its been a week, and I still just want to. Like a "what the hell" sort...

Lol, that's actually sneezy graduating in a week... I have a couple more years to go... we go to different schools across the country, but she lives where I am. And where I go to school. So she'd be...

I've kind of been feeling the need to contact my ex. Hear me out first, lol. Its just that, I don't want her anymore, we couldn't work if we got back together and I don't even think I want to. But I...

Uncle Ben ftw. / Stan Lee

Just like a woman...

What? Has it been like 4 days and over 400 posts... goodness, we love each other way too much. I didn't go back and read everything but that "I & A" thing is pretty funny kp.

And yeah, don't...

Nicole... you're going to feel like crap for awhile. Break-ups are one of the hardest things to deal with, especially if you thought you had something special. Its been like 4 months or something for...

Why would I be wearing white! A white tux... please.

Wow... that says it all right there... my ex still thinks that I'm "one of the most important people in her life"... then why would she leave me?

I know all about checking their email and Facebook, as I have passwords and everything. She knows this, and I think she didn't change them on purpose... I think maybe her way of keeping me...

I had the same thoughts when I met with my ex... "she looked better when she was with me" seriously, not to sound shallow... but her boobs were smaller... lol.

Drive? Haha, I hope that's a joke... girls don't like a whole game of golf, well, I think I would marry the first girl I met that did.