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    My mom met her new husband (she's 58, he 72) at a...

    My mom met her new husband (she's 58, he 72) at a "parents without partners" dance. So I'd say any sort of "dances" in you town, like a VFW, Masonic lodge, Seniors center, etc. seem to be good...
  2. I'd be very cautious. He says "he doesn't know...

    I'd be very cautious. He says "he doesn't know how to break up with her"? He knew how to dump you so how couldn't he know how to dump her. It sounds like he might be playing you and just trying to...
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    Thanks everyone. An update. He texted me to say...

    Thanks everyone. An update. He texted me to say he's sorry too and he was really mad, he just needs time to cool down. We're going to discuss why we're arguing so much when he gets back. Well, I...
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    Thanks guys. Its just so frustrating cause he'll...

    Thanks guys. Its just so frustrating cause he'll just shutdown and stop communicating. Well, I just called and left a message and explained myself and told him I hope he's having a good time. ...
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    Fight with boyfriend

    Ok, so my boyfriend and I of almost 4 years got in a fight Saturday morning. We hung out Friday night and everything was great. Then Saturday morning I asked him if he was coming back over to my...
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    I was with my boyfriend for almost a year before...

    I was with my boyfriend for almost a year before he said he loved me. It drove me crazy!! Like JBeaucaire said, the whole time he was showing me that he did by his actions (being attentive,...
  7. Kp2171 - I got to spread the love so I can't give...

    Kp2171 - I got to spread the love so I can't give you a greenie, but MY GOD! I'm printing that post out and posting it on my fridge for my boyfriend to read. Now that's how you treat a lady!
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    Dani - If it make you feel better, when I was...

    Dani - If it make you feel better, when I was younger I was with a guy for 3 years and one day out of the blue I just broke up with him. Literally within 2 hours, I was thinking "oh, god, what have...
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    Depends of a lot of factors. Age, level of...

    Depends of a lot of factors. Age, level of commitment in their relationship, etc. If the person cheated in their past when they were young and in a casual relationship, I wouldn't assume anything. ...
  10. Question: Age difference

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    Totally agree with confused25. I started dating...

    Totally agree with confused25. I started dating my current boyfriend when he was 21 and I was 26 and while yes, there were differences in certain aspects in maturity, I never had an issue with him...
  11. Question: Should I .

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    What's your logic? I haven't read anything in...

    What's your logic? I haven't read anything in your quotes that equate to logic. They're just your opinions or feelings. That's what this whole site is about... opinions.

    It sounds to me like...
  12. He could mean you're so easy-going, easy to talk...

    He could mean you're so easy-going, easy to talk to, etc. Which are great! Or he could mean you're easy to wrap around my little finger and do whatever I want you to do. Which is bad! If he...
  13. Question: Should I .

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    Of course that's not what I'm saying. But you're...

    Of course that's not what I'm saying. But you're saying you want to hear everyone's negative and positive points but every time someone gives you a negative point you dismiss it. So, if you don't...
  14. Question: Should I .

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    Well, it seems like you've already made up your...

    Well, it seems like you've already made up your mind. Why are you asking then? If you're not uncertain about the age thing nor the friend's sister thing, then what are you uncertain about?

    And...
  15. Question: Should I .

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    Where do you live? If its not illegal there, it...

    Where do you live? If its not illegal there, it should be. Yes, look back through history and people were getting married and having sex at 14. That was when the average lifespan of people was 30...
  16. Question: Should I .

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    No way. Don't do it! I don't care how mature...

    No way. Don't do it! I don't care how mature she seems or how much she says she wants it, don't do it! She's way too young. Is it worth going to jail for? I don't think so. Find someone your...
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    Don't kill yourself thinking about the "what...

    Don't kill yourself thinking about the "what ifs". What if she called me? What if I said this? etc. Think about the now. She's gone. You're still here and you're managing to still live. Keep up...
  18. Question: Dating Problems

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    If I'm understanding you, you're asking for...

    If I'm understanding you, you're asking for advice on how to cheat on your girlfriend ("woman") with another woman? If so, I can't give you any help here other than its probably time to breakup with...
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    I'm not going to break up with someone over a...

    I'm not going to break up with someone over a month of bad sex. And as for his paycheck, I couldn't care less about that. I can make my own money. I'm just wondering if anyone has any suggestions...
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    He's 26. I'm 30. It really is the insecurity I...

    He's 26. I'm 30. It really is the insecurity I feel. Everything else in the relationship lately has been great and we cuddle, kiss, etc. Its just the second I start to feel insecure I flip out...
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    My boyfriend sex drive at low

    So, my boyfriend and I have been together nearly four years (with a 2 month "hiatus" last summer that we worked through). For the most part, we've had a pretty good relationship. Never had any...
  22. Question: Very Confused!

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    He has a girlfriend now. He doesn't want to be...

    He has a girlfriend now. He doesn't want to be bothered. Just leave him alone. Anything more you do we'll just make you look stupid.
  23. My bf's been sick with a food poisoning for the...

    My bf's been sick with a food poisoning for the past 2 days. Been holding his head over a bucket/toilet for the past 36 hours. I've been up with him on and off hours "nursing" him back to health. ...
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    When she dumped, she took control of the...

