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Thanks so much to you all, you're lovely.

I'm far too insecure for my own good, I keep looking at the negative (am I not enough? Des he feel there's something missing? ) but instead I should focus...

Well it's all OK between us, things are as lovely as ever, but am still kind of feeling confused about things... if he can say that he wants to marry me, that he's fallen for me etc, why does he not...

You might be idealising your ex simply because your relationship with your current partner isn't what you want as it stands. You need to communicate more with your current partner, if only simply for...

It's sad to see a relationship go bad, but you have to live for today, not yesterday or tomorrow... today. Would you want anything to do with this man if you met him at a party tonight? Would you let...

So true, think it's a common trap for girls to fall into, I really hate it in myself although up until now I think I've been relatively OK... it's more when I feel insecure that it gets the better of...

You're so right, I am being a bit of a princess about the whole thing. I think it stems a bit from the fact he can be a bit non committal about a lot of things, so this is yet another one to add to...

He keeps asking if I'm OK, I need a plan of action to get me through the day! Aaaargh...

I think you need to show him that you're independent, strong, and can stand on your own two feet. It's possible that at the moment he sees that his commitment to you is in his control and that he is...

I think from a woman's point of view it's about getting that emotional bond back and then from there sex becomes a physical demonstration of that bond - show that you're always receptive to her...

Last night my boyfriend of 9months and I were kissing and hugging goodbye when I blurted out... with no warning from my brain...

"I really love you, you're lovely". (I think I got my words...

Thanks, you're right, I think when he's distant I always take it very personally, it's been so good over the last week as I decided to just get on with enjoying my own life but then today I've just...

More help needed... he's been really attentive until yesterday when he seemed very down, said he was just hating Monday but essentially it means whenever he's in a bad mood he drags me down with him....

It's true, your personal thoughts and feelings are YOURS and no-one else's - you are in control. Be polite, be light-hearted, be pleasant. If you feel uncomfortable with a subject matter, change the...

Well, he obvioulsly feels something, but without wanting to judge him too harshly, he may be saying what he thinks you need to hear if he's only after one thing... BUT I don't know him so that might...

He is not married, they did live together though.

He left her fundamentally because he had feelings for me (he did not cheat on her physically with me). We went away on a break with work and...

Thanks a lot for all your help.

SPoke to him last night and made my feelings clear about the sex issue, he was really respectful and said he didn't want to pressure me.

We discussed how he was...

Yeah, it's so difficult to walk away though, really get on well, have always been good friends and love being with each other.

He's 30, 6 years older than me.

I don't want to lose him, but at...

You are so right, it's so obvious really when I think about it. Don't think he's being malicious but I am being a bit of a bandage for his wounds.

He got really worried on Sat night that I'd met...

Since Firday he has been really attentive, sending me lovely messsages and generally being very nice. On sat he said he loved me and he said yesterday that he didn't want to lose me.

BUT he has...

Thanks so much for your advice, I took it and basically went along with good hummour and said that I didn't want to be an added pressure for him and that he should take his time with things. He said...

Thanks so much all very wise words. I am going for coffee with him this lunchtime, any words of advice? Want to explain to him that I don't want things to be too intense and full on for him... Is...

Do you think he would be going back to his ex for the right reasons?

I have been seeing a guy for about 3 or 4 months after he left his girlfriend of 10years to be with me. He now is saying that the guilt of what he's done has caught up with him and he's too down to...

I know what you mean, there is a definite rebound issue here, although I did like him before and have known him for 3 years. I am having counselling which helps. She advised me about looking for what...

Hi, please help.

I have been seeing my current boyfriend for about three months, it's been very intesnse, especially as we work together and he left his girlfriend of 10years to be with me. I had...