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People's libidos change, especially during periods of stress. It sounds as though you're being very pressuring about this (confrontational, etc) which will only make the problem worse.
Be...
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With all the paraphrasing I can muster at the moment, I have to agree with most of the responses in this thread.
While you and Mitch are close and you are his best friend, etc. It's still his...
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You should ask. He needs to deal with the hangups he has about your past and it would be beneficial for the two of you to do this together. Couples therapy is a good way to do this.
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What sort of advice are you looking for?
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Please don't let him convince you that the things you've done in the past are wrong. They are not, they are simply what happened. He needs to learn to accept you as you are, not as you the choices...
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Well I sent it and she msged me back a little while later asking if I wanted to go see the Chicago skyline with her tonight. She had previously mentioned that she didn't think we'd hang out tonight,...
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Oh, I do say them all the time. :) I guess I was just wondering if it was nice to hear during those times though, maybe more so than normal.
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Hi,
All right, for the women out there, I'm going to pose a question that I feel mildly uncomfortable asking, but hey...
My gal at the moment is starting her period and she told me this...
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I wonder if I fall into the doormat area. I do a lot for the girl I'm interested in and always try to make her feel special and wanted. We spend a lot of time together and I always treat her with...
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I'm going to agree with your ex and say that you do need to grow up. First you were passive-aggressive by trying to force change on her by ending your relationship. Then you repeatedly admit to...
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Definitely way out of proportion. You're obsessed with it, and your obsession is creating a rift in your relationship.
When he masturbates or how isn't your business. As Pixie said above, it...
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Isn't this basically the same question you asked in your previous post?
You realize (hopefully) that the question(s) themselves are not accurate? You can't summarize the actions of either sex so...
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I agree. If everyone judged people on their past then no one would ever be with anyone. You've made mistakes and done things you weren't proud of, and so has she.
Accept her for who she is, who...
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There's a difference between love, infatuation and obsession.
Love does not make you do things beyond your control. It should not overpower your willpower. Saying you can't help it is your way...
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Your imagination is not reality.
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This is such a simplistic and unrealistic opinion, and never mind that it's based off a completely false premise. Just to draw out the false information...
?? Where did that come from?
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I'm curious how this translates into "men in relationships" :p
Are all men being judged by this one question?
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It does give them space to miss you. You also have to use the time to work on yourself. Every relationship is a two way street and you made mistakes too. This is a good time to try to get an idea...
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I think your last question sums it up nicely... why are you wasting your time?
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Give her space. You did a large amount of damage by just up and leaving and now it's going to take time to heal and work through.
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What's going on in his world? Stress and responsibilities will play a big role in a man's libido.
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Thank you for your answers. For some reason today I feel upset about this. I think I'm just impatient today.
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Yep, if you push her now and demand more then you'll probably lose it all. Give her the space and time that she needs.
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Well, it's hard to speak for people unknown, but I would think there would be some sort of acknowledgement for it.
The question I really hear you asking is: "Is my ex going to feel as down as I...
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No gender's life is inherently harder than the other. Any thought that they are so is just silly. Men and women each have problems and issues to deal with that are different. Anything beyond that...
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Hi all,
I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now. We spend all of our time together and we get along great. Last night we both started talking and we both admitted feelings for each...
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Just out of curiosity, does your friend know you're airing her personal business on a public website on the Internet? ;)
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Did you talk it out or have a fight? There is a difference.
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My thoughts are that she is very ambitious, but aside from that it doesn't speak to her character or personality at all. She can be a fabulous person or not.
If I were interested in dating her...
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I agree with s_cianci. Instead of worrying at what point the problem becomes out of hand that you have to choose between your husband and son, why not try to solve the problem now and see if the...
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I don't know why you felt you needed to justify your position in the first place. It's all a matter of opinion. It's your position and it's fine :p I'm not entirely sure why you seem to have...
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Ouch. You've never had a rewarding relationship? I feel for you.
Of all the ones I've had, only a few were disappointments. The others I cherish, even though they ended. I wouldn't be who I am...
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You can choose to compare like that, however I would never compare what happened in high school to real life. Teenagers are not what you want to base your idea of relationships off.
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I'm going to go against the grain here... (and give you a male point of view)
Why don't you believe him? If he had gotten his ex pregnant, then that is a considerable commitment. He may not...
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These are very broad questions and simply way over-generalized. Sort of like asking, why do all women say men are pigs? They don't.
Not all men prefer virgins. I would almost agree that young...
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I don't know if I would say it's "rare." In fact, I think it happens more than people think, it's just that we don't hear about it. Remember, people don't come to sites like this when things are...
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Placing any sort of time frame on your relationship's recovery is a bad idea. If she comes to you when you're in school and you don't make time for it, well, then I guess we'll all know where your...
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Ultimatums suck unless they're used in a truly desperate situation, and even then it's a gamble.
If you love him, wait. Love is supposed to be unconditional... not conditional on him saying words...
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Love is patient. This will take longer than you want it to. You have to decide now and every moment from now if you can have the strength and courage and commitment to fight for it and stand by it....
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Educated decision, I would imagine. Not many religions have predetermined arranged marriages.
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Also, (and yes, I've read all the posts in this thread) you need, seriously seriously need, to stop assuming that things are the way you think they are. You talk about your compassion, understanding...
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You made it pretty clear that you want him back too... so you're involved as well. Remember, you dumped him! He didn't dump you, of course he wants you back, he never wanted to lose you in the...
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Wacked... nothing came before girls when I was in school. But... we would multitask! Girls & Grades at the same time~
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And did you start dating him? :P
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If you need further incentive, think about what he's said to you. He doesn't want you to see him like he is. Why? Well, generally people don't want to be seen when they feel ugly. I would imagine...
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Yep, you have to think a little bit about what you're doing. He definitely sounds interested in you, but do you want to be with a guy who will cheat on his girlfriend for you? Wouldn't you want...
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I don't think you need to find someone else, I think you just need to take some action. You don't always have to do what your boyfriend wants. Sometimes you need to meet your needs too.
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Exercise willpower and do not give in to your impulses. Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet. You're going to therapy and you know the things you want and do want, but ultimately NOTHING will...
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There's a fine line between love and having a heart attack ;)
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