    When she dumped, she took control of the relationship. Now you're still allowing her to control the relationship and your life by remaining friends and still being there for her. You're only...
  25. Also, I should mention that I'm 30 and my...

    Also, I should mention that I'm 30 and my boyfriend is 25 so I guess I consider us to be in an "adult" relationship. We were together for 3 1/2 years and never broke up before that time. We didn't...
  26. So far success. Broke up for 2 1/2 months. I...

    So far success. Broke up for 2 1/2 months. I never contacted my ex. I did accept his weekly phone calls for about 6 weeks. Then got serious about NC for 4 weeks. (And by serious, I mean I accepted...
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    Good luck! Of course every relationship is...

    Good luck! Of course every relationship is different so yes, if you're girlfriend broke up with you because you didn't pay her enough attention than of course NC wouldn't be right for your...
  28. Question: I'm I pregnant?

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    I don't think "morning sickness" actually starts...

    I don't think "morning sickness" actually starts until around 6 weeks after conception so your vomiting probably is not from that.
  29. You should definitely see a doctor. What you...

    You should definitely see a doctor. What you described on both of you sounds like it could be a yeast infection (with the exception of the cyst). And if it is, you both need to go to a doctor and...
  30. First, relax and breathe! You are not nothing and...

    First, relax and breathe! You are not nothing and he is not your everything. You don't "need" him. You may feel that way right now, but no one really "needs" someone else. But you're right about...
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    Yeah, probably. I get that sometimes too. ...

    Yeah, probably. I get that sometimes too. Shouldn't be anything to worry about. It'll usually go back to normal in a day or two. Good luck!
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    Allergic_1 - How'd it turn out? Did you get your...

    Allergic_1 - How'd it turn out? Did you get your period or take the pregnancy test?
  33. Yes, if you only missed the pills by hours not...

    Yes, if you only missed the pills by hours not days I wouldn't be too worried. The spotting is most likely because of the missed pills. That's common. Good idea though to use the condoms as a...
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    It wasn't faint. It was clearly positive. ( I...

    It wasn't faint. It was clearly positive. ( I took 2 tests and both of them at night when the hormone is supposed to be at the lowest and it was still clearly positive). I think it was the EPT...
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    I took the pregnancy test the 2nd day after my...

    I took the pregnancy test the 2nd day after my missed period and it came back clearly positive. If you're like me on the pill, you know pretty much what day you're going to get your period. If you...
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    Did you use a condom? After an abortion or...

    Did you use a condom? After an abortion or miscarriage, you are very fertile. If you went back on the pill, you should really be using a condom for at least the first month so the pill can take...
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    When I miss a couple of pills or are late taking...

    When I miss a couple of pills or are late taking theml is when I usually have spotting during the month. That's normal. (Your hormones get all out of whack). One time I missed pills and I DIDN'T...
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    Oh, and I forgot. They usually have lotion you...

    Oh, and I forgot. They usually have lotion you can buy there. You should use it.
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    Keep in mind that the lights in tanning booths...

    Keep in mind that the lights in tanning booths are much stronger than the sun. Even people who normally tan can get burnt easily at first. If you really want to do it, ease into it. Don't go the...
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    I can only speak from my own experience but many...

    I can only speak from my own experience but many years ago I dated a guy for about 3 years. During the last six months of our relationship I saw that we were leading down the marriage path and I...
  41. Question: Should I wait?

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    If you're not sure, then you're not ready. Don't...

    If you're not sure, then you're not ready. Don't do it until you're sure you're ready and don't do it with someone you're not in a serious committed relationship. If you do it with the wrong person...
  42. Gosh, how would he feel if you did the same thing...

    Gosh, how would he feel if you did the same thing to him? Whatever his reasons, he lied to you and hurt you intentionally and that's not OK. He shouldn't have to "test your love". How would he...
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    In order to truly be happy and be together, you...

    In order to truly be happy and be together, you need to forgive each other for the breakup. You can't keep torturing yourself or him about it. Once you do that you can look at the present situation...
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    I went through something similar with my...

    I went through something similar with my boyfriend years ago and what most people are saying is true. The more you push,nag,complain about it... the longer he won't want to do it. Nothing puts him...
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    Also, saying "you're moving on" to him and...

    Also, saying "you're moving on" to him and actually moving on are 2 very different things. You need to take control of the situation and that means taking control of your own life. He shouldn't be...
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    You should read some of my posts. I was in a...

    You should read some of my posts. I was in a very similar situation. Together 3 1/2 years, I'm 30, he's 25. We broke up after a blowout and what basically came out was that he still loved me but...
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    I don't think anyone is being bitter of your...

    I don't think anyone is being bitter of your story so I wouldn't take anything personally. I think you might be reading too much into it. I think you just have to remember for like 99% of the...
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    What was the reason for the breakup? Do you...

    What was the reason for the breakup? Do you really think this relationship is worth saving? You need to give some more details. Generally speaking, there's nothing you can do but let things unfold...
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    Similar situation here. We were broken up for 2...

    Similar situation here. We were broken up for 2 1/2 months. I thought I was going to die, but I never let it show. I never contacted him although he called me every so often. I always acted like...
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    Thanks, xraymen. I figured as much. I guess its...

    Thanks, xraymen. I figured as much. I guess its probably something people don't like to talk about it so I was afraid that I was the only one. I figured just leaving it alone and not making a big...
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