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life1973happened, thank you so much for your warm kind words. I know what you are saying and I am trying to be strong. I am just so in pain all over again, I miss her so much and want her back so...

Listen everyone, I posted this cause I am feeling bad about my ex STILL. The holiday time is making it even worse, why is it that all my emotions are put aside from what I posted and I get the whole...

I see what you all are saying, it is not like that though. We are just dating. It is more of just casual since I told her I am trying to get over a bad breakup. She is aware of this so we have just...

Hey everyone, sorry to be such a complainer but is it just me or is everyone else feeling the same way about being way in the DUMPS cause of the time of the year with the holidays and all? I am...

Mine will be 2 months tomorrow. I have had ZERO contact with her. She however had tried to contact me up until 5 weeks ago. I would not reply to any of her messages. I am still doing crappy. I have...

Yeah she didn't have to send her friend over. That was rude. She could have just sat down in the dining room. Seems she is just playing games and that is just wrong.

Well since you got no reply at all, I would send one more message and say something along the lines of "you could have at least aknowledged I contacted you, I mean you know I am hurting and it is...

Hey man, I know how you feel. It sucks. If I were you I would really just disappear. Listen, I know you don't want to hear it. I feel your pain. My ex has done things I would have never believed, but...

Sorry everyone, I am just upset again. This is not healthy for me. I hope everyone is at least having a good Thanksgiving with family and friends. I am just feel sorry for myself and sad :(

Hey all, I was just sitting here thinking about how horrible this is to be the Holiday and not be with her. I am sure she is not thinking this way, I wish I wasn't. I hate that I can't seem to get...

Hey Madaman, I am doing OK with dating I guess. I know I let the memories creep up when I am with others, but that is normal I think. I just hope I am not being too awful to anyone. I miss my...

Hey all, I just wanted to talk for a bit. I have been doing so well. I have had NC for a month now. Although it has only been 2 weeks since she tried to contact me last which I didn't reply. I have...

First let me say I am sorry for your pain, I actually am feeling something similar through my ex. She is cruel and mean. I can't believe she can be so cold to. Anyway just wanted to comment on you...

Hey everyone, just wanted to say I understand everyone's problem with someone who cheats. I have already had to deal with this for years on end. Just hard to hear it all over again especially when I...

Yes I cheated! I guess I am getting what I deserve then. Seems like I have been posting for the wrong reasons. I am hurting again pretty bad. This has been like this for me for 3 1/2 months. Guess I...

I didn't really keep her hanging on for 2 years ,I wanted us to heal and explore being together without the drama of being sneaky and cheating. I already feel bad enough... Man I seem to really bring...

No we broke up, this is crazy stuff that I just found out about. I want nothing to do with her!







You took that wrong. I was talking in her person, like she thinks my exwife has some...

It is something that is real hard to swallow, I am so freaked out. How could I have been so stupid? I can't even bring myself to say anything to her about it. My exwife is going crazy. She got...

Yes I do understand, I still feel guilty. I am so hurt with everything!! I feel like such a waste.

Yes that was what the phone call was about today. She knows now. It hurts to think that this is how someone says they love you and want to be with you and then play you right under your nose. I am...

OMG, this is so horrible. I feel like the biggest sucker on the face of the earth. This is too horrbile to even think of. I am such a idiot.

Ok, here we go everyone...

I just got off the phone from my exwife, she wanted to talk to me about something that had been bothering her for a few weeks ever since I told her my exgf knew that I...

I know how you feel man, you are right you can't make her want to be with you. The only thing you can do is to move on and make a life for yourself. If she wants to come back she will do anything it...

Hey Needofhelp, I am trying to stay strong. I do know however it is not all her fault. I had my mistakes I made to make the relationship breakup, however I would have not taken it to this extreme its...

needofhelp, I know your pain man. It has been 3 weeks since I have had reply contact with my ex. Her last text was 4 days ago and I had not replyed to any of them for a week and a half. She hurt me...

