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My child has no Business being in a dif country.. Only reason he was allowed to move was because hse got married. Im sorry for wanting to be a father to my son. She has played every trick in the...

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She met a man in a strip club 15 years her elder
They married 5 months later.
When she got her status she moved there
She stuc around for 7 months and now lives on her own.

Umm...

Ok Im not to sure where to start so ill just get to the main part,

My sons mother got my signature under false pretences. She needed my signature in order to move to the states. She started to...

Miss understnading, cause my ex used one of her friends acount to check up on this girl . But this girl kind of knows.. Anyway.. I had this girl I'm tlk to block her already.. Im curious as to why...

I can't go through that again, so I will never get together with her again. I just don't want to deal with her trying if that is what all of this stuff has been leading too

Lol, and me having a son with her doesn't change much. Your right I'm still her back up plan, unless you think dif.. if so explain

That's how I feel, I just want to be friends with her for our son. But her friends have been asking some weird things, like if I would ever get back with her, if her and I are going to have any more...

Well I do have a son with her

So if things are not good she then gets curious?

Ok in a nut shell, I have had NC literally since July 2007. Over the time she has pulled stunts, got married after 5 months of our split. Things have been rough with her new hubby apparently lol. ...

Well, there has been a lot of ups and dwns due to the whole time we have been in a custody case because she is moving my son to be with a 40yr old guy she cheated on me with and married 5 months...

Fair enough. But should I not help her, if she needs it. She is my sons mother. Im not talking about getting back with her, just wanting to keep my son with me by helping her get out of a bad...

Well even more so , give him space! And why would you want to stay friends when it is clear you still have feelings. NC is the best way to go. If he wants you back he knows where to find you.

No contact going on a year and 3 months.

I know my ex very well, and I just can't shake the feeling she is sending me cries for help..

Ps and I'm not crazy

And still no one has answered my questions?


My question to people is what should I do?
After a year of LDR they got married after 5 months of knowing each, and he is acting like this, when they...

I was very calm when I talked to her, And my son said he pushed her to the ground. For me my son does not need to see that, or hear what this man says to his mother! She knows it is not the best...

Oh I was completely fine. And I'm not only basing it on what her friends say. Remember this guy picked up a girl in a strip club who was 15 years younger, lives across the country, helped his new...

No, we are coming to a settlement by the 24 of oct. The judge told me she would be allowed to move because she married a guy who lives across the country. So I'm up in they air about moving there. ...

Ok first off. Text is always a sure fire way to annoy a guy. I haven't read all of these posts, but me being a guy, when a girl is hitting me up non stop even if I want to be with her or not, to me...

I don't want her to move with my son. And I know with out a doubt there marriage isn't going to last long. My son is being put in a situation that she knows isn't any good but I think she is in a...

So I was in my lawyers office and my ex was there because we had a meeting about custody. Anyway it has been little over a year with NC and I have not Broken in once. Well I spoke for about 23...

Anything else?

Currently she has interim custody and my access is set up, but I have always asked to see my son more and she just uses him as a pawn to hurt me. I just hope she wakes up and realizes our son needs...

Opran, Funny your not the only one to tell me that. As for HPJN new trial? Lol are you well versed in the legal system in anyway shape or form? Anyway, I have done everything I can do, it is up to...

Ahh Tal how are you.

As for hpjn I am just living my life. Why I care if she hates me. I want my son to have to parents that can work together to benefit our son.

If she hates me I will...

Why would she be so angry though.. some people say it is cause she still cares, I just want to be civil with her. How can I get threw to her.

I'm in court right now... awaiting the answer of her leaving with myson.

Ok so the mother of my son and I broke up a little bit over a year ago. She has done nothing but try and hurt me at every turn. She cheated on me with this old guy who she then got married too 5...

Ok a lot of stuff has gone down, still have had Zero contact since August. I don't really want to get into everything, LOL just the people who know my story could you please give me a " hang in...

Listen champ its happen to me. I think it might of happen to every guy at some point. Whether too much whiskey or nerves. I know one time there was this girl that I wanted to have the best sex...

It could also mean you might not be on his level of thinking for the relationship aspect. Although what DBA says holds some truth it isn't every thing. I do agree with the above comment but it...

Well ill agree with that I'm not over her, its been only 6months from a life time. As for giving me hope, no sir you coudlnt be more wrong. Her asking me gives me pleasure in the fact that soon...

OK for those who know my story, its been 6 months since my sons mother and I split. She cheated and is still with the a lot older man that she cheated with. It is a long distace thing so they only...

You don't need any one but you. You shouldn't NEED anyone..

Since it wants me to spread the rep, sorry tal, but I agree with Tal, do you really need to be with some one to make you happy, Shouldn't you be happy by yourself

When I wrote this I was preety upset. Still from cooling down it still bothers me that she thinks this kind of behaviour is acceptable. I understand she has the right to be happy and I'm happy for...

I am going threw legal proceedings and believe it or not I'm a amazing father who works hard. My sons mother is just a bit out there, and I loose at every turn

As a father you basically have no rights

I already have thought about moving. But that is basically moving across the country..

Who gets married after 6 months tali, what kind of person says to me Ask me to marry you then a week later she is with this man, I just don't get it.

Im fighting for custody, but it just seems I lose at every corner. It is troublesom to me that she just wants me out of her life completely and wants to take my son to go and be with this man. I...

Well its been awhile, but my ex is getting married to the man she left me for in 2 weeks. She has known him for 6 months. She cheated on me with this man. She has only seen him 2 times a month...

Right now there is a temporary order, that she has custody until trial. Also I used to see my son 5-6-7 times a week and when she met this other man she denied me all access. I had to get a order...

My ex and I split in Aug of this year 2007, now 2008 but a week after we split she had cheated on me and now plans on moving to Florida with our son. IM not having this non sense. How easy is it...

You know I don't know your situation BUT WHAT IS WRONG with him wanting to see his child more. What is wrong with people now a days. And guess what get a job! Or better yet give him custody of...

Im not going to hate on you for cheating. But you need to figure yourself out because it is clear you have issues if you can do that to someone you claim to love. Im not saying you don't love him,...

You should have nothing to say to her. She is engaged and doesn't even care how you feel about it. Selfish. Im sorry she doesn't care about the last 6 years. Dude you can do better. Trust me,...

Wow man, umm I don't know about most but your story is basically like mine. You will get over it trust me. I did, my ex is supposed to be married to a man 15 years older then her in the end of feb....

NC is closing the door. Wait and see for what? For you to look helpless and needy. The hell with that start being you brother, start being a man and do your thing. No one is worth more then your...