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    Hi Richard. I have no help for you, but have you...

    Hi Richard. I have no help for you, but have you headed over to Macfixit? Someone will definitely be able to troubleshoot with you over there. I'm having airport problems with my powerbook and...
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    Cancer patients are not given cannabis if...

    Cancer patients are not given cannabis if requested, they're prescribed specific, highly-controlled doses of a cannabinoid if the treating Oncologist feels it's warranted, and if the patient has no...
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    You're actually not talking about "precum" but...

    You're actually not talking about "precum" but after ejaculation, and he was completely outside your vagina? I'm no doctor, but it's hard enough for sperm to penetrate the cervix when they're shot...
  4. Question: Quitting smoking

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    First of all, congratulations! Secondly,...

    First of all, congratulations!

    Secondly, severe night sweats every single night this far into abstinence isn't unheard of, but I'm going to encourage you to talk to your doctor. Maybe a...
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    Are you being physically, emotionally, or...

    Are you being physically, emotionally, or mentally abused or neglected? Do you feel unsafe? Are you feeling ashamed of your mom? Yes, it is your home, too (but not your home solely), and we hear you...
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    beth911, what grade are you in? You mentioned...

    beth911, what grade are you in? You mentioned school. Do they have counselors there? I suggest going to see one. Meantime, how are your grades doing through all this? How is your mental and emotional...
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    None of that's being disputed, but how is it...

    None of that's being disputed, but how is it helping to support this woman right now? She's made it clear she feels betrayed. Right now this woman is in crisis and she's reaching out for support. The...
  8. Question: Is it normal?

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    Normal is an individual thing, and it sounds as...

    Normal is an individual thing, and it sounds as though you know exactly what your personal "normal" is! Congratulations on hearing your own voice louder than others when it comes to your body and...
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    After N0Help4U's rating response I think I see...

    After N0Help4U's rating response I think I see the confusion.

    So just a disclaimer that everything I'm posting below is not the only scenario, and nothing is absolute, and everyone is an...
  10. Question: Toxic shame

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    Thank you, and I type like a freak so it really...

    Thank you, and I type like a freak so it really didn't take long. Stream of thought and all that. It's such a constant part of my learning process that I think it's all just there ready to spill out...
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    The biggest challenge for me, and subsequently...

    The biggest challenge for me, and subsequently for many of my clients, was to step outside of the warm and comfy whirlpool of the victim/martyr mindset. That takes nads and a commitment to standing...
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    Great advice from labman, and the book he...

    Great advice from labman, and the book he suggests, Raising Your Dog with the Monks of New Skete, really helped me with one of my pups.
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    I think it's safe to say we're urging you to take...

    I think it's safe to say we're urging you to take her to your vet ASAP. Not planning or scheduling, but immediately. Pounds, unfortunately, do not always have the knowledge or ethics to give adequate...
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    Great responses. Just wanted to add that boys...

    Great responses. Just wanted to add that boys discover how to give themselves orgasms first, and it shouldn't be any different for girls, but all too often is. If you don't know what is most...
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    Hi Debbie, First off, congratulations to you...

    Hi Debbie,

    First off, congratulations to you and your husband on deciding to do step-downs off methadone. It would be helpful to know what your maintenance dose was and for how long. You mentioned...
  16. Question: Toxic shame

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    If memory serves, this was popularized by...

    If memory serves, this was popularized by Bradshaw. It's incorporated into most spirituality-based recovery curricula. Also, Scott Peck's assertion that toxic shame for the neurotic is self-directed...
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    I'm only a dog owner, but I'm going to assume you...

    I'm only a dog owner, but I'm going to assume you have leash laws where you live. If your dog was secure I'm not sure how the male got access to her.

    If you're not planning on breeding her...
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    Calling her vet is a really good idea. Explain...

    Calling her vet is a really good idea. Explain his symptoms and I'm sure they'll take it from there.
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    You've made a dangerously ill-informed...

    You've made a dangerously ill-informed assumption. There is absolutely nothing in my response that indicates in any way I'm suggesting this woman stay, leave, or make suppositions about motivation,...
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    Not only does the text of that disagreement make...

    Not only does the text of that disagreement make no sense (or reference to anything specific), but are you saying that a professional recommendation to visit the largest and most respected...
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    GAMMA would be a great group for your husband. ...