Hey Kia, I know how you feel. I also think about how she had sex with me and how she can be doing whatever she is doing now. It drives me up the wall!! I feel like such a doormat. However I don't...

Thanks Smoothy, I am doing just that. It hurts still every day though, I still just can't believe it you know? I just wish I was stronger :(. 2 days since her last text. I really miss and love her so...

I know exactly how you feel, I am in the same situation almost exactly. I am still hurting over it all. I am sorry you are dealing with the same thing. All I can say is NC is the only thing you can...

Thank you Kanicky73, I agree and my love is way too blind I think. I don't want to be with someone that is mean and nasty like that. Its just like you said, its been a long time is all, and she...

Hey you all, thank you for your kind words. I do understand what you are saying. I really do, its just hard. I really do try to be positive, and keep busy with things. I just lose it more often than...

Thank you firefly, I am just so upset. I wish she would just want to be back together. I would give anything to be back together and happy. I guess I am just fooling myself to ever think she ever...

What is wrong with me? Why am I letting this get to me so much? I thought I was doing well, now I am just doing crappy again. I love her and miss her so much, I feel like such a sap!! I am disgusted...

kanicky73, little firefly, I appreciate you alls kind words. I am trying to stay strong. Since you all said she is just wanting to get a response out of me and make me upset. I just don't know what...

I feel you %100 man, I am in almost the same situation. I am so sad once again. I am sure she is just fine. That's really great for her, but hurts me so bad.

I guess I am not as well off as I thought I was. From my thread got a text sos, I have fallen back into complete chaos. I am a basketcase. Man I wish I would have not fallen so hard for this girl. I...

I know :( I am trying so hard to stay strong but I am hurting so bad with her hurtful words. How can someone be so cruel?

Ok, now I am really depressed. I need some real opinions now. I still have not broken NC and will not answer her calls or her texts. She has called 5 times today and sent this text "whatever! ur a...

Firefly, I so know what you mean. My ex I am sure is making her new boyfriend real happy and vice versa. It hurts to know end since it was so easy and fast for her to do this to me. Even after she...

Sean23, man listen I am in a similar situation. I feel for you man. I really do. It is so hard to try to understand why our partners turn into someone completely different. I have no idea who my exgf...

Ok so more texts today, and 6 or 7 calls. I didn't answer any of them. It was real mean the way she was talking. Telling me I am not being a man to give her an answer. Not replying to texts. Saying...

I found all those get-your-ex-back ebooks. I am so sappy that I got them all. Read every word in everyone of them. It made me feel better for a short time but it didn't last. They all have real good...

I am so happy for you, I am glad it worked out for at least someone. I wish I could think that way. I am so sad that this is happening to me I feel lost out at sea. I also know about the empty bed...

kuulski, thanks I appreciate your words. I wish I could change my number, however it is a company phone and would be A lot of trouble. I have removed all contact info and stuff so I don't get...

madaman, hey man sorry didn't mean to offend you. I am just feeling real sorry for myself is all. I know what you are saying, didn't mean it that way. I am just confused and don't know how to...

I know exactly how you feel. I am hurting so bad to. I was getting better and now feel like I am back at square 1 even though I won't reply to her. I am even dating and keeping busy, but I still...

Thanks for you all replying, let me just say I love the cat, but it is not about the cat. This is so hurtful I can't even think. I know I am getting all emotional once again. I was doing so well,...

Hey man, I know EXACTLY how you are feeling. My relationship is so screwed and I am hurt all over again. Its been 3 months and I really thought I was getting better, until I get random texts that are...

I just got another text. Word for word says "I know you hate me but will you please tell me yes or no about the cat so I can do something about it"

I am devistated every time she sends me a...

PLEASE HELP!! What do I say?? How do I handle this??

Listen everyone I need some help. I got a text from my ex, its been 12 days since we had any contact. I have kept NC in place. I am so confused. She before was telling me she doesn't know what she...