    GAMMA would be a great group for your husband.

    For you, I strongly recommend you start here to find some vital, knowledgeable support with this issue. Getting subjective random online opinions...
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    There's no such thing as too much sharing in a...

    There's no such thing as too much sharing in a healthy relationship. There is such a thing as holding someone's words or feelings for ransom, and that's an adversarial stance that needs to be dealt...
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    I make it a point not to offer subjective (or...

    I make it a point not to offer subjective (or transference) answers to anyone, but in this case...

    RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG!!!

    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE stop and listen to your gut. You wouldn't...
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    I'm going to weigh in here one last time in hopes...

    I'm going to weigh in here one last time in hopes it will make things a little less confusing/more clear... or I'll just make it worse!

    The majority of women (but not all) have an involuntary...
  25. Question: Sex/hair issues

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    I do understand the perfection thing. But in the...

    I do understand the perfection thing. But in the end that's really not what your partner is going to care about, or what's going to turn him on. What's going to turn him on is how turned on you are....
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    Hi Confused, As I mentioned in my last post,...

    Hi Confused,

    As I mentioned in my last post, you might try--through direct and honest communication with your partner--finding a solution by exploring the possibility of multiple orgasm.

    Find...
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    I know it's a very popular assumption that...

    I know it's a very popular assumption that marijuana contains no physiologically addictive components; this is not the case. The NIH cites this article and, while not comprehensive, suffice it to say...
  28. Question: Is he using?

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    Hi, I don't envy your situation and I'm sorry...

    Hi,

    I don't envy your situation and I'm sorry you and your family--and your brother--are going through this.

    I've worked with literally thousands of addicts as well as family members, and while...
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    I'm highlighting and condensing some of your...

    I'm highlighting and condensing some of your quote because the whole thing is throwing up red flags, especially when you look at the extremes of behavior and messages. This sounds like a...
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    It's got nothing to do with stupidity, but about...

    It's got nothing to do with stupidity, but about how much you're willing to delude yourself, and it sounds as though you've already answered that question. Life is all about choices, and you're...
  31. I thought pure tobacco wasn't as addicting, too....

    I thought pure tobacco wasn't as addicting, too. I had a much harder time quitting pure tobacco than I did commercial, chemically-laden tobacco, I think because it has an undiluted supply of...
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    Actually, most public libraries have computers...

    Actually, most public libraries have computers with internet access.

    Most churches and libraries carry resource pamphlets for whatever city you're in, since they encounter and serve a lot of...
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    Women are physically capable of having nearly...

    Women are physically capable of having nearly unlimited back-to-back multiple orgasms. Of course, not all do. However, some women become hypersensitive to touch after they orgasm, and--not knowing...
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    If you had agreed to a monogamous relationship,...

    If you had agreed to a monogamous relationship, then I'm sorry you're having to go through the emotional shock and aftermath of experiencing that.

    Also, it is almost inevitable that we take things...
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    Okay, so this is what I think I'm reading from...

    Okay, so this is what I think I'm reading from your original post:


    I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 23. We have a little girl and another on the way. About eight months ago, I found a text on his...
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    Thank you thank you thank you!

    Thank you thank you thank you!
  37. Question: Gassy and bloated

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    Quick preliminary questions: Have you...

    Quick preliminary questions:

    Have you consulted with your ob?

    Have you isolated foods (one thing at a time only) to see if you can determine cause? (Combining foods can be tricky.)

    Are you...
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    Hi, Do you know when you ovulate? Do you know...

    Hi,

    Do you know when you ovulate? Do you know how to determine your ovulation? Some people vary quite a bit.

    Here's a site to learn about determining your ovulation, just in case you haven't...
  39. Question: Promoting healing

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    I just wanted to add that Traumeel also comes in...

    I just wanted to add that Traumeel also comes in a tincture which is taken under the tongue. My nephew takes it before practices and games and it's been reducing the extent and duration of bruising....
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    Hi, Last year when I filed my taxes, the CPA...

    Hi,

    Last year when I filed my taxes, the CPA said I could not claim mileage from my home office to various sites, only between sites. Do I understand correctly that I can indeed claim mileage from...
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